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What Do Women Really Want?

what at all do women want? is it love, care, money or mindblowing sex?

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Wat women really want? Dat's a billion dollar question. I doubt if dey demselves even know wat dey really want. It keep changing from situation 2 situation, time 2 time and woman 2 woman.

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@Tranngirls,

U did a very good job on dat and i truly hope u have a guy who will appreciate u cos wot u need ain't wot guys cannot afford,unlike those that consider a posh ride,lots of cash and fancy places as wot they want.

As for wot women want,the answer differs from woman to woman.Some like u very romantic,some don't.Some like poems,some don't.Some like outings,some don't.Some like gifts,some don't.Some like u to go down on them,some don't.But the basic thing every woman want are ATTENTION(whenever they need u,just be there),LOTS OF CARE(do things for them not cos they are sick but cos they are jewels),SHOW OF AFFECTION(look into her eyes),LOTS OF AFFIRMATION(tell her "i love u" alot).These are not all,so just take your time to study your woman,study her very closely cos they are very complex! I'm outta 'ere.

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@TOPIC: What Do Women Really Want?

Even Albert Einstein Cannot Answer That Question.

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IN A NUTSHELL GIVE HER ALL SHE WANT AND YOU GET THE SURPRISES OF YOUR LIFE .IS THAT?

SHE START UNFOLDING ALL THE SECRETS SHE`S BEEN HIDING ABI?I DONT AGREE WITH THAT!

GUYS ARE MOSTLY THE EXPLORERS WHY THE GALS JUST FORM AS IF THEY DONT KNOW NOTHING OR IF THEY WANT TO PRETEND THEY`VE JUST BEEN THOUGHT , WELL SORRY GALS YOU ARE LOW SPIRITED PEOPLE

EXCEPT FOR SELECTED FEW LIKE TRANN. WHO HAS LONG BEEN OUT OF THEIR SHELLS.

COME ON AND GET SERIOUS GALZ TIME IS BEING WASTED.

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The absolute best answer here is , "women are confused mammals"

trying to find out what they want is like banging your head on the wall

n thats y i dont give a **** what they want, i just do me, n if she is down

with my flow cool, n if not God bless her, i'm not gonna change who i am for nobody,

the same woman that will tell you, " i want me a good, nice, caring, sensitive guy and will end up dating a total opposite of what she

claims i.e (a bad boy, thug)

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@tranngirl i love ur opinion,most nigeria guys dont really know what women want or need.I always find it difficult to trust my girl despite all sha has done to convince me.She always try to please me and surprise me but most times i find it difficult to appreciate or say thank u for little things she does due tomy ego and pride and cos i want her to know im in charge.I think what a woman need from us is Care,love and affection,just for her to know that u will be there for her always,and make sure u call her and surprise her with some little gifts not neccessarily expensive).Thanks Trann

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Wow the most respctful video I have ever seen. I guess we are proud of being bitches!

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Sometimes I do not know what a woman wants. As sometimes too, a woman does not know what I want. We are all complex beings.

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WELL MY FRANKNESS MAKES ME HATED BY ALOT OF PEOPLE ON NAIRALAND SO LET US JUST SAY THERE ARE FEW GIRLS LIKE ME OUT THERE AND FOR YOU QUESTION IT IS HARD TO ANSWER. WE LIKE YOU NOT TO KNOW WANT THE WANT BY NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT THEMSELVES UNDERSTAND(I AM A WOMAN SO BEAR WITH ME). IF I DONT KNOW WHAT I WANT THAT YOU CANT KNOW SIMPLE. YOU MEN KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND YOU GO FOR IT SO WE ALSO KNOW WANT YOU WANT SO WE WILL NOT GIVE IT TO YOU UNTIL YOU PROVE YOURSELF THAT IS WHERE ROMANCE COMES IN. IF YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND NOW, JUST PET HER THAT IS ALL I CAN TELL YOU NO MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS TO YOU JUST PET HER. SHE WILL DO ALOT OF THINGS LIKE SHOUT ON YOU BE ANGRY FOR NO REASON AND A WHOLE LOT OF THINGS, JUST SAY "I LOVE YOU' UNTIL SHE CALMS DOWN. YOU DONT NEED TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN JUST KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM.

I HOPE THAT HELPS YOU

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One way I piss off my girlfriend when shopping is to tell her -

Then I walk away - SEE vexation!! Girl gets so damn confused!![quote][/quote]

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CONTROL, men want control, unfortunately the desire for control is like the need for power - one can never have enuf it

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@Tranngirl:

hi,I am new here and i think i like your frankness.  was running thru ur contributins on several issues you are good.However concerning this issues of treating your gal i think you need to do more cos what females wants most times confuses guys. i have also discovered that you females are unpredictable when it comes to dicision making,romance and etc. just pour out more dat all i ask for .thanks and hav a nice day.

