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What Is Love? At 26 I Havent Loved Anyone

What is love? Im a female and at 26, i haven't  loved anyone, i have gone into relationships but i realize i don't love and don't even know what love is? Could this be a spiritual problem? Or certainly not met someone to love?

Please i need advice

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@Poster,

Go on your kneels and keep praying my dear

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come to daddy, and i will show u love, love for life

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am falling in love ooooooooooooo

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@Poster, u dont need to look for love, continue the way you've been going, love will come looking for u soon. . . hopefully!

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is this real? hell of experience. poster give urself time and learn how to love u will find one and love one. no rushing

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Love. Nothing too shabby I suppose. You can think of it as an electron jumping from a normal ground state to an excited state.

Once this happens the electron moves up to a higher energy level than it was in the ground state, which is what causes the so called "excitement" . As an indication of excitement some/most of these electrons give off light or whatever.

You can think of this excitement as "love".

In most cases an electron doesn't spend too much time in the "excited" state before returning to its ground state. Similar to how many people are unable to sustain their high on "love" in their respective relationships.

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From the context, I'd say the poster is a female, because I rarely think a man would be so confident to air this.

Well, it depends on what you think love means to you, it depends on the kind of environment you have grown in, the people you're surrounded with and what their "love" has done to them. It might probably be a psychological problem based on facts that you've been a lot of people, dear and very close to your heart, get hurt severally and you have often advised them against having relationship. Pathetically, you lost your interest in having relationships a long time ago, suddenly, you thought you don't want to be alone, hence, you need somebody to share some of your time with --- not your heart.

Loving someone could take a lot of time for it to evolve --- not all these kinds of love Nigerian girls propose when they see you stunting in a fast car, but I'm talking about love where your heart races when you think about that one person let alone when you see them. It takes a lot and it's beyond a math test you will have to put into practice, it's a natural feeling that flow through your mind only if you let it. Some women have been so hurt that they have sailed off the coast of love, but somehow, they found themselves navigate back in that zone again -- reasons for which they can't account for. The solution to this is look within yourself and ask what love means to you, what are the ups and the downs, what do you think you can bring forward and what are the qualities you can't deal with. Someone said earlier that love doesn't hurt, newsflash, it does hurt when it's broken. Love doesn't fade but if a relationship lacks the necessary spice, it's bound for doom-land.  Find it so within yourself to know what you want and then let your psyche roll along with it.

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i think this post says it all. thats exactly what love is all about. untill you tell yourself the truth it'll keep being evasive period.

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Is that so? Funny that you said that. Very funny.

Begin turn to wonderer when you had the know how to figuring out the answer.

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lol @obnoxious. the poster is female haha want to see if u take ur words back after this realization.

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Lady,you need big prayer or else, I will say this world is not meant for you because you stand out

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It's ok that you haven't convinced yourself that you've been in love. I'm sure it doesn't mean you didn't care for the guys you were in relationships with, it just meant that you knew it wasn't deep enuff. Age has nothing to do with it, take your time, when you meet the right person, you wont need anyone to tell you that you're in love, you'll feel it it. Pretty much the same way you know you love God, family and friends, it's undeniable.

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Do you want to fall in love ? There are many tryourluckgirls on nairaland. Start stalking them.

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From one 'gentle' to another 'gentle', abeg open your heart and love someone  before it is too late.  Have you ever dated anyone before?  Are you M or F?  Have you ever 'u know' before? 

Give more details by answering questions above so that help can come fast, before yawa go gas!

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Lawd Gawd, come down and help dis fella.

@poster, You must be terrifying!

Lol.

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u need to take a break from school kid lol

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