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What Is The Best Way To Quit A Relationship?

My fellow NL, i really need your help. Pls can some one tell me the best to quit a relationship? Cos i'm a confuse of what to do now.

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The best way is to tel u are HIV positive, Shekinah

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Just tell her your MIND and reasons WHY you want to quit the relationship, SIMPLE.

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wat if you guys are living together?

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just sit her down let her see reason why d relationship can,t move on yu guyz can stil be friend ,if d reason is geniue ,,definately she must see reason with yu,,.

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Hmmm. . . Awon eleyi, awon eleyi won badt gan!

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move to another state and then change our number

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The best way is to tel u are HIV positive, Shekinah

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If you wanto quit 2moro, fork her very well today, then leave 2morow.

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^

U'r HIGHLY welcome brov!

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Ran, what would you do?

Would you slap her back or beat her up and cause

A scene in front of a female hostel?

I don't think that's a good idea! The most important

thing was achieving my aim!- QUITTING!

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- uhm, what a thread.

- alot of useful point was taken, but some was damn funny tot.

- esp. the quy dat said, tell her " Jesus is coming soon" lol kia NL na wa 4 una oo.

- uhm, NL i'm proud to be here, naija all the way.

- from 4rm own point of view, '' say your mind is the key to perfect breakup, no joke, give him/her geniue reasons 4 breakup, cuz if u refuse, nemesis meant catch with u 2morrow.

- so omo free your mind, betterstill speak in tongue.

- say " baby bia, dis loveaffair mbam not working 4us'"  lol.

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Right now, I'm on the last phase of breaking a 5year

relationship! Maybe I'll be back to tell my story!

I kept quiet all through. After the slap, she yelled,

screamed, barked, hugged me and started weeping.

After all her drama, I just entered my car and drove off.

Mission accomplished!

I

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be a big boy simply walk up to her and tell her reasons why you dont want her anymore. after which ignore her and her calls

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Let her catch you doing the guy next door. she will leave without asking questions or saying anything. I doubt she will even pick up your call

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This thread is so hilarious. PMPL

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Tell the truth, it hurts but it'll get better for both of you in due time. If you lie, everything always messes up. There is no way out of a serious relationship without one or both people getting hurt, the next best thing is to just give the other person some respect, tell them the truth, if it'll help them reflect, even if it is painful to hear, avoid saying things that will just bring a person down for no reason e.g. things about their looks or figure.

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I agree with Kennyblues|: Bleep the closest friend, just kidding, well try stay away from the person, give him/her distance space.if you can't tell the person just find any slightest reason to stay away, if he/she is wise he/she would get the message, but i tell you one day you both shall discuss it.If the person is not wise enough; go with kennyblue's idea,

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Tellam say ur mama n papa say dem want make u go join semina school. (say dem want make u b pope of Nigeria)

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Bro, just move to another village

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"Baby i want you to know have been cheating on you for quite sometime now,is just that i've got this special kind of feelings for the guy living next door" very very simple.

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Tell her u have HIV/AIDS

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word!!!

initially, be blunt, (most guys avoid this incase you wanna go back and dip in the cookie jar during emergencies)

then do it the kamikadze style, ala avoiding her and ignoring her calls, she would get the message and in turn, be the one that would end the relationshp

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kama kazi on d kentro level.

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What are your reasons for quitting?

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tell her you just want you folks to be platonic friends

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Just keep it 100% honest, and blunt. Honesty is the best policy- hopefully she gets the picture! If not then embarrass him/her in front of their friends- then they will get it!

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^^ Relax.

Most of us (if not all) have had our hearts broken at one time or another. Are we going to die because of that?

Life goes on and things actually get better as a matter of fact.

Take a chill pill and have fun

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Wow, it's amazing how pple get all excited talking about breaking hearts without a single care in the world for the affected party,   Hmm, time will tell,

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SMH @ kokoye, Day11, and deniyor.

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The best way is to end all forms of communication. stop calling and texting. Ignore her calls. Act cold and uninterested when she visits. She'll get the message and leave you alone.

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Let her catch you doing her best friend. If she decides to leave her bf and stick with you, then let her catch you doing her sister.

If that doesn't work, just propose.

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^^^ As funny as that seems it can produce deadly results.

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Simply sit her down and tell how great she has been but that she deserve a much better guy than you.

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I was once "Just being honest and straightforward" and all I got was a sound slap!

Bad part, it was in public- In fact front of a female hostel!!

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Just be honest and straightforward, don't beat around the bush.

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Thank you all for all your contributions. At last i now knw what to do.

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What if the lady in question is the clingy type? I've been there, trust me. even after straffing her friend, she still dey cling.

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just tell her ur mind

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If na boy, tell him you missed your period.

If na girl, ask her for money ALL the time. When she don give you di money, then ask for a quickie.

Do this diligently and without repentance.

Your desire will be granted.

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You need to tell us why you want to quit to get the right/best advice that suits your situation.

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Say you are HIV positive,

the rest will fall into place

you can even produce a fake result for special effects.

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whatever you do, dont send an sms, dont call,write a letter or ask a friend to do it for you

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Agree with her to have an open relationship. but continuing being faithful to each other but at the same time consider other women, and if you find a better option before doing anything with the girl. call her and let her know you have found someone at least she might understand BUT that if she also agree to have an open relationship oooo.

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