mine is the tv remote
he wants to watch sports and i want soaps
Sistawoman i admired you, i and my partner argue over my going to work he wants me to stay at home, i hate it too when he comes home in the evening and stay for long without taking his bath, he will eat and lie in the parlour for hours . He hardly apreciates my hairdo and we argue about that alot.
So many things.
The stupidest of them all
may have been the argument about times of the day.
We started getting heated and detailed about exactly
what hours of the day qualify as what terms-Evening,Afternoon,
Morning,Night etc. I think it began when he suggested that 5pm was
night,and i disparaged him and said it couldnt possibly be night,because the
sun doesnt go down until after 5pm. Then,it just went on and on,growing into detail
and specifics until it became quite ridiculous.
But mainly we argue again and again over talking.He insists that i never talk enough, or want
to talk often enough. I insist that he talks entirely too much,to the point that i want to pull my hair out
That may or may not qualify as a silly argument,Usually it feels silly,but at least it has a purpose,
Irritating though it is.
the fact that he thinks i think(that does'nt look right but woteva) i know everything.my hubby thinks i am too opinionated and that i argue alot even though i think i am much better than when i was younger.Also the fact that he thinks i shop alot even though i am the best bargain hunter you can ever find.We also argue about the fact that he thinks' i am tired' does not really mean 'i am tired'.anyway still love him all the same and i think the arguments spice up things a little cos i definitely would not want to be in a one opinion counts marriage.
Thanks. I love him so much, God has prepared me all my life for this man. He is a man in every sense of the word. I am in a place and space that I can appreciate what I have, submit to him and love him with my whole heart.
I have always been the control freak, wanting it my way and only my way but with him it is different. It feels great to let go of that control and trust that he will take care of it. There is nothing that i have asked of him or not asked of him that he has not done. Everytime i think of him, which is all day long, i smile, everytime i see him i smile there are butterflies in the pit of my stomach even when i know he is coming over. he can drop me off one minute and the next i am missing him. All i can talk about it him. I LOVE MY KING and in less than 48 hours I take his last name.