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What Do You Enjoy Most About Being Single?

Obviously, this won't concern those of you attachedso for the singles on here, whats the good thing about being non attached ?

For me, it's lying back on my couch, watching

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True. But at the same time, I love being free to do things I'll usually be time-starved of doing with a girl taking up my time.

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There's nothing enjoying abt being single, U feel so lonely, at times it can get to depression.

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wanking every morning and night

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i think it is pretty obvious the world is yours

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Enjoy Freedom !!!

dnt av 2 think of anyone !!!

Doin Freestyle

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beeing single can be so much fun at times, u have ur whole time to urself.

INDEPENDENCE, no explanations of any kind to anyone, u cld b single n not lonely.

i just enjoy, having 2 be ith mysef hen 'm single

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Singleness is a symtoms of idealness!

Life on it's own has to be merge with something, and so man should not live by bread alone, rather find a partner that will keep ur day alive.

The only thing i can enjoy in singleness is my decision making b'cos i will not share it with any body and so i have it all by my self.

Thank u all

Why not chect this out,

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mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!! you can say this again.

@ifele, what did your mum do that permits you to say this

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I have been around and with a lot of messed up women. Some women are dangerous my folks. You dont know they are messed until after a while. Boom.Then it hits you. The worst kind is the ones that have anger problems and use words like fu*k, Bottom**le etc. Thank God I not in Nigeria now. Nigeria is messed up men. I mean socially.

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Ejo my folks prostitute is better than some women. If a bloke marry a wicked woman like Gbenga OBasanjo and Moji he will die of shame and sorrow.

Same goes for a woman. Single folks do not have to worry about mind games and emotional poo. People can be very sly and presumptious. Me I used to enjoy female prostitutes until it go too expensive. I found out I could do without Kitty-Cat for a long time. I am becoming more disciplined. Marriage is all love, friendship, romance, etc. Thats all good. Me I am just scared of ending up with a woman like my mother.

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I used to enjoy being single. Now, it gets so boring, so lonely.

Marriage is normal, its natural! The feeling will come sooner than later. Nobody can fight it. I thought I could. I read and and fortified myself but alas the love bug caught me. Now I can't sleep, can't do anything without a flash. I find it so difficult to imagine.

Being single just satifies the immediate, there is a permanent need to be filled. The void of being single has to be avoided.

Who says love is not good!

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o ga ooo! now that most of the youth want to be single, if our parents stay single will we be in this life? but I always like being single.

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Like my life simple(@d Moment tho) ,

No excess joy no excess pain/anger.

My own Pace.

Trust Issues Absent

Worry about me/myself/I and maybe my immediate family

Smile and know its genuine.

Have whatever (with standards tho) comes my way

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Not having to go crazy during this valentine period, I get to go home after 10hrs in the office and 2 hrs in school and get a well deserved sleep without somebody suspecting that am probably cheating on him because i will be to tired to see him.

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unlimited freedom, unhindered movement and enough breathing space Q.E.D.

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@Lawyer

advise u check urself b4 u wreck urself bro, ur waaaay at d xtreme which appears very dangerous!!!!!

@Topic,

I'm single and actually enjoy d time i kip in discovering myself, its fun, adventurous, boring at-times tho,

learning to b single and absolutely independent i figured will make a successful marriage,

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Just living life as is and can be able to have sex with anyone I desire anytime I want, without feeliing guilty!! arrrrgghh

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Not fighting for the remote

Sleeping on any side of the bed

Not having the wahala of dealing with the sensitivity of men

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Actually there is no enjoyment being single, because it is not God original plan for matured man or woman to be single. thanks.

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The fact tht I hv more time to think about wht I want to make out of my life

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its an emancipating feeling atimes to be answerable to yourself alone and not have to think for two.

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At list I dont feel restricted

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@Pepeye

Why not let go?  Hope Obecha and De-reloaded have kept their cool?  Please queue up on parallel array.

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so much freedom,

Its like swimming in a pool

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Wat i like? E plenty, you know dos nite you just go out and never come back until the following day, and when you got dis ****** i dont know maybe you know wat am talking about

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i can watch what i want without fighting for d remote control

i don't have to cook everyday

i do only my laundry (don't have to wash his drawers)  wont do that when am married self

i can go out any time i want

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Well i havent tried the other, so i cant really make a comparism ya know

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@Topic

What's not to like?

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So you’ re finally backing off, guess you’ve exhausted your fire, you’re now, over spent and finally cured of your raving madness against women. It ‘s all good, im happy for your deliverance…Atleast  I ‘ve  achieved what I set out to achieve, to put you in order,  atleast here in nairaland, you can do as you please in real- land, honestly I don’t really care what you do in your little world .

Sincerely what really pissed me off was your brash rudeness to all and sundry, you felt you could run down people with your loose tongue and that every women is a walkover

This frame of mind, explains the genesis of this fight. I really did enjoy the show while it lasted, although at least we’ve disarmed you completely… I have put the whole confrontation behind me for now.

As for not knowing the meaning of what “Volenti Non Fit Injuria”- as well as other Legal terms I used. I suggest you go back to school and not to mushroom schools again, inorder not to lose you in Legal terms (smiles) see what mushroom schools do to people!!!

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NOT HAVING TO REPORT MY DETAILED MOVEMENT TO CIA(THE EX BOYFRIEND!)

