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What Is It With Port-Harcourt Women And Money! Is It Normal?

My job brought me to Port Harcourt a few months ago. I have always heard warning like ‘beware of PH babes’ without really understanding the meaning until now.

The first girl I met in the city gave me a bill of buying toiletries and hosting her birthday party barely after 10 days of knowing her! The second’ a student I knew for one week before she went back to school, calls to requests for phone credit which I oblige her sometimes; the next thing I knew she wants me to send money to her through her bank account.

My thought that a working class girl will be different proved abortive. The working class girl I met told me she wants to go to Dubai during her annual leave to buy goods for sale and that I should lend her some money to augment. This is a girl that has not even been to my house o!

My question is Do you become a benefactor once you ask a girl out in this city or am I being paranoiac? Is this normal with all women everywhere because I have not experienced it before.

Before you ask Please note that I am single and in prime age.

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Thanks to the creator of this thread as I have immensely benefited from the information here. I will be going to PH very soon to work with an Oil company so this info has come in handy.

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Hey Kajad please give me a cal, pls : 08098292953

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@fishage1, propose to her. Maybe if you marry her,he'll take you serious.

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hey Kajad, do I have ur attention?

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LAZINESS ,LAZINESS, AND LIABILITY IS JUST WHAT NIGERIAN GIRLS HAVE TURNED TO BE. That is why they want quick money and would do anything to have the money,including s3x

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@ fishsege1 , most expatriates just want a fling with the girls and the money is just what they girls get out of the relationship. However, if you get steady and more serious the demand will definitely reduce. The question now is how do you convince her that you're serious?

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Most PH babes are from neighbouring states.Just spend a xmas/newyear break in PH and u ll understand these girls are hustlers looking for mugus(even those who seem innocent and dont stand on the road).One is trying to tie me down with a pregnancy not knowing i dont give a ffff.

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My brother, you are very correct, phc girls are very wonderful lately, they no longer appreciate natural love, what they are after is cash! cash!! cash!!!. there is this girl i met for the first time, i invited her out bought her enough drinks, pepper soup and snails, after all enjoyment without me telling her any thing about sex or touching her i carried her to drop her off, to my greatest surprise she asked me if i can make her hair for her, i told her i don't have saloon besides am not an hair stylist, the second one visited me in my Hotel room, we relax without having sex because i don't like rushing into making sex with a girl without knowing you properly, only for she to tell me she needs N50,000 to solve a problem in school, my brother since then i just rolled out Ph girls, 90% of them are money conscious, they no longer have regards for sincere and natural love, they may have their reasons, the most important thing is that if you want to achieve something in life i will advice you look carefully before going into any relationship with any Ph girl unless u are a politician.

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pls can sm1 send me d pictures to my box lizzy2001babe@yahoo.com

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Have been living in PH for over 15 yrs and everything said so far about PH babes is not different from what could be obtained from any other cosmopolitan area of Nija. As with any society where poverty have been ravaged; there must be different mode of survival be it crime, prostitution and what have you. Mind u, most of the faces being found in PH especially over the weekend are not primarily from PH. We've heard cases of girls coming from the neighboring states coming to PH to come and do runs (rake in quick money over d weekend). I could attest to some of my friends that came to PH because of job and end of taking home wife as well. If you are asked for money and you refused, the worst that can happen is for the girl to wave bye bye. There are nice, homely and down to heart PH babes if you look well so also are the money mongers.

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Pls can i get to see these much talked about pix. I have heard and read endless list of articles on the net about it, but never gotten to see one. I really need to. dedondeemperor@yahoo.com

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women is all about Money money money, I dont even have time for women, so i dont care about them because No Money No Life, Money on my Mind, and Not women, beside i dont Toast women, because when I am set My GOD will give me My Dream Girl, so you will find problem when you flirt with women, and Not Guys Like me.

Live and let Live

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hello dear so sorry bout dat . i quess its guys like u da make de ph chics act dat way. u said u jus came 2 town some months ago and u have met how many. 4-5chics. maybe de way u do it is so clear dat wat 2 get 2 ur pants.its very where ma guy ,and its not a ph tins its an individual tins ok . try 2 take am easy. ther r very good chics there too,

y do u want a free girl?

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for me I neva go there but friends where dey dat side say na wah o fro the chicks.cos e b lyk say na money dem go die put.no be say money no good but the love wey dem get foram for there na fire. the love of money is d root of all evil.

shekena

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@ Crazyp

Check your email,

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People i have been in Ph for 6 weeks now, r PH girls any different from Girls from other parts of nigeria. R these gilrs really from PH, people coem in from far and wide to seek greener pastures here. so my question is R the real PH girls money conscious?

over to u PH Girls

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Hello Brethren

I dnt mind avn the piz oo. Anybody wey get am kindly send am to

gilgert16@yahoo.co.uk

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weather ur job brought u 2 PH or something of another sott did, the true story is this- There are Multinationals in Ph alot of them,coming from alover the world.Girls from all over the world2 meet in this town-Ph.so what do u expect,we have girls from Igbo,Delta,Lagos,name it all in Ph.You've not even talked about BONNY? i ur a guy and ur going to bonny4 the First time,probably4 a job u'll probably not make any savings.In essence what am i say,ph girls are not 4rom the locality most times,they are from out side,bearing'' PH girls''

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wow, send it to me (b67892002@yahoo.com)

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my brother dont mind them

they are not from uniport

it looks like a picture from a Indecency movie

long ago we've seen those pictures in phones claiming to be some UST students but its not true

none of these stories are true

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@maki and Kajad, is the picture real? I mean the pictures of tha ladies Kajad claimed to be from Uniport

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Any comments from Maki?

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Maki, I have sent it 2 you.

