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What Is Wrong Wiv Nigerian Girls?

hey guys n babes,u wont believe what a nigerian girl in my class told me last me. Obviously cos of our closeness she the fact for granted that i was gonna ask her.

She was quite frustrated when i made no move in that regard.Then i began to notice that she was becoming obsessive n possessive about me . That pissed me off real good cos i only wanted to be friends and nuffin more

I called her n sat her down n talked to her telling her that we could only be friends n nuffin,u need to hear what the girl had to say,it was unbelievable

that i was her boy friend that refused to convert his love to £ equivalent,i was so peeved

wat do u guys think i should to a loser like this chic?

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haba, any girl from anywhere in the world can do this, just becos this one is a nigerian does nt make it a 'nigerian girls thing'

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Ok o.i was just saying.beleive me the guy marrying my sister,pressed and pressed before his love was developed in her heart.it bites me cus this guy's loaded 1,get houses 2,Chinekee see black beauty na him my sisi dey do shakara for.finally till today they are one of the best couple i know with a fine baby boy.nwa m

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@Jane do you know you can develop love for him,even if you want to be just friends.depends on the guy not saying he knows you do too when you are not that sucks.@8ball did this chick develop feelings for you cus she had no choice ie(she wowo?)or because of your good deeds and closeness,if opt 1,put her off sharperlly.then if opt 2,since you've explained to her na only friends.she no gree,accept her offer,screw am bad and dump her.she asked for it.make e no pass 1 month o or else

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am quite surprised u folks are blaming for leading the girl on

fact of the matter is that i obliged to put her on some of the courses that we do in class

i never allowed her visit me ,tho she got ma address from ma friends

i dont meet wiv her in ma room .

i always teach her in an open place n has never really given her the impression that we could be lovers at any one tiime

Any way,am pissed wiv her latest antics,i dont have it in me to be rude ny ways oda wise i wd av told her off sharply

av only told her quite softly that we cant av a relationship but if she mistakes that for weakness,i prolly wd av no option but ta cut her off,i dont fink i need any girl's issues at this time in ma life

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Not true.i got my heart squeezed out when i tried.and i ain't trying again till further notice

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tell her to piss off.

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jst tnk God that pic falls under the above average category

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Don't do a thing, justice is not your to take, if you deserve it, it'll probably come.

Just let her know where you stand and move on swiftly!

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Dude, probably your arms were not just strong enough! I think this can happen to anyone be it naija or someone from a different planet.

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The first girl i ever loved with all i got,think say i be atm cus i like flexing.when i noticed something, i set am up wit my best frend whom she also know.imagine i pretend to be out of school and left her the keys to my room that night.my best friend entered my room like we planned,pretending to be looking for me.ok don't say na temptation.i

even want to marry this girl in near future.but what i learnt about her was daunting so i her to test.my best friend no waste time with am,he Bleep.beleive me as him dey Bleep,i enter as planned.i no beleive my eyes.ok you go talk say maybe i urg.think again.i got my mother's beautifull flash light eyes.pointed nose,my little build dey trip both guys and gurls,i even fine pass my best friend.so tell me where i offend this girl.since then,any girl apart from my sisters(very responsible) wey wink me at my murano,i go carry am give am one week after a good bleeping,last one na 3 days.so give me one good reason why i no go hate naija chick.maka chi they mistake love with money

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@poster

U shouldn't generalise because of one girl's actions,

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Why should I be worried about anyone? You are the one with the problem and I have no doubt that unlike you the girls you dump will bounce back so no problem. Abi has anyone brought obituary to you that any of them commited suicide when you dumped them? What you do not seem to know is that girls usually heal pretty fast and bounce back equally fast too. But be that as it may, I have stated that I actually doubt that you are a force to be reckoned with on any level irrespective of all your words. Like I said before I am willing to wager that you are the type of guy that the better girls hardly give a second look at and that will be more cause for you to be bitter. And even if I am wrong, who the heck gives a Bleep? Certainly not I. You are the one who finds it necessary to talk about how you do not care about women. If you didn't really care, you would not even give them a second thought, talk much less of expending a fraction of the time and energy you continually waste trying to convince people who do not know you that you are a hot catch which any self respecting woman would want to be with (and that you use and dump them). Men have used and dumped women long before you were born and will do so long after you are dead (and ditto for women) so there is nothing new and it is certainly no big deal.

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fok her, and keep foking her, letting her beleive you like her, and when you are done foking her, just leave her dry and sorrowful, you dig?

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Nigerian girls are all twats and bastards I repeat. I've just confirmed that almost all Nigerian girls were brought up bitchily through their culture. Why was I told I'm Nigerian for christ's sake?

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I think thats wrong, matter of fact - i think u should keep avoiding her or at least keep her at arms length

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poster,

you post should have been like this:

What is wrong with Nigerian Girls (Gold diggers)?

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Leave am. He still fine for now.

When him jaw go dey fall, na he go even buy super glue to make sure say them nor leave am again.

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Why he go call you? What makes you think your advise is more special than ours?

Nor be yesterday wey them dash you computer?

