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What Do Ladies Mean After Asking Them Out, And They Say Lets Just Be Friends?

Okay, ladies often use this line - "Lets just be friends", this is usually after asking her out.

what do they realy mean?

Do they mean:

1. Lets be friends, no commitment or anything serious, but we can be foking ourselves when there is the chance

2. Lets be friends, no sex, no commitment, no nothing.

Tell me o, before I miss my chance.

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If she's not playing games, "let's be friends" is just a nice way of saying "I don't want to be in a relationship with you but I feel bad just saying that because you're a nice guy and so I'm going to be nice and throw you a bone (i.e. friendship)." Effing may or may not be included depending on if she's "that kind of girl" (FWB) or not.

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well said vonny bronx dog is just too rough

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she want you to work more harder and later come back to with money,maybe d way she looking at u now,u re not upto re standard.that re reason for say LET ME FRIENDS.

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@ treetop20 you are 100% correct,

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When a Lady says "Lets' just be friends",this indirectly means "half no/half yes",she may want to understand you,get some underground facts about you.May at thesame time be trying your persistence level,because she has numerous admirers whom she comes across on a daily basis.Because Beautiful Ladies attract men like a magnet would do to iron filings.So the game is up to you in mapping out your strategy in winning her over.As she may even be into a relationship,but you have got to sell yourself to her,and also show her that you will be there in TRYING TIMES,because all a Lady needs is the assurance from her Man,and she wants to be proud of her Man.Someone who will be capable,anywhere,anytime.

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I've picked up on your personality based on your responses on most of these posts. I can honestly tell you that it's not appealing, to say the least. Therefore, my advice to you is copy and paste all your responses to these posts, and send it to a woman you are trying to date, and at the bottom of the email ask her "Would you date someone like this?" and that should give you the answer to your question. Good luck.

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Ging you an asignment to use your brain,

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She means:

1. Dont even think about it.

2. U re just a spare tyre like the other guys that tried asking her out and got the same reply.

3. Ok, lets delay the 'yes' answer.

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I guess it depends on the lady.

Personally it either means - i am being polite and don't want to tell you to take a hike

or

Friends is all i am capable of being to you whether or not i am attracted to you or not.

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she may mean;

1) i cant go out with a fool like u and is just saying it politely.

2)she may mean step up ur game, i will be waiting.

3)she may mean no commitment with u.

so pick one.

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She hates your guts! or maybe she loves someone else.

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she cannot imagine even kissing you

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2. No sex no nothing, fuggedaboudit

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as a backup bigtime in case their boyfriend Bleep up .

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