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lo , I think that is your bussiness

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if you follow a girl with money she will do the same, of course there are

girls that r interested in ur money alone, as a guy u should know those

type of girls n stay away. But a normal girl ( which is hard to define) will

want attention sometimes it costs money (time is money)

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@ Tranngirl

I beg to differ. . . Ur post is more like 'the way itz supposed to be' rather than the way it is.

Girls are ONLY interested in a dude cashability and nothing else! A few do appreciate compliments and attention, but MONEY is # 1!

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This is what women what

Well guys I’m going to try and help you understand females. I may not know what all females want but I do know from being a female and from my female friends that we have a lot of problems with what the guys think they have to do to please us.

If you guys out there really want to know how to please a female and I’m not just talking about in the sexual way then read this and I guarantee it will help out.

First of all, All woman love romance we love to know that you have put a lot of thought into pleasing us the one thing you guys always mess up on is the excuse I couldn’t do it because of money or because I didn’t have the time. First of all it does not take money to plan a romantic evening. Here are a few ideas. Take her to a park bring a radio and picnic food with you but make sure to add some Intimate food in with the rest like, strawberries, grapes, oranges and whip cream. If you have a bottle of wine bring it along with glasses. Play some slow music and poor a glass of wine for both of you. The Intimate fruit is there for feeding each other. Try and tell her on that day what she means to you and what you think about her and if you want you can tell her what part of hers turns you on females like to know they please you.

Another thing you can do is find an open field turn on the radio and the head lights and get out of the car and ask her for a dance it’s romantic to be in the arms of the person you love, while beneath the stars.

Another problem I have heard about from a lot of females is guys don’t buy them anything for their anniversary because they said they didn’t have the money to or what they want to get was to expensive right now. First of all females don’t care about how much something cost what we care about is the fact of how much thought you put into it and if it comes from the heart. Make a card and put your feelings down in it or write what you would like to do to her in it. Write a coupon book with things you would do like “I will give you a thousand kisses but not two can be in the same spot”. Light some candles if you have them if not turn a lamp on and throw a thin cover over it and turn on some slow music and take her into your arms. That all it takes

Now when it comes to the sexual part females like be shown how much she turns you on. First of all the one thing I have heard that a lot of females have complained about is you guys always want a Mouth Action but don’t go down on her half as much as she does you. Or that you guys don’t take your time on feeling her or rubbing her. Guys listen up females are as just as sensitive as you are in that area or maybe more we always hear it makes my tongue tired or it hurt or my tongue is numb well guys here is the truth giving you head is not easy why not get a pickle or cucumber and try it and see what I mean. Our mouths get tired and numb and sore but we still go on because we want to please you. Also take time to enjoy your partner’s body take time to find the sensitive areas find out what she likes and don’t like find out what makes her moan or what makes her scream and the way to do that is to explore and take your time doing it. And I guarantee you your partner will thank you deeply later.

Another thing you guys may not know or understand is females have low self esteems most of the time they need to be told how you feel they need to know you desire them and that you think they are pretty or beautiful. They love to be complimented like for examples your lips are like a fine wine, your hair shines like the morning sun, and your eyes are like the stars at night things like that.

I think there are only a few guys out there who truly know what a woman wants out of you. Why is it so hard for you to do simple things like calling your girl on your lunch break or writing a sweet note and sticking it somewhere you know she will find it how hard is it to pick up a rose on the way from home from work? Well I think I will end this now it will be continued later please leave feedback to let me know what you’re thought are and guys if you have a problem with this leave feedback about it and let me know why this stuff is so hard for you.

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We are the whole world

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well since you all want the whole world, what will be left for us?

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what do gurls want? hmm that question, well like i said earlier, they need affection, but there's one thing i realised about most ladies, they dont like the very very good guy, i mean perfectly good, the guy who does everything and no single quarrel comes up, they need a good/bad guy, what d heck, the fact is that they need us, MEN

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do d exact opposite of wat a woman tells u and u ave got her hooked. its that simple

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The basic and primal needs for women is:

Attention and Appreciation!

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most of the women end up with labels like baby mamas, video hos, trailor trash, and sluts. who ends up marrying them? dead-beat broke a$$ n***s. Especially after several abortions. If she's pretty enough she gets to become a video vixen or a model, and she still gets taxed backstage by these "players" who are now her boss.

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Most of the men end up paying child support, end up getting played

or probably end up with the wrong women.

And we still wonder why some divorces occur

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Because they're afraid of being played?

So you'll rather stay single than to risk finding the woman for you?

Mehn, those men have no backbone.

And most times, before she don play you finish, she can be detected. Her deceitfulnesses can be detected, but you know as they say, love is blind. Some people just don't want to admit that they're being played. They keep in the relationship, keeps smiling like dummy.

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And when they do go after it, they end up with deceitful women.

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Attention,Affection,TLC, d list is endless

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After reading thru 3 pages of comments made yesterday by the men I really feel sorry that most of these men have experienced the love of a real WOMAN.

