Please advice me.
Im not sure guys understand the pain of a fist punch on a woman. Equally, I'm not sure women understand the damage of a nagging tongue on guys. In both cases there is abuse. Sometimes abuse is what makes a relationship rock. . just make sure you can take what you dish out before becoming lifelong partners.
Personally, I will walk away from a nag. I'd go shoot billiards or find something to do out there. If I return and the nagging continues then she need something else and trust me. . I got it coming!
Best treatment for a Nagging babe used to be ignoring her but these days, beating the living poo out of her seems to be in vogue and most men seem to feel satisfied that they have solved a potentially irritating situation by extending a fist or a wonderful slap. Well for me, the belt treatment does wonders though!
George D I hereby bestow upon you the titles of Mayor of Nairaland, Earl of Nairaland Women Affairs, Commander in Chief of Ikebe affairs . KNIGHT COMMANDER OF THE ORDER OF BIG IKEBE'S You are just too much sir, More grease to your elbow
You are entitled and legally authorised from henceforth to use the Title "Right Honorable Sir George D" Mayor of Nairaland
@poster, Believe me when i tell you this cos i swear i'm not kidding.
If you and her have already started eating the forbidden apple then my advice is applicable .
If you make mind blowing love to her constantly- i mean make her enjoy every second of sex with you- then your problem is 95% cured. She'll not have time to nag at all cos after it She'll either be asleep or be busy being romantic with you.
I'm serious about this and if you want i can give you an example.
I think the best treatment is to find out what exactly she is nagging about.I dont think any one just nags for no reason. If the complaints get too much, then i think she is just not happy with your personality and is just probably putting up with you.i talk from experience.Once had a bf who i felt i could change. i just kept on nagging and nagging about everything.I almost lost my mind trying to change him.Unfortunately,i saw i couldnt change him and he was also getting frustratedwith my incessant complaints and we had to go our seperate ways.My sincere advice to everyone,dont get into a relationship with the bid to change the person.you would definitely turn into a nagging person.
at the end of the day if you are not happy dissolve the relationship. I know its easier said than done, but there are good non-nagging babes out there. In the meantime you can try to sit her down and try to find out what is bothering her, usually women are pissed because they want something or because they are unhappy about something you are doing or did. Or they are unhappy be because you didn't do something you were supposed to do. If her rants are just illogical ramblings, then i suggest you vacate.
Yall dat r sayin SLAP HER! ND ALL THESE shitty stuffs, like r u guyz serious? dat aint ryt!
SOLUTION, if d babe is continuously nagging, leave her or smthing, but if u "LOVE"her dat much(asin despite her nagging), then u have 2 deal with the aftermath. BUT if d nagging jst started, try and calm her down and sort things out. bla bla bla
but all these "SLAP HER"comments will deffo not help, ND yh if d nagging actually makes sense then, but if it doesnt then maybe she wants some attention.
1 last thing-- I typed "F**k" nd it changed to "MESS" after I posted my reply, is dat ryt or is it my PC?
You've got draw her close, cos those are her trying times and u need 2 embrace her d more, seek to knw what her problem is rather than bein harsh over her nagging bit as many claim.
Just try and undastand what suits u best during such period. Most guys claiming the opposite HERE, would never do such a thing.
Ask her what is wrong. Sometimes women nag because it is a last resort to working out a problem within the relationship. Usually, she's already told you what the problem is, but for some reason, you may not have heeded. Most men want to avoid confrontations while most women like to face it head on. The reason being, she just wants to get something solved so she can feel secure in the relationship. Both the man and the woman need to find a common ground of understanding one another's communication. Men and women just don't communicate the same. Learning great communication skills is a great way to begin the effort of solving the nagging issue. This is my opinion, as I am no expert.