what is a "date"?
Let me ask you something, what is a "date"?
What do you think that the purpose of a "date"
Now, I call my material "Double Your Dating",
but what I DON'T mean is "take women out to dinner
twice as much as you used to".
The word "Dating" is simply a word that all of
us guys understand to mean as "romantic
interactions with women".
So I use it.
But if you want to have more romantic
interactions with women, that does NOT mean that
you need to "take women out on dates" in order to
Are you with me?
I mean, what do couples do a year after they
get together, ?
They stay home most of the time, do normal
things like go shopping, and generally behave like
they did before they met.
This whole "going out to dinner" ritual is
really an amazing concept.
It's awesome how powerful it is, and how guys
really believe that they need to do it (or similar
things) in order to get a woman's attention in a
Here's the bottom line:
If you want a woman to think of you as a
"lover", then BE ONE.
If you want her to think of you as a provider,
then just BE ONE.
What you haven't quite realized fully yet is
that when you know how to trigger ATTRACTION in a
woman, all the "normal" rules go away.
If a woman feels that powerful emotional
ATTRACTION for you, then she'll do ANYTHING with
you, just to be in your presence and have your
If you have dialed up the ATTRACTION, then all
you need to say is "come over here".
No dates required.
Now, if you buy her dinner 10 times, call her 3
times a day, and chase her around, then it will be
EXPECTED that you continue this pattern, and
provide for her.
NOTE: If you're buying a woman dinner twice a
week, giving her flowers, calling her every day,
and basically "chasing" her, then you can be about
80% sure that there's another guy in the
picture, but guess what? He's the one who SHE
calls, and he's the one who says "Come over later,
I'm busy now", no dates required.
If you want to be a LOVER to a woman, then DO
You don't need to wait until the third time out
for coffee or tea.
You'll learn that ATTRACTION doesn't have a
It happens VERY QUICKLY, if you know how to
trigger it, and you don't need a lot of "date
ideas" once you do.
And now that I've avoided your question for a
page or two, let me answer with this:
I often take women to do "regular" things with
me. I'll take them to the grocery store to shop
with me, out to the mall to pick things up, and
down to the bookstore to buy a book.
First, start BEING the LOVER immediately.
Then, notice how women DON'T CARE what you do
together, as long as she's with you.