Love and romance dont have to go hand in hand, just my thought, but it is nice to have love and romance. And some women, like myself, require romance in our realionships. If your woman is confused and not sure what she wants from day to day or moment to moment then you need to stop calling her a woman and call her what she is a GIRL. Because with maturity comes clear thought and the ability to reason and understand and distinguish the difference between what you want and what you need.

Additionally by dating, a woman and man for that matter, learn just what they will accept, need and want in a mate. It is really only thru trial and error that one finds out what makes them happy in a lifelong mate. This is why most young marriages fail. What you think you want at 17 is not what you grow to need at 25.

Any relationship is a give and take and as long as the eb and flow of a relationship is one that is even, not one sided then the marriage/relationship will work. I love my husband with my whole heart and would give my very life for his and I know he would do the same. After 33 years on this planet I knew exactly what i wanted in my life mate and he is exactly that for me. He is a MAN and as long as that never changes I will continue to be a WOMAN for him.

Romance does not have to cost a man a thing. You know that touch in the small of my back as i stand at the stove cooking dinner, rubbing my feet after a long day at work, leaving work early because you hear me crying on the phone after a huge fight with my cousin, sending me SMS in the middle of the day, packing a picnic lunch and surprising me at work. These are just some of the romantic things my husband has done for me and I in turn have done several romantic things for him. It is these things that cost nothing but a little bit of time that I will remember forever, it is these memories that I will pass on to our grandchildren.

Let me stop here as my eyes are filling with tears thinking of how much i love my KING.

I hope that one day you too will get to know what true love, love from your soul feels like. To feel your soul connect with another is so amassing something that just cant be described in words only felt in your soul.

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Still dont know what women are doing on planet earth? I suggest they tie them up and sen em away to Venus!

Confused lot of people, women are very confused.

they want romance, attention, love, care, affection and MONEY. After working yourself to death when will you have time to satisfy those needs?

Women are very selfish and only think about HOW they feel and not a care about their partners' emotion. Everything has to be about them

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To me I believe all they need is love and understanding

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Even if men know what they need, many do not have the sense to go after it

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@mesmerize

im already ahead of you. these men are hopeless. let them continue to think the way they do. but they will see point sooner or later.

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Oyinye, you tried baby. . you should stop now

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LET ME INTERPRET THAT COMMENT TO A LAYMAN'S LEVEL.

THAT I ONYINYE2, WANT MORE THAN A GOOD Fxck EVERY NOW AND THEN, BUT, I ACTUALLY WANTS MORE THAN A GOOD fuXK. I CAN DO WITHOUT IT, BUT IF I DON'T HAVE A GOOD FZCK, THERE WOULD BE A PROBLEM IN IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

WHAT AN INCORRIGIBLE STATEMENTS OF INCONSISTENCIES.

JUST ADMIT IT.

ALL WOMEN WANTS IS A MAN WITH A 12" RIMS ON HIS RIDES.

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Ladies are you sure that is all you need? That mus thave been the question right from the creation of Eve and we are still searching for answers till this day

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good thank God u said some women and not all

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SOME WOMEN ARE SO HEMMN, SHOULD I SAY "silly", THAT THEY WILL KEEP A MAN WITH A GOOD RODD ON LEASH, AND WORK TO TAKE CARE OF HIM, AND PAY HIS BILLS TOO.

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@esss

the webster definition of love is,

a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

but in my personally definition is when you love someone, you feel what they feel. when they hurting, you hurt too. you can't bare to see them feel that way. like with my best male friend. i known him since way back. and i love him to death. ever since we were young, when he saw me crying, he would always cry too. because he feels the pain i feel.

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THIS IS NOT AN "IRAQI ATTACK" ON WOMEN IN GENERAL. BUT, THE REALITY IF THE FACTS IS THAT MOST WOMEN ARE JUST TOO silly TO BE CALLED WOMEN, BECAUSE THEY ARE EXCEPTIONALLY AND NATURALLY INCORRIGIBLE

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Esss i remember how much u always talk about your baby girl i mean your lover or sweetheart,and when u talk about her there is this excitement written allover your replies ,u adore and cherish her like no mans business,infact if d phone rings and its her u heart jumps out of gladness and joy(all this were ur replies on some threads,ive even forgotten some)

wt all this things have said ,do u still need d definition of love?

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I am always depressed, and it has nothing to do with love.

Please define love?? I am dying to heard a definition of love that makes sense.

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@esss

you forgot the part of true happiness. there is no life with out love. you go throw life just living not feeling. love keeps the heart pumping and the soul thriving. those you live a life of no love, live a life of depression.

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I have Loved (or what I tought was love), I have lost it, I have hurt, and gone through the same cycle times without number and I can tell you it does not exist.

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anyway i rest my case here,u can belive watever u wanna believe

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