hi guys i am confused (if that is the right word to use). Well here is the story: My ex whom i was totally committed to and invested alot of time and energy in cheated on me a while ago. The cheating is out of character for him and in a way i can understand why it came about.
Now he wants to get back with me. I still like him and i know he is sincere and genuine but somehow i can't bring myself to date him again even though i know it would be for the long haul this time and we can possibly have a happy marriage. So what is stopping me? is it psychological? is it my instinct? i just don't know!
i can feel his pain cos i know he is just as confused as i am as to why i am pulling away and i think this is stopping him from expressing himself fully.
Anyone have an idea what is wrong? btw i am newly single