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What Do I Get For My Ex- Gf? Or Nothing?

Hello house, had this girl was dating b4, and all a sudden we broke, she said she wasnt feeling me again? and i simply freed her.

Her b'day is around, i wont deny d fact that i still feel something for this girl, but am not one that forces situations, what do you suggest? simply call

her, and wish her happy bday or get a little gift to add and maybe initiate d process again, or simply let things be the way they are.

what do you think? which is best?

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my guy forget about all those maturity talk my other broda don talk and forget that girl, dont think of paying her back or any revenge also dont think of wanting her back because she will just disregard you and throw you into a trash can, even if that might get her back i think she doesnt worth it man, why would you have to go that lenght, i wonder what you are going through now, maybe you are a worker and her thought is making you sick and therefor you can not go to work,

there are many fishing in the river, then next time watch before you dive because love is hard to find at a young age so just have it in mind that you are playing game. When you are ready for marriage, things will get better, on that day of her birthday just go out clubbin fishing other hookers or whatever. dont forget to play safe too,

secondly, your goal in life is to discover where the treasure is and be a real man, remove women as no1 that to be a man is being responsible in term of money and other home upbringing, as i growup i began to understand,

THIRDLY- FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND SEE THE OUTCOME BECAUSE EXPIRIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER

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hello house,

thanks thanks so much for the bunch of advice, looking at d vote count, quite a lot of respectable ppl here suggests a simple call, well here is what i did.

1)first, let me ans. some questions asked by pokerface-- we stopped communicating after d break-up. not once at all,

2) definitely she isnt single after d break-up, cos she said she wasnt feeling me enuf. again(i dont need a soothsayer to know what that means)

3) my motive--wanted to call to say hi, then look at d possibility of maybe a comeback.

Her bday came, and i vanished all tots of d past, simply acted gentlemanly and called her by 9:20pm. She was suprised and asked how i

remembered her bday, told her she's always been on my mind, even wanted me coming down to get her bday cake, i politely declined, we

exchanged niceties, within 2mins call, and dats all, no gift, no luvvy duvvy, just let things be, and had peace at the end of d day!!!

Many thanks to everyone in the house!!!

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It depends on:

-The level of  the relationship you both have after you broke up(Do you still communicate? If yes, How often? How deep is the relationship? Or are you just 'Hi-Hello-Friends'?)

-If she is single(If no, How tolerant is her present man?)

-What  your actual goal is for wanting to wish her 'happy birthday'(Search your heart deeply: Is it to let her know that you secretly want her back?)

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Call and wish her happy birthday.

Then you let her know you have the keys to her dream car and dream home. Deliver them before midnight.

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A call is no bad idea.

but when are we going to let bygones be bygones? Forgotten what happened to Lot's wife in the Bible? Okay i'll tell you: SHE LOOKED BACK AND SHE TURNED INTO A PILLAR OF SALT.

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will send u a msg later on FB

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Just call her and wish her a happy B day

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I go with the idea of sending her a gift.It shows you still regard her without being clingy, even if you still want her back

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dont call her JARE

fashee the babe that sm1 else is digging now

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Make sure that she still single b4 calling or txting.

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well, if she's the one that ended the relationship

Then as a gentleman, all you should do is send an sms at about half 9 on a weekday and half 11 on a weekend

shows although, we split up, i am a honourable guy and wish you well

Dnt u dare buy a gift or call her!!!!!

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Call her and wish her a happy birthday. . . . thats all!!!

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Acknowledge the presence of her birthday, (text) and nothing more.

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wow so sweet! make sure you are the first to call her.

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