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What Do I Tell Her?am Still In Love But:

Please guys i need advice.There's this girl in my school i fell in love with,i asked her out,but she refused to give me an answer,i asked her if she has a boyfriend she said no,so i assumed she was taking her time,she has visited me in my room twice that i've earned her trust.One day i went to her room and her fone rang,after the call the caller said something to her and she said"me too"and the caller insisted that she said"i love u too"so she thought i am a fool,excused me and went out of the room to finish the call.I didn't say a word when she came back except when i told her i was leaving.I left angrily,she called me later that day,i didn't pick,and she never callf again till today,i still didn't pick,so she sent me a text that she is sorry and wants me back,bv my mind is telling me that she wants to use me as a cushion.What should i do?I still like her.

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Thanks ursa,i found ur suggestions very tight.Thanks a lot

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Obinon, 

Why wait to be dumped or to dump ?

Go find a  girl that is free. Leave this one alone to sort out her life.

You would be wasting your time if you are waiting for her.

Just keep her on a hi friends level.

Why invest time and energy with someone who is not free, she would always give you mixed signals

and you would always be compared to the other guy!

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When i say i love her,it's from my heart.I don't have any gf now,and this girl is so gentle that when this happened,the shock silenced me,moreover,don't you think she has a problem with that guy?And if they eventually settle,i will be dumped?That's my fear.

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I think you acted quite immaturely, you should have stayed on to talk things through. If you still like her then meet up with her and talk about what is worrying you.

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Guy, 

she has not committed to you.

You should step now and find your true love.

No need wasting time around women who want to have many guys to choose from.

It is better to work with someone that is heading the same direction as you.

Of course women will tell you that you re immature,  but stepping now is the best option.

See it as , may be she does not want to say no as not to hurt you,  but she really is wasting your time.

You can keep her as friend though, but a woman can be truly committed to one person at a time.

The other people in her life are backup plans

Keep it simple and keep God first.

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