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What Do Men Really Want In Relationships?

My Boyfriend doesn't seem to know what he wants he want. or rather my ex-boyfriend. Today we are good together and tomorrow he tels me that he's done with.Now the slly thing is that i really love this guy.

He's a bad habit

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na sex

no talk too much

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different things depending on the guy but good sex is universal

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i want a faithful girl with a tight Kitty-Cat.-thats all.

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If I truly Love a gurl,the first thing I want from her is fidelity.I don't see any reason why I would leave someone I love if she doesn't cheat on me and still wants me.

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trust but it shld be earned

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Trust, Respect & Loyalty.

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When you look at the faces of men, you see they are different, when you look at their names, you will also see they are different. This goes to say that in relationships, the desire of everyman will definitely not be the same. There are those whose ultimate desire is sex, some for material and financial gains, others for companionship, the list goes on and on, !

Any lady in a relationship with a man, this question comes back and stare her in the face, what does she really want in that relationship?

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Akaraoku$, if you insist on calling me Sugar, then I guess I will have to start calling you Honey.

You cool with that?

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I'm sure all of us know what we want. Its a matter of having the guts to say it out loud & take action!

Personally, i would say that everyone needs to be financially stable whether you are man/woman. No excuses! Some guys are afraid that gals want them only for their $$. It goes both way. There are a lot of financially stable gals out there too.

I agree with Ariblaze. I was one of those gals who has a list like Akaraoku$'s. Then i met a man who changed it all in under 1 month. Unfortunately it didn't work out. I did take the action & initiative, so i won't be looking back ten yrs on n wonder if things would have been different if i'd taken lead!

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@ariblaze,

Good talk but atleast it means we know what we want but women do they really know what they want?

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you have just validated my point

if we ask a million men 99% would say the same thing

yours truly inclusive,but is that what you really want in a relationship? the answer is no

thats what keeps you attracted to her, something else keeps you tied to her,believe me it isn't sex nor her intelligence

it is something both you and i cant fathom,but which married men in love have come to realize know

guy we dont know what we want till we see it, the prayer is this, once we see it may we recognize it and not lose the woman

for in every man's life i doubt you can have 5women who have that very thing we want -- - - -what ever it is

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The gurls who want financial stability,i hope u gurls are equally stable financially.

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@ariblaze,

u speak for yourself ,many men know what they want maybe you don't know what you want,me i wan girl wey dey intelligent,atleast that one the first thing for me and u go dey God fearing that one na 2 and other things fit follow.

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one question 4 y'all(ladies)including d poster DO U KNW WAT U WANT?

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what I want? hmmm let me see, sex, and sex and, oh yeah, more sex!

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@post

in all honesty

very few men know what they want

a picture of what they wan they might know

but the bitty gritty eludes most of us

it takes the grace to recognize what you want in a relationship when you see it

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Steady uninterrupted 24hrs shagging.

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@Sugarmite, u're real dude men!

For guys my analysis is this

1.Personal Hygiene

2.Emotional,Spritual and Psychological maturity

3.Financial stability

4.Good looks

A guy must score atleast 25 for a pass mark

1. @ least 8/10

2.@ 8/10

3.6/10

4.4/10

Total score 26

I put alot of premium on 1 and 2, lol

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1) Physical Beauty (bosom, Bottom, face, figure)

2) Libidinosity (sexiness, feminity, fashion sense, catwalk style, classy sensuality etc)

3) Developed Personality (wifey, good companion, brain power, potential good maternal instinct, culinary skills etc)

I give scores out of ten for each of the 3 categories. A girl must score 21 and above.

But there are threshold scores for being able to get the marriage certificate with me. That is, a girl must not score less than 7/10 for (1), 6/10 for (2) and (3) but overall scores should still be over 21.

Hence scores like this will still fail for marriage certificate, although I could get down with them (fail points are in *):

1) 10/10

2) 9/10

3) 3/10*

Total: 22

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1) 7/10

2) 6/10

3) 6/10

Total: 19*

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1) 5/10*

2) 9/10

3) 8/10

Total: 22

Failure does not mean I will not get jiggy with you. It just means no possibility of marriage.

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@your question poster!

Men want TOTO. Shea u don dey satisfied now?

Ur guy don get wetin im want and im want make u go now, but ur blockhead no dey hear - you no wan leave am!

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