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What Is Wrong Wt One Night Stand?

Well, i haven't thought it thru bt i knw for sure dt people (ladies) frown at letting a guy enter dia 'paradise' d day dey meet. I think its all pretence nt morality,dignity or pride. If ur body is saying yes, why shld dt head tell u knw. U are thinking of hw gud his sex might be and u start battling wt d conscience dt wil prick afta d deed. So u ad a WOW sex wt a guy u jst met. If u wanna, u gotta. Maybe he will stick around after dis or maybe nt. If u dnt want to sleep wt d dude, why flirt till d flames starts to fly. I mean puhlleaase! Sex as a one nite stand is alwaz exceptnal, i did and we were together 4 3yrs. Until dt poo guys do happened. Ponder and get back wt what ya fink.

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Nothing if both are aware of the situation nothing wrong about it

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Me think Itz Ok if u too wont av 2 see each oda again.

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i watched tyra today and what i deducted with reagrds to this topic is that one night standa sex is always over the top and so kinky, the fact that you dont have to see each opther again makes it more fun, slam ur shti in and everyhting is forgotten unless the we derams though.

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[color=#990000][/color]tell us what is right about it pweety!!!!!

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^^& what is 'right' about it?

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Absolutely nothing wrong with One Night Stand. . . . . . .Unfortunately Nigerians(Holiest people on earth) dey like to pretend too much.

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there is always an acceptable level of decency expected of everyone irrespective of your background, sleeping with strangers a few hrs after meeting them is not a decent thing to do

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Ok my question is who measures morality? everyone has a different morality from the next person and what if the person doing the one night stand is not religious?

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I am going to play devil's advocate now. Ok what makes it wrong? is it morality? religion that has given us a morality gauge? bearing in mind that maybe just maybe religion was designed to control.what is wrong with it really. Are we really meant to be monogamous beings? I'm just saying!

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Everything is wrong with one night stand. From sending the message that you were born to Zap to demeaning yourself! Friends with benefit is one thing, but heading to a club and packing ''pay me when you are done sleeping-with me " is disgusting and pathetic.

That's my two cent!

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I hear you. Still from my experience my close friends have non existent relationships with their dads and it's just been my observation that, that is the reason for their failed relationships or serial dating. Like you said some fathers just give money and what do we see these days? lots of girls want to date guys for money etc.

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yep. When it becomes a habit they there is a serious problem. May even need therapy or something. You know what? i stand by this,if girls are brought up by their fathers toloveand respect themselves alot of girls wont go looking for it in random guys.The relationship a girl has with her dad tells alot in how she turns out.

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Yes that is always very likely but my thing is you only have yourself to blame.This is why i was unsympathetic to some friends in this situation. From experience many of us ladies do not separate sex from emotions. We some how can't divide the two.That is why though some girls will say they don't care about one night stands, they really do hurt afterwards

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In my opinion, having one main dick is the best way to go.

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yep very unforgiving. I think that people can do what they want and i know this sounds corny but as long as you arenot hurting anyone and you are safe then whatever.

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yeah why is that? surely a man sleeping around should not be acceptable either right?

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Kew is down the road from Heathrow I think

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There's a lot wrong with One-night stand in my opinion, for a start there is the small matter of STD, if you are a lady it doesnt help your reputation at all

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No not offended nothing wrong with being vietnamese. I live in Kew. You?

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But still men are allowed to do it and women are sluts ifthey do it. I thought the man and woman had to be in the room for it to happen. In my circles it happens alot and its almost the norm

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None. I don't partake in it.

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wooohoo!allergic?what sort of reactions have you had? i am seriously curious.

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Everything is wrong with it if done for the wrong reasons i.e. doing it so you can tie a man down et al

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I do not partake in one night stands. I am allergic to random Joysticks.

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its a bad lifestyle. and also the society will only encourage because lagos is overpopulated, so u'd all be doing us a favour getting STD,lets do the maths the chances of getting a disease is higher depending on how frequent u change sex partners, so keep it up

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it's all about fun and satisfaction 4 d boths gender ,  1 nite stand nt a big deal

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Greetings, my view is this: to each his own. However, it will be silly to turn a blind eye to the ever present risk of HIV. You won't get rid of it, it will definately get rid of you :-(

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It's not my lifestyle.

Besides, you can't do the really FREAKY/kinky & deranged things you would normally do with a girl you trust.

It would just seem fake and pointless, with no meaning.

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@ Rakh Is that ZULU or AFRIKAANS ? Please this is Nairaland.

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. . .nd watz so nicely said about wat tpia said.

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One night stands are mostly NSA's. I did it once and the girl called me off the hook the next day but i never answered because i had no interest in her.

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@ topic

for those in the lifestyle, nothing.

For those not in the lifestyle, everything.

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Don't mind Jaybee, poster. He is advocating men to at least commit 100 night stands.

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Nothing as long as all of them know it is a nightstand.

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Why the deviation.

Anyways, one nite stands r simply AWESOME.

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you do know that not all std's are preventable by condoms? herpes for example is not preventable by condoms and is not curable and you do not always have symptoms of the infection.

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@ Dr. Lorenz u must be a woman cos

any guy who calls a girl a skinny bit*h, is just a downlow guy( gay guy still hidding)

well i dont blame you, in nigeria being gay is not accepted yet

and FYI skinny means[b] thi[/b]n, cos its weird you call someone you have never met skinny

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I met a girl for d first time in a bank, we talked and the next day she was at my place, then we had sex, and now i am in deep Love with her that i think of her all the time, So whats bad in a 1nite stand thing?Answer= Nothing

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@ Dr. Lorenz

who gives a flying fu*k what the one night stand guy and his friend thinks

i don't live in the primitive world like you

a guy should count himself lucky i considered him for a one night stand

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well sex is about being comfortable with someone so if after just one night you feel comfortable to have sex with a stranger then its a free pass (ignoring religious disposition) but you never know who that "one night stand" could be for example the brother or sister of your future husband or wife and then it all comes back to haunt ya. Also girls have the habit of getting emotionally attached and expecting more,

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Absolutely nothing wrong with either, if a guy is gonna play u, he'll play u even if it means sticking around for a bit before popping the cherry. Heck, some dudes will even leave u without taking the cherry when you're offering it on a plate, its just a matter of being spontaneous but protecting yourself too.

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Well, i flirt a lot, harmless, bt i duck when d SHAG sign turns on, i do run

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We've established it to be 'sex on a first date' and not 'one night stand' abi?

There's nothing wrong with the sex on a first date thing. If you feel it's okay, then go ahead with it. A guy that's after you for sex will leave even if he gets it on the 10th date. Besides what really matters is you. If you want to have sex with a guy on the first day you go out with him, do it and make yourself happy!

A one-night stand? Nah! It's not just wild, its degrading!

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to avoid the name calling, after a one night stand

don't call the guy

one night stand is called one night stand for a reason

it means getting Hot and fu*king

and no strings attached

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no i don't think that's a good idea

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@post,

if u good, am good.

dont see the biggy with one nighters, or first day phucks.

u wanna holla?

am online.

we can have a life experiment and report to nl weekly how we progress.

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