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What Is The Best Way Of Choosing A Partner?

What is the best way or at least a recommendable way of meeting with a lifetime partner?

Do you just try to date anyone you come across and you are attracted to or do you watch out for some attributes and qualities?

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What if she pretends,

seeing that u are loaded??

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Consult me. Ope baba, the world renowned seer and interpreter of the famous ifa oracle.

baba oh! iba oh!

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@mixture

Well being as you will be praying and asking God to send you a suitable mate, it is important to trust the process.  You have to keep your faith and trust God's plan in leading you to the right woman.  When you doubt; you not only doubt yourself, you doubt God.

The thing about dating, IS that it's just a date.  If there is no connection with one woman, move on to the next.  You do not have to be a jerk, by making false committments without any follow-through.  Just take a woman out, have a good time and build friendships along the way.  Out of respect, never waste a woman's time.  1-2 dates is enough time to know if she is the one for you, or not.

Sometimes you can be easily turned off by a woman within the first 20 minutes of being in her company.  In this case, make it one date.  When you meet "the one", you will know.  She will have a glow and you will feel at home with her.  The date will feel easy and you might experience a great deal of synchronicity; meaning that "things" will flow easily.   

The connection will be more than great.

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sampling many girls as possible PRAYER is da Key!

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choosing a partner for dummies.

tumbom tumbom. . . . . .

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I disagree only with the love to do so. I dont love to cook, in fact i would not do so if i was not married or had children, but I do do it every single night.

Also when asking God for a mate you should be specific about what you want in a mate. God has a real sense of humor and will send you just what you ask for.

List your negotiable and non-negotiable and move from there.

You will have to kiss a few toads before you find the prince/princess that is right for you.

Dont believe the hype about soul mates, I believe that there are more than one soulmate for each person and each soulmate can fill a different postion.

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you hit the nail on the head. Thumbs up.

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Very well said and informative, but just to ask, if I have to keep dating before I get the right one, don't you think I might have to date too many girls? How would each lady feel after dating her for a while and nothing meaningful comes out of it?

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The best way is to pray first. Ask God to send you a suitable healthy-minded mate.

The only way to tell if a woman is for you, is to date as many as possible until you meet the right one. The main qualities that you want to look out for is

Confidence: You want a woman who feels good about herself and is kind to others.

Good Cook: A woman who can cook and LOVES to do so.

Outer appearance: You want a woman who cares about her appearance. Smells good, clean nails and hair.

Intelligence: You want a woman who can hold a conversation, make you laugh. She should also have book knowledge and adequate schooling.

Sex: You want a woman who enjoys sex. No prudes

And this is just the basic stuff that you should look for. After praying for the perfect mate, try to be patient.

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