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What Exactly Is Cheating?

At what point will you call it cheating is it until you have sex with a lady that is not your wife or as soon as the thought of sleeping with her crosses your mind, i need to know. Please.

I had a very close encounter with a babe I met, I didnt sleep with her but did every other thing you can think of.

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"thank you all for rubbing it in!

it didnt all that good but well it happend, i can thelp that anymore!

why r u all sounding like you are all saints, i bet at one time or the other one of you gals (come to think of it only the ladies in the house responded Wink )

has had a close encounter like that before, so don't judge me, i am only human!"

ok buddy it seems ur looking for condolances from the crowd, but im sorry, you are wrong, so dont yell at the ladies that responed. If you are taking your actions so lightly like it looks in your statment, dont, because what you did was not right. And you come here making yourself look silly asking a question like this then yelling at people giving you adivce, come now, get real. I guess your girlfriend, wife whatever can do the same thing to you and say, HEY! WERE HUMAN! how you feel, dont make excuses for yourself, it looks real bad and makes you look like an . Sorry for bieng so harsh but, no one is goning to applaud your actions.

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Cheating, is knowing what you are doing is so wrong, but you are willing to do it anyway, as long as you don't get caught in the act. Cheating is wrong, wrong. Creepin behind people's back ain't no fun, we all know we get caught in the end. So why do it? Banish the thought.

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buddy, you did not ask for acceptance for what you have done, you asked for opinions. Opinions are what you got.

@spikedcylinder - I would normally agree but I have met some that would cheat in front of their partner. Not good people! But in general, you are right.

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Cheating - simple dictionary meaning. No beating about the bush is : a deception for profit to yourself - simple. if you did that, then i'm afraid you cheated, one way or the other

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twins was right you guys are just pretending!

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this very statement and you would take it in good faith! Hypocrites!

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Cheating is satisfying the crazy toughts and imagination of your mind,

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Cheating is anything you cant do in front of your partner.

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you are not responsible for what your keyboard types.

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Buddy, Dont be a fool men!, you dont post that kind of intimate things on the net or a forum like this, whilst that is exactly those who will be crucifying you are doing, they would bully you as if they had never or still doing such. Next time, feel free to tell a close friend or confidants or better still tell them a friend of yours did it. That is naija for you, they are the worst pretender I had ever seen. Consider it not deeply, I assure you that those who are agaisnt you here, 99% of them still cheat against their lovers. Anyone want to deny that? Of course, 99% will still deny it - Pretenders!

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2C,

It's been a while, you know. What happened? Can you use your YIM now? I had to track you down this way.

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hey ppl

i know it was wrong and i accept responsibility!

but you gusy have been there i know it!

i am not happy about what happened, was just sharing my secrets!

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buddy,

we are not calling u out or saying u did a bad thing, we ve all done it, but we shud also realize that wwe have done somthing wrong

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Doing sexual acts outside of your relationship is CHEATING.

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you know you are cheating, cause your mind is not setting you free, thats why you asked this question in the first place, you know something aint right with what you are doing, its called " guilty conscience" so you are cheating def

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for mes, cheating is doings wats u cannot did at the fronts of ur partners, ya dig?, if u couldnt do somethings in fronts of ur partners and u did it at her backs,, thats sheating

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You did every other thing but not having sex. That is cheating - to me. kissing is cheating not to talk of all others

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u cheated as long as u have those encounter with her even just kissing her

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sorry to break it to ya, but u are cheating!!! did every other thing i can think of? that's even worst that sleepin wit her and u still confused if u cheatin? dang!!! i feel sorry for ya wife or gf, poor thang and she won't kno!!!

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