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What Do naija Girls Offer In Relationships?

what do girls offer in relationships?to me,most of them offer absolutely nothing but suck your money,waste your time and use u to feel important.dont know if am wrong o.what do naija babes offer in realationships?

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They offer one very important item he he u know now.

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but u wouldn't mind spending the money ehn

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Wetin Naija guys dey offer sef? Nor be the money wey my papa and mama dey give me already?

Make person hear word jor.

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Yes, there would be peripheral needs of mine that only I would know, but there are core/traditional needs a girl should at worst use her guts to know an average man wants. The peripheral ones will then be communicated.

I can offer myself WHOLE comfort, romance on the other hand takes two. Romance is nice and desired IF IT IS THE RIGHT TIME, not just for the sake of saying one is in one. If it is not the right type, I would happily stay single and have the freedom to do as I like.

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Are you talking about boyfriends or husbands? No let jealousy kill you oh, there is enough to go round. Zipping up will amount to hoarding causing scrambling and making the sugar stick expensive.

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As 4 me i offer luv care nd sincerity. But alot of guyz at there dn't deserves it becos no matter hw u try as girl 2 luv care nd be sincere 2 them, they will still hurt u. So my qtn is wat is their prblm dat they can't keep their Joystick one place nd zip-up?

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Must you guys complain about naija girls all the time? Wtf!

You guys are screwed. Get a life dudes!

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all they offer is stress and the highest thing they can give to you is p*u*s*s*y

even to get the p*u*s*s*y na problem, u go sweat tire.

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@OP,Maybe the girls who have something to offer dont see what they want in you, so they steer clear.

Take it from a woman who knows, if a woman knows she is offering more than the basics, if she ventures into a relationship she is very particular about the man she starts one with. If she doesn't think you can fulfill her in the same measure she wont even see any reason to venture into a relationship with you.

In fact the last Nigerian man I was in a relationship was the one who could only offer intimacy, (though I declined the offer). I flat out asked him what he had to offer in our relationship and he said intimacy is the only thing he knows he is good at, so I just walked away amicably. Why waste our time?

So you see, it works both ways.

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Geez now my mind is wondering what the PS3 means.

Play station 3iangle?

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My girl will tell me the truth if I'm not.

Proper sexy 3some

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LOL@ a relationship, especially with a Nigerian woman, let alone any black woman.

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Relationship is suppose to be natural therapy? I think yes. I don't know about Nigerian girls but I do know about my girl. She offers more than friendship. Some girls just think if they are dating a guy all they have to be is his girlfriend which is offer toto at will, ask for money and just being his girl  blah blah blah. The society has always been about what girls want but what men want is as important as what girls want. It's not just about finding the perfect person, it's also about being the perfect person too.

Read this post people, this guy's story is touching.

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-417806.0.html

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@ Sagamite, I think you have set a certain starndard for girls 'offerings' in relationships.

Kindly bear in mind that you, you and only you, are the only one who knows what you really want. No one will, in any way, completely satisfy your predestined standards whilst they don't know what you want.

Furtheremore, i don't think that you can offer yourself WHOLE [/i]comfort[i] and [/i]romance[i], maybe just a part of it, if any at all. However, if you still think that you are still 'self sufficient', then maybe that should sponteneously suggest that there's no reason for you to be in a relationship yet. And that should not mean that girls don't offer anything in a relationship, but rather, you still can provide yourself with EVERYTHING you need. Finally, I would advice you to be out of relationships - until gainful opportunities arise (and that's the time a girl will deem necessary in your life). And when that time comes, if it will ever come anyway, clarify your needs to your girl, so she can know what is expected of her, and that's when you'll start enjoying what God's special and limited creations - girls - can offer in relationships bro.

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hmmmmmmmmmmm,so many talk about the niger girl,lets face it in life home abroed or where ever, as a person ,i believe ur kind of person attract same kind of persons , out there. so to mr or master johnwotever u are still meeting ur kind of pple so take ur time to knw what u want act it and u will get it.and plz stop wt the am commited bulllllllllsht u are not.

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U ask the question and u have already answered it. U are missing the point, its free for all why should she care that he might be a maga to another woman

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just like the ladies need to ask what the naija guys offer in relationships, so that way they both know wat is expected from each other in the relationship

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oh for crying out loud

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hehehehehe

its cos ur nt doin it properly!

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One tall and pretty Naija babe from Bonny Island go London and buy me nice clothes (including underwear).

One sent me a gift bag with two books and pack of juice.

The list is long oh!

So Naija gals offer you more than Sexual healing.

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See your head like Emeka Okafor mould of eba

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And blister catch you for mouth

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keep waiting, they are coming to answer you

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No need to lie on top imaginary friend.

just say what you gotta say and be a woman. if you wasn't trying to spread your friends gospel and you didn't buy into it you wouldn't be here regurgitating the madness.

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Ok my frd gave me this reply , guys pls dont get so worked up abeg!

What naija girls offer in relationship!