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call me i got a solution

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@poster bcs of that ur yeye story now, something is wrong with the whole nigerian girls. ( hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss)

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Well, I read some of the comments here and I quite agree that something is biggerly so wrong with Nigerian girls. I had my first Nigerian girl here in Canada and what an immature Dam she is! Trust me, I am a very patient person and I so have my life together, young, well-educated and successful. I have no problems spending money for a girl but Nigerian girls (or maybe women generally) seem not to understand that a guy spends and will spend anything for a girl he LOVES and CARES about. Therefore, never place your attention NOT on the money and gifts but on the (his) heart which controls all the other things: time, gifts, loving, etc.

Well, she went from someone I liked to someone I really liked to the utter opposite! My first gift was expensive and before I bought it she found out the cost, she said, wow, this is so expensive. Fast forward a few months later, I was gonna take her to my company's annual christmas dinner. I could go alone or go with another girl but I thought, well she should be the one. She was girlfriend.

She told me she wanted $120 to make her hair and how surprised I was when she said: why have a girlfriend if you can't afford to pay for her hair?? That is the most idiotic, ignorant, naija-mentality statement I have heard recently. I was patient with her because she has just moved here and doesn't know this is not Nigeria. I had bought her more gifts, spent time with her and lots more. She suggested splitting it 50-50 and I thought that was fine. Then, she claims I was the one who said so. In short, the drama that followed in the next few weeks was so irritating and childish. She was immature and just a Dam! Stay away from Naija girls abroad - with the exception of the unusually well brought-up few who have not lost their brains and decent family values.

But I know what will happen to her and others like her: They will be f.ucked and dumped by every guy of every color until they are in their 30s and 40s and desperate for marriage. And even after the marriage, the guy will still get a divorce somehow and leave their sorry Bottom. After all, they always claim to be single by choice and loving it! May they rot away in the boredom and colorlessness of singleness. Low-life, classless bitches. Interestingly, we will always meet again and then, they are so ashamed to face the guy who now has no regard or interest them. Losers!

@ Poster: Don't be so considerate and find you only wasted your precious time. F.uck her and f.uck her until you are tired and then pass her to all your friends and someday she will realize it is because of the typical Naija girl attitude that has given her such bountiful results. Let no naija girl abroad complain about no-husband, scarcity of men, etc - it is all your fault so suck it up!

Well, fast forward a short-period of time, I met another lady from the carribeans and her complimentary on Naija girls was really ugly and not so different from the terrible image these girls have created for their families and a whole country. (Yes, she said something about Naija guys too but she added a compliment - something she admired). Anyways, if a girl will be a loser, it doesn't matter who she meets! Ori ti o je iya, bi won da lekun, ko ni gbo! (A destined suffer-head is irredeemable, no matter what you do to help, she must still suffer!)

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Adam, if you didnt give 2 fcuks about chics anymore you wont have been this affected by one woman who is probably no taller than 5ft 5in.

Man she must have really killed you . . . she's off having a wonderful life with another man and u're here expressing so much bitterness and rage after how many yrs? Move on bro . . .

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@ poster,

You probably showed her the wrong signs.But the fact that she has feelings, for you doesnt make her a loser chic.

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Adam where are your balls?

Are you not a "man"?

Get over it and yourself your beginning to sound weak and feeble.

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To be sincere don't really blame them girls. We all love money. For me its cash anyday.can't lose chics when chasing money.

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i guess most are materialistic. Never gone out with a honest girl before sometimes i can't help wonder if any honest people exist in this country.

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Adam  . .  seriously what exactly is it? so much venom, bitterness and cynism.

Going from your past threads . . .  i think its a lot more than a bad relationship. At first i thought this was just some 'fun' from you but it seems like this is you for real.

Wetin dey? I am sure you know some naija women whom you like, there are women in your family whom am sure you respect . . . why then will you come out with that statement above? Jokes or not.

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Nigerian men are not better though.

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lol

And when i called them retards, the house wanted to collapse on me!

Glad to meet someone that knows what these sorry excuse for a man's helper really are!

Thumbs up guy, nicely said!

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I know lots of them and they are all big turn-offs! It seems Nigerian girls were brought up with bitchy tendencies.

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Wow, so much hostility! I'd have to guess that you don't know many Nigerian women.

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Nigerian girls are all bastards and real bitches!!!!!

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First off . . 8ball, you do not have the right the to generalise. You owe an apology to all Nigerian babes out there for insulting them.

You enjoyed her company, you led her on, she took it too far. . . . . DEAL WITH IT!!!!!!

Unless you are a celebrity no one automatically falls in love with you and begins to obsess and stalk you.

There is a lot more to your story that you are not letting on. Your antics  . .  to be precise.

You have a hand in her temporary madness . . .  you need to stop unconsciously enjoying the attention she's giving you.

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Let her be. That girl will run you down.

You are her boyfriend ke? Did you guys go out on dates?

What were you doing to give her that impression? Like someone said it's hard for a guy and a girl to be just friends cos one likes the other. You should have made it very very clear to her that you just wanted to be friends.

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Everyone has a breaking point.might be surprised that you might turn out to worse than adam.we all have a darker persona inside us.at least i know mine.

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