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What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?

This question has popped into my mind severally. The reason is simple. Each girl i ever dated always thought of what I can do for her but never bothered to ask, what can I do for you? Apart from sex, and maybe someone to cook for you, what do you really think a man needs from a woman? your replies i'm sure will be helpful! I'd love the female folks to reply more and tell us what really they have to offer us besides the two things i mentioned above.

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THAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANK YOU MY SISTER.Most men have condermed themselve to perpertual unhappiness in thier relationship because of thier negative mindset.postive and happy minded men would always atract like minds while sad and negative minded men wld always atract women of like mind

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yOU STIL DEY DO CALL ME I CALL YOU METHOD.Let me tell open your heart when nin any relationship and you will discover that you dnt need to start counting the number of calls you have made so far.That is not love.

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children,and family support.

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What does a Man Want from a Women

1) Sex

2) to spoil him by cooking for him and arrange his things like to keep his house tidy, wash and iron his clothes, to give him his own personal spa ( at times, a man has gotta relax), to cut his nails

3) To take care of him when he is sick or when he has pimples on his body, she could get rid of them, to scratch his back, to give him massages and to make his hair

4) To comfort him when he is down

5) To support him and make him feel like he is a Man

6) to help him out when he is facing trouble or problems

7) A companion to talk to and to share all of your troubles, your worries, your happiness, your secrets. . . So that you wont feel so alone

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Nothing else than to rub the 2 full light well before it finally deem and service/maintain the back hassle before it finally enter pot holes and scatter finish. that why you see some guys change girls like cloths.

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denny4ril please contact me on jereajali@yahoo.com. with subject its Danny. its urgent please.

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treat him as a king through respect and care. do not nag and believe me, your romance will go up to the next level.i am talking from experience

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MPRAISE, if there were perfect men, I would agree with everything you've said. But Omega is right. you attract what you want. you keep getting that kinda woman because you expose yourself to that. you become what you spend you time on. Spend it productively and you will atrractive productive people. The types of women who seem to flood you guys lives seem to be a reflection of what you spend you most precious commodity (time) in.

For every useless woman there are 10 useless men, otherwise she would not exist or thrive. The leadership that men are supposed to provide is sorely lacking, This is because men only want selective leadership, only when it's convenient for you do you to take up the role. And by the way, giving instructions is not leadership, that is management, leaders lead by example, are happy to take responsibility and are not too proud to be humble. You need to know how to serve to lead.

I know some of you guys will feel tempted to respond with negative comments but before you do consider this, "Does you comment reflect the manager or the leader in you?". Rome was not built in a day, let men take their rightful place and who knows, 2 ,3 or 4 generations from now, your descendents may look at woman differently.

Let's stop perpetuating negativity about the person that bore you. As much as you may be all up in there, being self righteous, no man ever gave birth to a man. Ask yourself, would i be happy if another man spoke about my mother or sister the way i talk about the mother of the next generation and the most likely answer is that, that is exactly what happned or is happening. Like it or not, these women are the vessels of your lineage. They don't have to change for you to treat them well, you treat them well so that they will change. Permanently! That is the kind of leadership Africa needs to move out of the darkness.

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I do feel that most women have contributed to the general impression that men have of women. Some ladies actually make the men feel that they are 'paying' for the services that is being offered and so they have the right to treat the lady as such, a commodity: to be used! This may be a hard truth to admit but until our impression of the women folk changes, we will never be able to know what We as men really want from the women folk.

The media and entertainment sectors are not helping mattes too. What with women being used in music videos, showing their asses up and down (seems to be the rave of the moment these days - if not ur videos won't sell, lol). Most adverts, even from top companies utilize the sexual appeal of the woman to market. all these send a message to the sub-conscious mind and thus creates the impressions that women are just sexual objects and whatever favors done to them are ultimately targeted to get them to deliver one thing - S E X.

Its the women who must stand up and make the change by themselves. they must respect themselves for them to be respected by the men (afterall it is said respect is reciprocal). These and more will set things in motion and then someday, men can bold say that what the want in a woman is more than just another commodity to satisfy our whims and caprices.

Qued Eramus Demonstratus (Q. E. D)

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so what can the woman offer then?

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@ poster

The answer is simple,the man wants what the woman can offer.

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Honesty.

Mate.

Sex.

Help.

Support

No nagging

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it is so simple

most men on here continue to complain about the type of woman you are with or the woman you were with who did this and that. you actually never say what what qualities you actually want in the woman chase besides how big are bosoms are or how round her booty is etc. if you actually start letting the women know that you actually want them for more than just sexual gratification you would be suprised at the types of women you will meet. Even those women who are caught up in that superficial nonsense would show you a different side to them

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its so simple yet so many of u guys make it seem so complicated. all a man needs from a woman is love and companionship. what a man wants is, on the other hand, is infinite so dont even go into that!

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yes, must girls now want sex and then pay for sex, can you image my ex girlfriend after dumping her for like a year she still have my phone number and called me last month,sound like, Tunde,long time no see can you send me 450 rechage card!!!!!!!!i was just like hummmm i will send you 750 just wait for me and then i have to switch my phone off, what a poo!

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yes, must girls now want sex and then pay for sex, can image my ex girlfriend after dumping her for like a year she still have my phone number and called me last month,sound like, Tunde,long time no see can you send me 450 rechage card!!!!!!!!i was just like hummmm i will send you 750 just wait for m,

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all d men wnt is care,luv, respect ,neatness,assurance n most import attention jst treat them like babies

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Bt i tink what woman basically need from guys is the money and sometimes th e good luk. bt life is much more than that.

