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What Is The Right Age For A Lady To Get Married?

WAT IS D RIT AGE 4 A LADY TO GET MARRIED

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All d argument ends on choice...individual's choice comes here...dis is a point dat no man nt even ur parent can decide 4 u except God n u urself...so dnt let any1 put u on tunnel. For d say opportunity knocks...bt onces! A gal marryin @18 or so dat mite b her own turn n if she mis becos of been discourage by pple around mite stay 4 lng or eva without marryin...for me it al lies on individual's choice!

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@post :

From 21 and above.

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i got married at 26,but i can say the best age at these our time should btw 26-31.

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A lady should get married when she is mature enough emotionally. We know these days its not really about how early, but how happy.

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When and if she thinks she is ready,

What is up with you people and marriage, Is that ALl you live for?

Why rush someone to make a decision that they do not want, or are not ready for?

Life entails so much more than a title,

I will marry, when I am ready, And if the day before that day I decide NOT to, I will walk away without an ounce of guilt,

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HR.hotness!

no let me vex for you. there is booze and more. you had better pick up cuz i knw you are u to some mischief of Nairaland. i am looking for you oo!!!!

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Then he should be punished accordingly.

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So what happens if the husband 'steps out of line'?

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Jackal is all talk such hot air. Hes a Pussycat really. You may wear the pants but your partner will be your PARTNER! Not your house girl

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yes o! but it is prayers one needs. i dnt really side to divorce. All depends on the man like jackal says.

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@genius

u r ryt abt being independent, but man wey wan beat im wife go still beat am, CEO or house wife. Them no jst send.

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tope, after 26, people should do what then?

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[tt]it all depends on da maturity level of da couple, Bt i beliv @ 26,a lady shld be mature enuf 2 handle da challenges,den @ 30 a man shld be a real man. its ma opinion[/tt]

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who tell u say she no find husband?u read well?

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Don't mind ololomu! I am sure he has just been kidding all along. Even the sister's thread is a joke in my opinion! Nor be Naija women dey marry at 25 upwards? Why e come be say his sister nor find husband marry?

Anyways the guy is funny in his own way!

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i say from 21.  what age do ladies want to start taking their kids to nursery school? definitely not when i am already thinking of anti wrinkle creams

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25 years

Thats the age my girlfriend will be when my pepper go don rest well well.

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22 is very much okay for a lady.

  so that she can think well,

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Atleast by 30 there should be a guy. If you're not married by 30, sorry to the old ladies in the house, but you're a spinster. Period!

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Sharrap Hotness my comment was to Ibkaye!

How can I jugde when I aint a V myself!

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Deciding not to marry young does not mean you want to have sex with every tom dick and harry!

People are capable of staying virgins or not indulging in sexual activity and still enjoy their freedom.

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I know many people will want to 'have fun' before they get married after graduation, as in sample and play around with the girls/boys sha

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@topic

being more serious now, would like to marry as soon as i graduate, i want to be young sha

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ok oh, i guess i hav no answer, i am young not a teenager though, but i feel we need to give older women (28ish) a break, so i should hurry up and get married? i don't feel the rush, and nobody else should too.

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i agree wt u on dat one

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but i tell u most 19 yr olds r more matured than a 35 yr old,and when i say matured i mean they can even keep a home more than a 35 yr old

i have no problem wt that anyways ,my own is people should stop criticising d single ladies,no matter their age

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Not really, it is just unreasonable to expect that a woman shouldnt marry late if she wants to but a man can get married at 50. Obviously there is the biological clock factor involved, but a woman single at 28 shouldnt be an abomination or something like that

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@ Jennykadry, i am against both, i guess it happens, but a 19 year old is probably not mature enough

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so r u against marrying a 19 yr old,or d reason for marrying her?

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a lady can get married at any age she chooses as long as its out of love. . Nick cannon is MARRIED to mariah, Aston kutcher with demmy, what's age with it? love is all that matters.

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ololomu is d kind of guy u run away from, i pray nobody marries into that kind of family, if d family is real anyway, This marriage topic is a long tin, Today's society is so different and everybody should do as dey please. Getting married is not the problem, it is most likely who u are and what u stand for.

If you are like me, then about 25-28, school taken care of, have a good job, steady income and a house

If not, you can get married at 21, be a house wife or go to school while being married, which would be difficult but can be done.

It depends on your state of mind, we as nigerians should get a point where culture doesnt dictate when but how.

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my sister i tire for d guy oooooo

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i can't believe this ololomu guy, nawa o, i am sure u are entitled to your opinion(which is absolutely wrong by the way).

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he is from kuvuki land

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This thing about marriage amazes me. Marriage is a Good thing and i have no ill feelings towards it. but no matter what it is i wouldnt deem it appropraite for people to say being single is a curse. If you are married and happy i wish you more years of happiness but truth be told some people are still breathing being single and it doesnt stop life.

Married people also get educated. the post was askin for an Ideal age, it didnt say that the ones who are not in a catergory should be cursed.

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jennyh thanks jare,but true i have seen too many manage marriages, i dont even advice any one to get maried till they are matured,so they can go thru all the trials that marriage bring abeg, and beside wey that mumu wey dey talk, @ 21 what have ur sis achieve that they are thinking of marriage sef,they will just end up being liabilities to their husband. they should be more concerned bout self development then marriage will just come

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the fact dat some girls r not married does not mean they lack suitors,marriage is a thing of d mind,and weneva d mind is ready for it,it goes ahead with it,no big deal

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nice point smooooooth

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If u cant get married by 22, u are a real cause and reproach on ur family.

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there's nothing like right age to get married,any age is okay, whats more important is that people should marry for all the right reasons with love right at the center of it. all these una talk dey make girls rush into marriage,and in no distant time,they start regretting.

abeg its better to be married @ 99 and be happy than 16 and live in regret.

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The right age to be married is the age that a woman feels she has found her life long mate. The reason for this at least in this present age is that there are a lot of unhappy marriages and broken homes. Unhappiness leads to infidelity and a lot of turmoil.

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ROCKCHIK!

I know wat it feels like, U sound really pissed/

Its nt yaw fault, evry over matured spinster will do the same.

Good luck in yaw husband finding!

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@ololomu

i can see you're from another part of d igbo land,a place where we igbos don't know?no wonder u people worship d gods of your fore fathers ,so its not a big deal,but d fact that d men marry 12 yr old women does not mean u should criticise other people who r not married or married later dan that age

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my sisters problem is late marriage  and not early marriage. she suppose to marry before 18 but she did not. u are considered to old after 18 in my village and thats why she married white. her immediate older married at 16 without any problem. my last sister is planning marriage this year at 16 also. For my place, i dont think if any body will ask ur hand in a marriage 18 years becos u are too old for wife.

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@Rockchick,

I am coming back let me save my database from this silly hacker.

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No Wonder your sis is being shagged in the Bottom! You are just a Peodophile. am sure those NA GIRLS WEY DEY SELL ORANGE YOU DEY SHAG!!! i pity ur sorry Bottom!

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