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she was my first serious relationship 5yrs back,

she skools in unijos, a medical student and we have hardly said 10words to eachother in 5yrs.

i cant even remeber the last time she called in 3yrs, and suddently she sends me a txt saying,

" u know whats presently happening in jos, and u dint bother to call or testx, soo much for caring".

i tried to call almost immediately, she picks up and tells me never to call her again.

am confused, did i do something wrong?

for the records we have not spoken atall this yr.

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after the dont call me again talk, have you tried calling her?

what exactly would you like to get from her if you guys decide to resume proper communication?

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i'll tell u wat,

i dont really remember her b-day, am not sure what mnth she was born anymore.

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and when it was her's did you return the text?

i meant after today calling did you call/text her again?

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in january this yr during my buffday,

she sent a message tru my friend. dats a,ll

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after that call did you call or text again?

did she buzz at all?

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men i no know ooh.

beliv me, but i wont put it past her cos the last time she tried calling me 3yrs back,

she had to call my elder bro for my number ( changed my no's then) who was even in a diff state from me then.

well i guess

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but guy u self look d issue now.

i even went as far as crediting my fone wen i got d text so i wud have talked for long uniterrupted,

just incase something did happen to her reallly.

me dey even plan to make her feel relaxed , not like am compelled too.

then this miss i know how to shush my bf comes here given me some crappy talk.

dem tell u say becos we don do b4 means say we must keep intouch?.

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hehehehe mehn dude where the babe been keep your number all this while?

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hehehe guy easy attack am na

she's only trying to help

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easybabe,

u dey read, wats ur problem self.

some1 sent a txt and i tried to responsd, how did i offend her.

now i know why ur bf dey get restless nights cos of ur way of thinking.

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he na wa oh

izk you still de wonder on the matter?

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She is just trying to make a fun out of you, Guy be careful.

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er , ma armour don rust tey tey

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@jj ,

so make i send am western union shey?

u try wella did u see my littleton, or mr butterfield by my name?

i be proper african man.

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o boy go propose quick. or send western union

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strange things are happening oh, na wa 4 relationship oh, well u see what they talk about sex and its soul connection, even though feminine ego wont let her losen up to call you, but her soul still loves you and i guess is the same for you too, that was why u called her, its happened to me too although in a different way

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@apo

i can see u have taken up my course,

go on jare my lancelot knight of shinning armour.

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What does she expect , 1 year of silence - from both sides - and she expects you'll still be counting sheep for her when she gets back . Bro , unless families have already been involved and concrete plans have been made for a future with her , I don't think anyone would wait on such.

If you don't care , what happened to all those months of silence when she didn't bother to call or get in touch with you , or is it only the man's duty to do the calling and petting

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well i think by now she shud have some1 else,

let her hassle the guy jare.

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Sorry am far from civilization ( with a system and internet connection ) and I only got to know about the Jos incident , really I don't bother with such things when am online.

Back to the topic , I feel you should let things be and don't bother to call her because from your post you don't dig her anymore

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what the heck , why do you have to modify my post

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@apolcalypse,

when issues like the one in jos errupts,

the first person u get in touch with is family b4 boyfriend, or even ex.

moreso her popsy works in abuja, so he shud be her first port of call.

how did i now fail hyer in any way?

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Girls like attention

U were wrong u should have called.

If u have time, call her and beg.

If u dont at least send a txt.

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@izeek

What I'd like to know  is , what is happening in Jos?

are you sure she wasn't/isn't in any kind of problem and might have thought you heard about it without giving a rats Bottom what she's going thru.

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@drwhopl,

how e take be my fault,

when we split it was majorly her decision.

i had no fault bliv me.

am not saying cos am feeling good, but check am now,

guy in his 19's 20's dating every guys dream girl, dontu think i wud have done all to keep her?

she listened to outside voices alot and it killed every.

although sometime back she tried getting back, buti turned it down cos she said waht pissed me off.

her reason for re-union was def sex related again and i was not gonna do it cos of sex.

well now she calls and laments like i was supposed to be keeping tabs on her to know when all is bad or not.

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@ moyola

nah i wudn't . been a long time.

and am not a fan of dragging the past into the future.

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you and the girl no try at all,i think the problem is from both sides.as for the girl she should shut up and act nice,if the crisis didn't happen would she have called you?guy think am well.

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Sorted!!

doesn't seem you'd wanna get back with her, text her again, if she replies. . . . good, if she doesn't better. . .

You need not bother jare!

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yes na my ex.

but to be candid i guess sex held us more than anytin else.

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@steve,

we split cos of peer pressure and material issues,

i was still skooling then while she wanted more than i can give.

now am working and well its too late cos it wud just be for money or so i think.

@ moyola,

well i can't leave my job for any reason.

i have tried calling she aint picking. i have sent her a txt saying telefoning is a two way street.

if i was not on one lane, she shud have been on the other.

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do u remember to call all ur ex's ,

seriously i forgot she is based in jos.

so when all the bla bla bla was going on, it skipped my mind.

but atleast she dint need to go over-board.

she for just skold me wen i called and not tell me never to call her again.

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txt her or visit her asap!

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hehehehehe na wa for situations we de come up oh

mehn she's just acting up thats all i can say about her saying you shouldnt call her again

she just wants attention back again maybe she has issues with the almighty boyfriend

mehn you did nothing wrong, just an act to get you thinking

are you ready to be close to her again ? if yes call am or text am later

if no then let her be mehn

why did you guys depart in the first place?

who's fault was it?

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You should have aleast called.

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