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Bottom line is sex!

If I create a flowchart illustrating "day in the life of a woman", . . .cooking, cleaning, nagging, nursing, parenting, shopping, grooming, . . . .all that will connect back to the bottom line - SEX!

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mellow you may not like it but that is the plain truth.

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The mistake we make here is the generalization. Like my friend mpraise123 said, it

is a case of different strokes for different folks. What ELDINO want from a lady might

or might not be the same as what[b] George_D[/b] wants from a Lady. O I believe it is very

wrong to say what men want. What I personally want is a lady who will be a companion of my

soul and a friend of my youth. Whatever is needed in between is fringe benefit.

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The SEX is mutual, they enjoy it as much as we do; so strike it out as what they(WOMEN) give.

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hahaha, methink it's sex! sex!! sex!!!

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Men want faithfulness and a commitment to the relationship. They want honest and loving commuinication. They want women who know how men need to be treated. I think they also want self-sufficient, secure and confident women.

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The only thing a woman want is SEX then to be pampered and taken care of,

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mpraise, is that good or bad? (that you can't shout)

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I love your answer Omega25red.

When all is said and done guys know the following:

Treat her like a queen and shell treat you like a king. Treat her like a hoe and she'll treat you like the love-vendor that you are.

From the mouth of a Queen.

The sad thing is the overwhelming response you've recieved that is negative and offensive to women. How you handle you most precious commodity is a reflection of your value/selfworth. and I must say from reading this thread I get the feeling that not many of you are worth much. Thank God for the few who have reason, and thank God for my King.

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You have to admit though, Sex seems to be a dominant reason men need women. I'm not contesting that. if you look at my question, i stated besides these basic things, what else is there that will give a man a reason to have a woman. I have a feeling that most men think too much of their mothers and desire to see her in every woman he meets. Just a thought.

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looking pretty, sex, cooking, cleaning, companion, making babies, emotional support, etcetera.

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Just laugh the following off, we need each other:

Men ' s Pearls of wisdoms of Wisdom

1. When I was born, I was given a choice - A big privates or a good memory. I don ' t remember, what I chose.

2. Your birth certificate is an apology letter from the condom factory.

3. A wife is a sex object,  Every time you ask for sex, she objects.

4,  Impotence: Nature ' s way of saying ' No hard feelings,  '

5. There are only two four letter words that are offensive to men - ' don ' t ' and ' stop ' , unless they are used together.

6. Panties: Not the best thing on earth, but next to the best thing on earth.

7. There are three stages of sex in a man ' s life: Tri Weekly, Try Weekly, and Try Weakly.

8. Virginity can be cured,

9. Virginity is not dignity, its lack of opportunity.

10. Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don ' t have a good partner, you ' d better have a good hand.

11. I tried phone intimacy once, but the holes in the dialer were too small.

12. Marriage is the only war where you get to sleep with the enemy.

13. Q: What ' s an Australian kiss?

      A: The same thing as a French kiss, only down under.

14. A couple just married were happy with the whole thing. He was happy with the Hole and she was happy with the Thing,

15. Q: What are the three biggest tragedies in a mans life?

     A: Life sucks, job sucks, and the wife doesn ' t,

16. Q: Why do men find it difficult to make eye contact?

     A: bosoms don ' t have eyes.

17. Despite the old saying, ' Don ' t take your troubles to bed ' , many men still sleep with their wives!!

Send to the men who need a laugh and the women with a good sense of  humour.

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U can say that again, Mate!

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@George_D,

You're right!

Not everyone is sincere to admit it. Men know what they want. I'm not quite sure about women.

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@ Omega25,

Your list was good, but incomplete. A good woman. You missed out the word good, cos not all women are the same.

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That is why regular conversations are needed in a relationship.

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nope, not on the regular basis.  both my parents were professionals and business owners and both brought in the money

we had 2 maids, a houseboy and a gate keeper,

when we started growing up at the age of 13+, during summer vacations, my parents would send the maids and houseboy away and us the kids (the boys and the girls) would take care of the chores.  the chores were divided according to our school grades.  the boys actually always ended up doing most of the chores coz they always had the lowest grades.   during the weekends, our parents would help out, as a matter of fact, it's my dad who taught me how to cook coz we have the same style, ,

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Where did you fall out from? i hope not from outer space.

did u not see your mom do all that u mentioned for your dad?

u better wake up -o

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guys has anyone here been heartbroken before. well ladies i guess 90 percent of you have broken an innocent dudes heart once so you created all the beasts you see around you. afterall u develop much faster than we. all we need in women is understanding ie that were excited by what we see and that sleepn wit someone else doesnt nean u dnt luv her. im bein veryv realistic sompn most guys will nt cm out to say

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its not that bad, I love seeing succesfful women in fact those are the ones I make my friends. I always trip when i see a woman who is confident, successful and FRIENDLY loll

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Now we once more can see that a female only sees herslf as only useful for ''services'' a man can pay for and get elsewhere. And one wonder why the most concise responses so far as been from men?

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what's ur definition of "providing" anyway?  doesn' it mean providing cash?

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her heart, trust and support

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i have no problem with that.  basically the man is providing which means he's paying her bills, that's the same as an "allowance".  i have no probleme with that.  if a man can pay for my car note, my mortgage, grocerry, shopping sprees, on the regular basis, without me having to ask or remind him, then no problem, i will cook an clean for him without him having to ask

my issue is those men that say they want a woman who cooks and cleans for them and doesn't ask for money, gifts, , in this kinda scenerio, what's in it for the woman?

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