You know any of the babes

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kajad

can i have it? pls send it to my box mackyboby@yahoo.com

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Got the mail Yesterday.

If those girls are UniPort girls for real then they are bleeped big tyme.

How much could they charge for the pose?

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Rhea can u send yah proof? do u av a link to subtantiate da claims. some ph girls can be so despirate anyway

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that is funny. damn, whiteman don see the girls for action.

well, it will be a disgrace if that pics gets to the news cuzz i dont think the girls will enjoy the money again.

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we needs the money cos we have to look good,anyway if u love someone it doesnt matter what the

person is or are,.

but stays we need cash

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omo, i don live for port before but dey no show me wetin lagos girls show me.

one day i went to lagos with a friend. he too ma phone(samsung D600) to go and pose for one girl like dat. i was with his 3310. dis fine girl passed me so i ws like whats up shorty? how u doing? d girl looked at me, (i wasnt wearng ma bes dat day. it was a hotel and i came down for fresh air) so she was like hi. can i see call ma phone with yours, me being the innocent boy brought out phone, d kin eye wey she look me dat day, if na death eye, i for don yawa. as if dat aint enuff. we went to d club, d first thing dey look at is your leg to check ya shoes, den your body to check d designer u rocking, den your hand to check yur watch. finally your phone. we did all we did dat day, i went to bed. d girl i was with at the party called me and we went out. me thinking it will be a lil shopping den fun, got surprised when dis girl took me to one mall and what she wanted to buy. i would have been paying debt till my grandsons grow. she took a top, 25,000 naira, 2 jeans, 30,000. one watch 15,000. one six inch heel 29,000. i looked at her, looked at her hand, looked at my wallet, den i finally looked at the salesman. i told him, make sure u package it well for her when she comes out. i turned to her and said sweety i will be in my legedis benz waiting for u, make sure u hurry up. i dont have all day.

port harcourt girls wont finish d next day. dey will give u time to fall den dey will eat u silly. but lagos girls. chai, dey are something else. so because i get good fone and clothes i didnt even buy maself dey concluded am d next to kin in bill gates family.

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Diddy e be like say d.em PH babes never hustle you before. If d.em too cheap, make you try Bonny babes. Maki and Babymine -- I lie?*

Translation:

Diddy, you seem to have had little or no experience with Port Harcourt 'babes.' If you feel they're not expensive enough, I suggest you have a go at Bonny girls. I'm sure Maki and Babymine concur.

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hmmm, u never try lagos babes. when u try them u go no say PH women dey pity person.

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this PH thin' is not wat matters, i think we should be talking of nigerian women, PH to me,like my nairaland friend said is all about bi-sexuality and i quite agree but nigeria on a whole is all about money. without money u can't be heard, seen or even noticed women ,because or their weak position in office have to strive to mae more money so as to capture the minds of men that 'wat a man can do,a woman can do better'

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Na so na, Wetin you expect??

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na wa ooo, so na everyone for hinself na?

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Yeah, It's true, , They just claim to have this style that makes it hard to keep dem

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Port Harcourt women no like money, dem just dey expensive, SIMPLE !!!!!

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I give above 60; close to 100% if you ask me.

But, hey, they seem to want just cash not love.

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its not about paying for a date

but knowing what a woman wants and giving it to her

even if its 60%

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@maki

Wetin dey vex you now?

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@ Kajad, If you have correctly read my post. you would see that i am not against you. all i am saying is, we aint gonna change a thing here. the best way out, is leave PH babes alone since they seem to be too capital intensive.

IF you find your self in PH and you dont have $10,000 to pay like someone said or you are not daft enough to give a lady a specified amount of money to go to dubai and come back when you have not even screwed her. then better hold yourself abi na zip up till u commot for PH cus if we start arguement, we no go finish am till jesus come.

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@ashiwaju

You be real ‘non-align’ nation! Which side you dey self?

@babymine and maki.

I m just expressing my shock at what I have seen in the town. All these things equally exist in other towns my shock is at how common place it is here. I would not have mentioned the homosexual thing at all. How can I? that would mean I am out to malign PH babes. I did not need to scratch ground to observe it; the girls talk about it as if it’s common. I was shocked to my marrows when I heard 3 respectable women talking about there GFs in coded words. 2 were married, 1 had 3 children; and as if that was not enough I came across their party when I went for a wedding reception. No one will tell me that a place where wedding reception take place weekly is a non-descript place will you? That’s why I think it could be common here.

But then, maybe, I noticed these things because I always strive to feel the pulse of every town I spend sometime in. Port Harcourt is good but oil workers have put some juice in the girl’s mouth that they cannot leave without it again. That’s my take! am i wrong?

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@ Maki, Wetin u for talk b4? atleast u gatto protect your own territory now but if u must add spice, add a little

And for guys wey want finnally finish PH babes, No matter what you say here, it wont change a thing, we have got over 30 states in naija and you can still choose from whereever, pls dont nail PH babes oo, the worse you would do is zip up while you are in PH and when you leave PH you Continua!

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na wa oh

just imagine how they are painting us black over nothing

women are generally the same where-ever you go

but Port Harcourt babes are the best in nigeria

in every aspect you can ever imagine

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I had a nasty experience with a PH babe. When I was leaving PH on posting, she said I should pay her off. Like it was a contract or something!

She was even surprised when I refused saying some girls receive around $10,000 for 1heir 'pay off' ! And that was in 2000. It could be more now.

I think it has to do with so much money in circulation there and the girls' lack of conscience.

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@topic

portharcourt girls are well known for their lousyness

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babymine, please tell henry. We're both PH core people -- how come we don't know about the homosexuality?

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no i mean , their sexuality is crazy or better still they are known 4 their homosexual behavior

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