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What if Your Boyfriend Beats You A Lot?

pls, am i to dump him and go for another?

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hell no , u dare not beat a woman, (they usually run their mouth), thats their nature, u gotta be the man,,just walk away , beat a woman , u go kill am , na only mouth dem get ma guy

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There is no justification for beating a woman either Boyfriend or husband, whatever the woman could be, if u can not take her anymore just walk her gently, some babe can be so silly that their behavior will warrant such act from a man, but the guy have to hold himself and just walk her out,

As well we man nasty man and guys around any babe that receive maximum beatings always with any reason, i belief you are not tight to blind love, please [ick up ur bags and baggages and flay away like a plane. no be DOLEH,

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Hmmm grafikdon I can relate.

There's a girl I left for apparently no reason. People think I'm wicked for doing so.

What they dont know and i wont tell them is that she wanted me to start beating her up.

using the same language that girl used on you. weak and not man enough and whatnot. Provoking and making fun of you when you dont follow through.

of course that was a long time before we actually broke up. It had begun then, sha. And I never told her why.

Till this day I dont know whether she was joking but I have no intention of finding out. That kind of joke is crossing the line.

Funny thing? Based on how she otherwise acts, if she were on this forum, I'm sure she would be one of those saying she can never be with one who beats her.

Ah well. The things that happen behind closed doors.

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how will a sensible man raise his hands and beats his girl or wife,

that wll be the day

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Let me sight an example of what i ve seen and heard,

A friend of mine(a lady) told me that she prefers to marry someone

who will be beating her everyday because she is too stubborn and

her mouth is so wide that she can utter anything to the guy that is

what i ve heard.

what i ve seen,

This same lady got hooked to a boy friend in the same school who

happens to be the head of the kegaite, trulla and wella the guy they

beat am like say, infact she dey use am train everymorning and after the

quarrel the guy go poke the girl and they both are enjoying it.

But beating my GF is beyond my mental faculty bcus for what reason will i beat

my GF.

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shu c levels some girls prefer make dem beat em up na dat time their senses dey come back.me i no too support the beating but if need dey to beat her abeg do am.dem lyk am well.

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I don't understand why any woman will take physical abuse from a man. You must have serious self-esteem issues!

I have 4 sisters and any man that has the audacity to his hands on any one of them is getting shot! It is that simple!

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is betta she jus leave charley

dat ur talk is nonsense

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It is a concept in the sense that a man can openly beat a woman in nigeria even in front of a policeman or woman,without any caution or arrest and children seeing their father or uncles,relatives, beating their wives grow up to think that it is normal to do that.It seems kind of macho thing to do that,meanwhile it is just mere stupidty and lack of understanding on both sides in most cases.It commonly cut across all class of people in nigeria,even the so-called educated and well to do ones,that you will expect much from.

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Don't dump your boyfriend without a fight. If he beats you, beat him back.

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Despite the fact that some ladies/women can provoke their hubbies to the final limit, I do not support women-battering. It's a display of the animal traits in human beings. Though, in some cases, it has become a way of life for some people. I used to know a lady whose boyfriend would always beat the poo out of her and she never left him. He would beat her to the extent that neighbours would intervene. At a point neighbours got tired with their attitude. It was later on I found out that the lady in question initiates the beating sessions! Crazy, eh? She picks on a quarrel, they fight and then make love immediately! A weird one? It's TRUE.

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Beating of a woman is a nigerian concept or rather africa that will change with time as more and more women become aware and independent,more respect will be accorded to them,same goes with men,the more expose they become the more they see the needlessness of fighting with a woman.Woman beating is in the west too but it is more to do with destitutes,drunkards and sometimes suppose men of subtance but as usual,it all boils down to ignorance.Ofcourse women invite aggro due to their natural bitchiness but the best thing is to ignore them or give them what they want if you have it.Everybody wants something.

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Strangely enough, some crazy person once mentioned this as her reason for 'asking for it',

She said it was always sweeter after a fight

?!?!!!!

Women can be weird.

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Women get beat because they allow it. It's a choice and that's why it's still prevalent. I have no pity for those that choose to stay. You never know the reason behind some choices. Gives her heavenly feeling, may be.

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me k, boy friend beat me oh,i think his digging his grave,look girls we don't have to be fools cos of love,how could somebody that have not paid in anything beat me up no matter what,men, i kick him off,not only dumping him but i must teach him

how to pet girls in his next generation

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u guys are kidding me. At this age and time, someone is still being beaten by a man?

This guy must be highly irresponsible and i will not waste my advice on someone that is still hanging out with an irresponsible person irrespective of what he has been doing to prove his status

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Some just make a hell of noise, go there now, they are beaten everyday by their boyfriends still they hang tight with them. I know is wrong to beat ur girlfriend but some girls, their mouth sharp like blade. Again, it seems guys would fight to death if another man beats their sisters but they would go ahead to beat other girls. I tell you, if you beat my own sister, no matter how sharp her mouth is, I will, infact let me not say anything here. Unless she fails to let me know of it.

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Should any man lay a finger on me, I'll cut his balls and then claim self defense which isn't far from the truth.

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Fellas, never raise your hands to a woman, It's illegal.

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If he really love's you then he would not hurt you .Drop him quick fast and in a hurry.And don't take him back ounce a man puts his hands on you it does not stop.Love yourself and find someone who knows how to treat a lady.A real man knows how to deal with a woman without putting his hands on her.

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I love my men strong and courageous,so since a woman beater is a coward, I do not think our paths will ever cross.

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Beating another human being is wrong. Be it your sister, brother or child. I would never ever hit my kids. There are people who grow up fine without having ever been beaten.