1. Pray & fast for the idiotic boyfrd dat does not deserve it

2. Quarrel with her frds and try to defend the Olodo boyfrd.

3. Wrongs us chics a million times and we still 4give them.

4. Calls him plenty times and he sees it as disturbance.

5. Cook.

6. Wash.

7. Carry their wahala for head.

8. Clean his clutter apartment.

9. Organise their life.

10. Nice to their wicked/bitchy mother that doesnt like us.

11. They cheat on us and we 4give them.

12. Their silly mistress/girlfrd call us names and all that.

13. We forfeit our fathers name and bear their local name.

14. We always give them something to argue about (to increase their olodo IQ)

15. We help them remember thing they 4get even their own birthdays, and even their wicked mothers birthday!

16. Satisfy their unending desire for sex, pretend to enjoy it even when they are like a bag of garri on us!

17. Get pregnant for them and be sick cos we r carrying their child, nd get fat in the proces!

18. Take care of the child and still take care of them with our backs, legs, body paining us!

19. Entertain their excessive and call it being submissive.

My guess if they had 4gotten to put that part of being submissive in the bible am sure by now all the president in the world will be women, cos we perfom better and the men surpress us by telling us to be submissive that thats wat the bible says!

So we r stuck with that slogan anywhere we go '' you ve to be submissive thats the only way ur marriage will work'' , blah blah blah b, t!

, Seriously this is from my frd!

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Lol maybe if they grew up around men who were raised in the boonies they would know better.

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Hasyak EXACTLY!

@honeric01 NO! I do NOT support Eldees belief that women are about money, heck I dont agree with 90 percent of what he says i was just saying it was cute how he did it. it was funny.

lol@ Gabry, that explains it.

@H20 i will not deny some men are definitely real and respect women only to NOT get it in return, however I am going to be bold enough to say that ALOT of men are for the most part the reason why alot of money hungry and fake women behave the way they do. How? you get a woman based on her looks, you may not necessarily love her and you know she doesnt love you however she "looks good on your arm". Her friends see her going shopping, driving the latest cars, and being pampered and as a woman do NOT think she wont brag about it, so her SHALLOW friends want a peice of the pie! Do you think it will be hard for them to find some loser cruising in his range rover with jewelry waiting for the next "jumpoff/ trophy girl"?

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after going thru this tread i found out that the guys are not satisfy with what the ladies are offering, so what do the guys really want the ladies to offer?

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than why u mention his name? I did not mention Baba Ngozi was wrong either?

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I never said i was baba Ngozi or did i?

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you must be really waiting to hear what you want to hear abi?

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A woman wouldn't marry a man that can't care for her or that she doesn't feel secure with. Most women won't go after men that are not financially stable or rich so that addresses the support part. Understanding is subjective so is affection, which we provide in form of sex lol. Obviously we can't give you the motherly love because we ain't women so . . . .

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so u agree with eldee that women are what the formula stated?

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a REAL WOMAN offers support, affection, care, understanding and a motherly-like love from the soul. She may not be perfect but she is willing to do for her man. Whether or not men can do the same is the REAL question lol.

@ Eldee you are a GENIUS for that breakdown that was cute.

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90% ke? That high? Im sorry but today most of the people go to jail is due to drugs. And when research better and further, its because men needs money to build himself a future. Thats what they answered. Not because of women.

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Quite frankly too u will see some die hard Ladies willing to give their eyes up for em.

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Another thing is that, frankly, there are a lot of useless and hopeless naija men that do not deserve any offer.

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Some got things to offer,some don't just follow ur guts.

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I am a rider. I am down for whatever ever you want, just as long as it's legal. If he sick, I'm there for him, if he need encouragement, him here for him, if he's hungry, I'll feed him, if his feet hurt, I'm gonna massage them, if he's tense, I'm gonna rub his back and loosen his shoulders,if he falls on hard tI'mes, im gonna be there for him and help him get back up. When he just wants to be alone, I will give him space. Sex is good,but its not everthing. Because you can't sex your way through life and relationships. What about when you get up and wash up, Then what. It takes more than sex to please me. You have handle your business and know how to treat me .

Not just anyone will receive from me, you have to prove to me that you are special.

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Thank you.

So many girls nowadays overvalue themselves, thanks to their stuupid magazines.

Beyonce is telling them "to the left, to the left" but she get her own bobo that she looks like a puppy dog next to. O oh oh, o oh oooh oh, uho oh oh oh o!

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I dont mind doing the entire spending in a relatioship but i think the person i am spending on should worth every single penny. It is extremely funny when some ladies think all they have to offer a guy is their body. Well that seems bad enough right? What about the so called immature,demanding,spoilt 'virgins' who have absolutely nothing to contribute to a brothers life.

I have been reflecting on this same topic for months now and to be very honest: majority of naija girls have absolutely nothing to make a positive impact in a brother's life in a relationship.

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for me women are nothing just nothing

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Well, i don't really need this because my Nigerian girl is just the perfect one for me, so maybe the unlucky ones should read this and see if they can make do with this.

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They will learn if you show them how to, and you have to do it with patience and action, and you have to lead by example, I know a lot of them will offer a lot more if they what it takes(money), how to(knowledge), and when to(time), be patient, its worth it. They also have a heart that is yearning to take care of you

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And when would that be if truly they have anything to learn?

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Leave Nija Ladies Alone, they will learn someday

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It's easy to see the guys who have been dumped by a Nigerian woman. Hardly the point though. If you attract girls who have nothing to offer, you're either looking on the surface or offer nothing yourself.

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