NOT HAVING TO WATCH SUPER CHICKENS

MOST OF NOT HAVING TO COOK WHEN I DO NOT FEEL LIKE IT(LETS NOT FORGET GETTING TO EAT IN BUKKAS!)[color=#770077][/color]

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with ya, annamaria, plus

1. am not under pressure to start accounting to anybody about my life

2. not under pressure to buy anybody gifts etc

3. don't have to stick up with inconvenient conversations etc

4. free to make my decisions after careful consideration and to strike out with a sense of personal purpose based on haing defined myself

5. free to make friends and keep 'em at will without getting conscious of anybody feeling that am 'getting kinda close to who and who' and all that kinda crap

y'know, jkpretty, the freedom, the freedom's the thing

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to lawyer; u dont have to find a girl cos a girl that was made for u will find you.Pleas be careful cos AIDS IS REAL

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The most important thng is that you correct the previous mistake, try to learn a good moral attitude, manner approach and respect towards a new guy and in-laws that will come nearer again.

If is a woman, one should learn how to make variety of good dish for the family, morning devotions, good communication skill inorder to trash issues out rather than postponing and making a good grooming both at home and on oneself before your husband.

If is a man, respect ur wife opinion, love, care and cherish her. Any mistake on her side call her to order with humble spirit inorder to make the house a worthy environment, if the dish is not sweet to ur expectation, appreciate the one you are eating first and later talk about.

Pray together to avoid satan and unneccessary grudges among each other.

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I see the women winning this fight and the men are running scared especially lawyer

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Pepeye, you have way too much time on your hands

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@Pepeye Are you under a curse? why taking over the thread? you are warn otherwise ban

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Hahahhah Pele pele oh!!!!!!!

Pity for u from everywhere!! sorry

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Dear “LITTLE MAN” How is the little man doing today? Any conquest yet? Dim “wit”

If you don’t take your time we ‘re going to institute a FIVE COUNT CHARGE against you; before a competent court of COMPETENT JURISDICTION, the Charges being as Follows:-

1. Indecent Assault against vulnerable under aged girls; mainly housemaids in your neighbourhood

2. Impersonation of Lawyers-

3. Libel and Slander including gross vulgarity

4. Constituting yourself as a PRIVATE , PUBLIC AND GENERAL NUISANCE

5. Inordinate and Pervert behaviour as a FREAK, and a BASKET CASE

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I hardly post on blogs or forums but I had to break this rule when I read the post by the lawyer. It started out with a sadistic indifference, then anger, bitterness and rage.

The more I read the more depressed I got, its easy to wave off Lawyer’s post and say let every man carry his cross, but I refuse to be that shallow.

As I got home I thought deep and hard about certain things he said, he was good to his ex girlfriend, got beaten for her, lied and cheated for her and in the end betrayed so callously.

1. Lawyer, if you are reading this, look hard at yourself, did she deserve you?

2. How long would u want to live in this pain and endless circle of betrayal, with every action, do you know a part of your soul gets lost, with every tear a girl cries, the more inhuman you could become?

3Don’t put anyone on a pedestal people are people, they change, are fickle and are complexed, never put anyone on a pedestal.

4.Love yourself in and out,You  are very clever and articulate, you’re young and probably good looking and you have a lot going for you, but you need to work on your inside…unforgiveness and bitterness rots the soul.

5. Maybe because of your experience you lost faith in God and prolly roll your eyes at his name, ive been down that road, It was rough and tough too.i took pills, prayed daily for death, lost weight, , hated God…wasted my self, but I vowed never to make anyone go through what I had been, because I know what it felt like to be rejected, in the  end he came back but by then I was like “f….k to think I wanted to kill myself for this”….he was a sorry sight, begging and all, but God brought him back to tell me,he was jus a phase, a test and that  if  I could like through phase, anything else could be small cake but Lawyer if you should die today would you take that chance of dying in anger, unforgiveness and rage?[/i]There are a lot of ifs regarding the afterlife. If indeed there is a God, what would you tell him. . Every man is responsible for his actions, I know you’re hurting,anyone who had been what u had been through would. People left on the altar have been hurt. A lot of people have it worse.

6. [i]Forgive her…pray for her everyday…pray those you hurt to forgive you. I see a flicker of light in your life, your compassion on the girl who had bad time

You are a good person, the devil often has ways of destroying a soul, he comes to kill steal and destroy, he took away your joy, pray and God will give it back sevenfold

….time heals all wounds, but the first step is allowing yourself to be healed.

Finally

[i]One day ,sixty years from now,u’d probably say…”Damn what a waste. What I went through”….Life can be beautiful only if you let it.

And remember no one else can do your dying or your believing.

Believe and good things will come.

Your life will get better…I will put u in my prayers and if want to talk more about it, please feel free. Take care[/i]Have a great day.

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Nigeria is out of the nations cup. This is one of those times I'm sure glad to be single. Phew!

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Is this some kind of pity party? My freedom was forced on me and I've learned to accommodate the extra time I have by learning a new language and traveling quite a lot without having to take permission from anyone. I also spend my time reading which is something I thoroughly enjoy. For those who lament being single, everything has it's purpose and you can enjoy it if you set your mind on it and see the positives rather than the negatives.

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God bless rufe

The most important thing is to be free

This is one of the reasons why we have lots of break ups even divorce in marriages.

Freedom is as important as life it self

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[i][/i]My freedom, the fact that i dont have to argue & debate over unnecessary things, the fact that i have no explanations give when i get back home late. Feels sooooooooo gooooooood!

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LAWYER.

OH MY GOD!

PELE PELE O.

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Besides the faact that I get lonely a couple of times, freedom and liberty? U can't buy that, u've got to deserve them

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