There's something that puzzles me about the mentality of people on this forum though. Why do you people automatically assume that two people dating leads straight to marraige? I mean, what if the author of this thread is sixteen years old? You people are already giving her marraige advice. She said my boyfriend is beating me up, not my husband to be. Or is it every relationship that leads to marraige? I dont get it.

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for a man who 'beats' his girl. just swap the last 2 letters in the action word from the sentence above & u get who the man really is. ah! i see y'all figured it out. he's a beast. cursed be the day i raise my hands against a girl (except my sister cos i dont know who is more stubborn btw her & goats)

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What is wrong if a man Beats a woman? Have you not seen a woman that beats up her Man? why dont you ask the Girl what makes her Guy always beat her Up? Maybe she is evil, wicked and Disrecpectful and Crazy, so what do you expect, when i tell a girl dont do that, is unfair then she bark back at me, saying Go to hell, and you can do anything? what will you do? I will beat her Up, so that the madness clears from her eyes, and if she repeat it, I will deal with her again, Until she learns, If you spair the ROD you spare the child.

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If your boyfriend hits you for any reason, dump him immediately. This is about respect, not love.

Abusive men are like goats, they never learn. Anything short of dumping him immediately will not stop him.

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itz rili nt rite for yur guy to beat yu.bt it doesnt mean he dont love yu.talk thingz out.tell him ow mch yu hate it nd also,threaten to quit if it persists.if he rili love yu,he'll stop.bt most times,guyz who beat their gilz r usually very overprotective nd tend to love their babez so much.think wisely,take yur time.i go beta.

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Ladies take it easy, a serious minded person should not beat ladies

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@Jerseygurl,

If a guy beats you and you kinda wanna kick him in da balls, what if you missed(think of whts gonna happen).

For me the only thingy my hands will be doing on a gurl is( u know).Cos i see no place for beating on a gurl.Please Ladies RUNNNNNNNNNNNNN from such guyz cos we guyz are f,k silly sometimes u know, so u gotta RUNNNNN and find some other guy to help you make him RUNNNnnnn tooo (not a gurl ooooooooo),HEY!!! dnt even think of murder aiight

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I dont knw if am supposed to be here.ANYWAYS.

If a guy should happen to beat rough handle a gurl(not beating ooo).The should go for deliverance b4 its too late and if happens to do the real thingy(as BeAtInG) then he should be smashed in da face so no gurl would fall for him again.

I believe i have been dazed(more than a slap) by a gurl.What did i do?.I only looked her in the face long enough for fear to appear in her face and i walked away(believe me if you have to ok).My friends didn't help @ all they made fun of me a lot.The gurl; she askd 4 4givness which i gave,

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Shows how irresponsible d guy is nd doesn't even worth being a boyfriend not to even talk of a husband!

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I know a man who gets beat up by his wife!

Leave baby leave otherwise you mite just die oneday or end up with a lot of muscles because you ended up enrolling in marshall art classes to revenge which might end up ruining your figure or even getting you a life sentence because you killed him one night when he attempted punching you and you then raised your leg and gave him one deadly 'karate kid' kick, the possibilities are endless and none favours you except 'leave baby leave'!

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poison him one day,no guy messes with this girl.

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:oIf he beats you Leave him

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wen he beats u, u beat him back , lmao!!!

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Boyfriend beat me? that will be hard to do even once,never mind ALOT lol . My father will have him shot for sure. I won't be with a guy who even shoves me. Not in this life or the one after

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kick his ballz and dump him,

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If you beat your sister, then you are no better than a wife beater. I don't even support beating children.

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if my boyfriend beats me alot is just simple wat is there is to TRASH HIM IN DE BIN! no 2 ways bout it, is just a simple thing to do!

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no my dear, stay and let him kill you or maybe u are helping him perfect his wrestlin skills.

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HEY CASSANDERA

WHEN U ARE FIXING HIM SOMETHING TO EAT, SLIP HIM SOME ESTROGEN PILLS, PREFERRABLE TWO PER DAY, EVENTUALLY HE WILL BECOME JUST AS EMOTIONAL AS U ARE, ADN PROBABLY DEVELOP GYNECOMASTIA (bosom GRWOTH IN MALES) THAT WILL TEACH HIM TO LAY FINGERS ON U. ERR AND IF U GET CAUGHT U DIDNT HEAR IT FROM ME

O M G gurl this is gud --i think i will try it if he EVER try beating me----which i know he can NEVER in his life tym

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dunno and he'll definitely do it again,

so y risk it?

dump him 1st time

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why would u still stay with someone that raised his hands on u the first time??

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Dump his Bottom and if you don't then stop whinning continue with your slavery life,

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Dump the beast and go ahead wit ur life.Much as i admit to the fact that some chics could be real asses,dat dont mean a man should beat up on his woman.That sux!!!!!

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You know, it still beats my imagination that some ladies allow themselves to be treated like trash , even in these modern times . You love him ? GOOD ! He beats you ? BAD !! He beats you A LOT ? , c'mon girlfriend , RUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No sane man will ever lay his hands on a lady he truely loves , " no long thing " ! .

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Guys its awful when we just jump into conclusion. As much as I do nt support hime him beating you hope you are not d one trying to seize life out him. Girl good girls dnt get beating, try to understand him

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Dump him girl cos he should be in a cave or a cage.(cave man) plus have noticed most guys that beat up their girlfriends can stand up to thier peers and same sex, its low down shallow

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Drop him if he can'nt change it's very wrong for a guy to beat his girl friend.

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Leave him like yesterday! No second thoughts.

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Leave him like yesterday! No second thoughts.

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