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What Is The Single Most Important Thing In A Relationship?

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timkola1@yahoo.com wrote:

I think love is the most deceiving concept in the world. Before you

let your canons loose, reason with me:

when you love someone, U love someone; there's no mention of how the

other person feels.

when you tell someone that you love them, they act on that - it's

natural. They may not necessarily feel the same way but they may try,

so o o back to the original question: what's important in , ? The

answer is "whatever you, as an individual consider to be important AT

THAT TIME".

Why do I say so?

When you are in your teens, you love the cool guy/girl in your

school/area.

When you are in your twenties, you love the ambitious guy/girl with

promising careers or education (that's why no educated person loves a

danfo driver)

In your late twenties, if you're still single, you love whoever loves

you (within your social class)

In your thirties, you love whoever you are with, regardless of creed,

color, religion, ethnicity etc ( then you tell everybody to mind their

own business)

In you forties, love is not on the priority list, it's like whatever,

(you just want to socialize, be happy and worry about your old age)

Fifties, love and raise your children.

So what is the most important thing in a relationship? It's what you

feel at that time , remember, you haven't made mention of what your

partner feels, it's all about what you want.

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Communication, it pretty much covers everything. Communication allows you to communicate to your girlfriend that you wish you had more money (instead of complaining that you can't afford her demands), that you have doubts about the future (instead of distancing yourself from her), that you think her ideas about no sex before marriage is ludacrous (instead of trying to 'trick' her into doing so anyways). .

But maybe this communication thing only works in conjunction with honesty. . ?

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MONEY, Trust me, i say it cos i know it

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if you respect someone you will always tell them the truth

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what use is communication if honesty no dey? do I sit there and listen to lies?

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communication+respect

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prostinor (abortion drug)1 and 2 for when she gets pregnant every 3 months

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i believe it is trust and the ability to tolerate each others excesses

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if you can read what i wrote, then im sure u'll understand.

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The most important thing in life is Living the rest of your lives together in happiness, love and prosperity inspite of the test of times.

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@ Trooe, I feel you baby!

Frankly speaking, i know that really

every relationship needs money to keep it going!

True talk, one love!

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Sorry dear,, But is not best to focus on relationship. I know it play a vital role, Take it easy,

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Topic said single most important thing

Me think, trust

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Forget about Love, trust, all those are secondary, i will say the most important thing in a relationship is GOD, and the next is money, even with love its hard to live without money, imagine you cannot afford life's essentials like food, shelter, clothing. love ain't gonna take you no where, it ain't gonna put food on the table, feed your kids and all that poo. if you ain't got money then wetin you wan trust.

i say GOD, money, love, trust, kids.

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You guys self, una non dey tired,

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love and trust,is the true koko.money,n sexual pleasure r mere boosters.

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Trust is definately the most important thing in a relationship.

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the most important thing in every relationship is, GOD!

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as for me, i stick to my KOKO

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that's up to you guys, as for me, i choose love!

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Love, do u say love! Other things being equal, LOVE, But, when the chips are down, without money, we c the true test of love,

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thats what u all say, but run after money

ladies dnt practice what they preach.

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Think, well my sis, Dont let anyone deceived u,

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FILE! Love is the KOKO! Come rain, come shine!

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*wait a minute let me think*

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Money, Money & money. It answer all things and it speak the language of love.

Lol, there are alot of celebrities marriage that has crashed despite all the money.

But, money is very fundamental in any relationship.

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LOVE and FAITHFULNESS and other things can follow.

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I personally think its trust, without trust in a relationship, i dont think it will last,

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