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What Does She Want From Me?

She is a very friendly person no doubt but whenever I'm around her, she does things that makes me think she wants me. She once told me I was acting like a small boy! I really like her but I'm scared of telling her cos She has a boyfriend and I don't know what to expect. Please help.

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Dear Emorse,

This is not as bad as you think. I found a lot of answers to issues like this in a site,i mean pratical ones. Just visit there and you will be amazed at the solutions you'll find there. The address is essentials4relationship.blogspot.com

Will check  you up on your findings

Knowledge is power

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That was actually @ yjay. If it does, what does she want?

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@debest1, how can I be sure she wants me? Does it matter if she does?

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@moneyrule

I don't think it matters anymore. I think I know what I'll do. I,ll just try to forget about her (that won't be very easy). I just realised that the fact that she has given me the "green light" is not enough reason for me want her (even though I wanted her way before she started showing those signs). I might as well claim to be in love with every girl who shows me the green light. That's not fair - not to her, not even to me.

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shy boy,u need 2 bomb her puxxy.

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What exactly are the things she does that send the "i want you" signal??

I need this answer to give you the answer you need.

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And who said lies are not told on Sundays eh?

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well i wont lie anymore cos today is sunday, im not married and i lied cos i didnt want it to seem like i was chasing after you, besides its better to tell the truth than lies, so sorry for lyin to you in the first place, im just a young man trying to catch some fun on here cos something happened and i'd prefer to be on here than just sit back and keep thinking. so sorry again,

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Nop not at all, well im kinda bored here plus im all home alone now, so do u have a yahoo messenger id so we could get to chat?, mine is sexymarley97@yahoo.com

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well I can still go next sunday. do you have any kids?

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yes mummy, and am sure she has family safety on this computer.

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well my wify says she likes ur id and would like to get to know you, so tell me what state are u rite now and where is ur state of origin?

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Hey Sweet'M, well sorry u got it all wrong, am a married man oh and my wife is rite here beside me.

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Hey sweetpie feel free to tell me about you, its a free world.

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Hey thanks mr madman abi wetin be that ur id again sef, so how u take know say na man, which man wan use that kind id. why you no call urself number one sweetpie madman, lol

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Yea u most welcome sweetpie, so can u skool me about you, would love to get to know ya.

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Hey sweetpie i like ur id, u must realy be sweet, lol

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Well, my advice to you is that just continue the way you have been before now because not everything that is gliiter is a gold.

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This guy which kind question be this now, abi u want make i teach you how to use ur thing, soji urself before e too late oh.

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@ OP

the question is, what do u want from her?

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This guy which kind question be this now, abi u want make i teach you how to use ur thing, soji urself before e too late oh.

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What it is is an extreme lust attack. You are crazily attracted to this woman (and maybe she is crazily attracted to you), for the simple reason that it is wrong. It is taboo. That is why she is seeming so sweet to you, The devil is toying with you! We all know that we often want what we can't have, and we know that certain things we get in life are not worth the penalty or price that comes along with it.

So now, the real question is this: Are you a fool? Or are you a wise man? See, a wise man can abstain from foolish behavior. A wise man resists temptation! A foolish person FALLS VICTIM TO temptation. You are faced with a decision.

Now, if you want my honest opinion, I would say let her know how you feel, but be very cautious about the way that you do it (I know it seems like I am contradicting myself, but bear with me). My reasoning is that, if you are willing to step back and look at the whole thing objectively and would be willing to view the woman as a platonic friend, there may be MUCH to gain. First, by establishing a healthy friendship first, you can build up your trust and friendship to a point that will allow to express your feelings to her comfortably. At the same time, you can get to know her well by getting close to her and finding out different things about her that will aid you in building the relationship later. By willingly putting yourself in the friendzone, you could establish a basis for something more serious in the event that things don't work out with her and her lover later. Also, having female friends who pocess the qualities you seek in a lover gives you critical insight into how to interact with those types of women!! She will share secrets with you and tell you where you have advantages or where you need improvement. Perhaps she could even give you tips to help you break out of your shyness,

Tell her how you feel, But not until you have thoroughly evaluated the whole situation and come up with a plan of action that will ensure you the best possible outcome with the least negative consequence. Listen to your concious and pay attention the signs. You have alot to potentially gain or lose.

Good luck!

- Magz

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she has a boyfriend? very little chance then. anyway play it cool and see what happend

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@ mama-gee. So you mean you'd kill me if you knew me and this story was true. Na wa 4 you o. U take style harsh small.

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I don't know and don't care about him. Its her I care about. Hardly does an hour pass by without thoughts of her flashing across my mind. Its about 11pm now - see what I'm doing? So you see, I'm not trying to steal her and its not just for the fun of it. Its that uncontrolable feeling that I have for her.

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The thing is, I like her a lot and I think she likes me too but I'm scared of letting her know for fear of being rejected because of my misjudgement. (I am Atychiphobic). How can I tell if she really likes me.

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It's her I'm scared of not her boyfriend.

You may be right though, maybe I'm wrong about her ihtentions but what about mine?

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being shy doesnt mean you cant see what's right before your eyes.

Will your shyness prevent you being beaten up by the boyfriend, if he's the type who does that?

and besides, maybe you're mistaken about her intentions.

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What kind of help do you need, how to decipher?

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expecting. . .

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And who said lies are not told on Sundays eh?

Abeg no be everybody be like you oh. me am a gentleman.

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pls note: I'm a stupidly shy person.

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