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What Do Women Value Most In Men?

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i have been wondering this question over and over again in my mind. Please can someone answer this question for me; "What do women value most in men?" and vice versa.

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I don't know why men always have the notion that we girls always seek money from men! What I desire most in a man is a man who listens to me,not listening with a conditioned mind, its not all about the talking its about comprehension. I undrstand that words means differently btw d sexes but a man shld try and key into a womans's thought process vise versa. I like intelligence, maturity and a man who plays his role as a man, taking the lead and not him trying to exact his manhood! Education is very essential ooo !

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what the first phylosopher says such will the last repeat- Henry Thoreau. All women chant the same mantra when it comes to a topic of this sort, what you hear is "a man that is God fearing, bla bla bla, " Love is not always substantiated, its dynamic.

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I value honesty and respect.

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D only tin a man wants from a woman-is Womanliness

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singing: . . . make you yarn dem the koko. . .

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banana{oko,boli,epon,egba}

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Women value good and nice working men,any hardworking man find a good wife.

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okay make i hit you up

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abi oooooooooo, any way how you dey now

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amaikama, nothing do you joooooooooo

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I value my man's LOVE and CARE. The way he handles different situations and pay great deal of attention to me. I love all these and value it most.

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speak for your women!

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women value two things 1.money 2.a long thing

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The most thing that women value in men is "MONEY".

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I love adventurous guys, guys that are not scarared of trying new things. Attention, honesty and a little bit of rough edges! I love my guy to be naughty for me that anytimee i think if him a shiver runs down my spine! Yummmmmy!

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Jesus is the answer to marriage problems

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attention and sincerity

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what kind of disaster?

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the caring nature of good men are appreciated by any rational woman. though women do take advantage of this over men, which in turn amounts to disaster.

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it is still related because women may like their men to be drunkards aor men may like their women to be drunkards. Also there is no harm in digressing a bit.

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leave your mum out of this. You are a grown up and can decide what you want to do. Nothing goes for nothing. Even if you are laughing, at a point you will get tired and feel dizzy. health risk is not to be classified as penalty. it is just side effects.

eat too much food and the result you become sick.

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Unless they poured the alcohol into her mouth while she was asleep, the fault cannot be on her friends because like I said before, you can always say no.

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it is because there is a penalty to pay and you are not the daring type. As for drinking there is no penalty, so she can be pressurized to drink.

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not all persons are strong-willed and it depends on the association you keep.

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many boasted abt going to Nikes/ Sawgrass Lakes Mall to steal. . .

sometimes I wonder, what if you get caught? going to jail for a pair of $150 shoe? wow!

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Even with peer pressure, you can always say no.

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Hmmmmmmmm. . .peer pressure? at 19? darl, stop am o. .

that's high school drama!

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because of peer pressure? it happens all the time in other aspect of our lives. Is like asking why did you braid your hair if it is paining you? it is all because of peer pressure.

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women value their personalities,I.Q too

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as if u don't know that men behave they do because of women. Women influence everything. Have u not heard of 'bottom power' before?

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I did not mean an artificial one. i meant the natural God Given Gift to the feminine world

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Michelin, that wasn't directed at ise. I was saying how I enjoy hearing your perspectives but you are so spontaneous that at the back of my mind I'm wondering if you were at that moment in cloud 7.

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money can buy u a penal enlargement

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Michellin.

why drink in the first place?

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is it only managing? Why not treasure it. money can't buy that.

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i can manage the fat manliness, so long as there is good potential for very fat pocket in the near future

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what if it has only fat privates without fat pocket?

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isit weed like ganja? If ganja, I dont smoke but eat them.

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i value a fat dick and a very fat pocket

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Lmao, you are crazy. I always enjoy your perspective on issues, though you are controversial. A quick question for you, do you smoke weed?

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are you saying that women are prone to be extravagant with regard to money?

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Shawtie, I didn't ask u for one. I'm giving you one.

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Lmao@michelin, u owe me an Bottom whipping, ya short sef!

@ise, I am not talking about chores. I don't make make decisions when I change oil or tire in the care. Its a need and must be done. I'm talking about managing money, going on a trip, buying jewelry, , things that can affect our joint resources. You with me now?

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Who told you they are not grown up? In my own perspective, I believe it's the men that spoil their women and then when they are spoilt they turn around and harrass them.

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*yawnnnnnnnn*

Whinning men as usual!

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"I listen to my wife but I don't yield decision making to her" is bullshit. Do you decide the foodstuff she buys in the kitchen after listening to her proposal? Do you decide the meals she cooks for your children? Do you decide her job for her? Come on, stop treating women like kids. Let them grow up.

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Uhmm, Uche I love that man/woman narrative. Women do not love politics but they are political. You have to wonder, for a group of people notoriously known for high promiscuity, how is it that politicians, successful and unsuccessful ones, have a comparably low divorce rate? Amber said it best, employ tact and diplomacy. I listen to my woman but I don't yield decision making to her. I make the decisions. If the outcome is good I give her the credit. If it fails I say to her,

honey, it was all my fault, 'should have listened to your wisdom. Debo,you are right, women are confused.

@post, what women value most in men is someone who understand their political nonsense and can be firm with them but also is soft enough that in spite of his own ego, he is able to embrace and mirror their needs.

Women, we love y'all.

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