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What Makes A Man A Responsible "real" Man?

I noticed a lot of women feel you have to be married and have kids to be "Responsible".Why?

I personally feel as long as you have a job,a vehicle and a home then you are responsible.Also help and protect your family and friends at all costs and act civil in society.Other than that you have no responsibilities to NO ONE.If you choose to have a wife and kids then YES you should take care of them.

But "Settling Down" is optional,not mandatory.Its just not for everyone for so many reasons.As long as your not intentionaly hurting anyone.Whether you've been in relationships with no positives or you simply choose not to be serious.Of course you have the right not to deal with this person if you choose so,right?

I work HARD and make good money to support myself and I enjoy my freedom and if I want to come home and play video games (for example)or watch a football game,why shouldn't I?Whos to say I should "Grow Up"?

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money, ego, kudi answers to all things

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Money can make a man responsible and also make him a real man

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Marriage is for every body no one is going to remain single because you wont pray to be sleeping all alone till you die

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mr presdent.do u think evrybody wud be like u who wdnt want to selttle down.abeg free de guy jo.u too go and marry.

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This is to officially invite all Nairalanders to my weddimg ceremony.

You are all wellcome.

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what if a man doesn't wanna be tied down to one woman?.Is it not better to be unmarried than be married and go about chasing any skirt you see?

Thats what women Really hate!

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If a woman is wholeheartedly committed and dedicated to you, why can't and why won't u want to marry her.

She gives you peace of mind

She loves you and wants you

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and what does the term 'good woman ' mean to you?

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It will be tough finding a "good" woman that will give you children without you marrying her.

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When the time comes sha, no one will have to tell you. When you find the "ONE" u'll marry her.

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how good you can use your darn tool - no other way.

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I kinda agree wt u cos not al married men are even responsible cos instead of them to stay faithful to their wives,they still flirt around.but in the eyes of the society,once u have a god job,a nice house and a car.they xpect that de next thing is to get married and only den can u earn the respect of the people and getting married gives u dis reasonable look.but come to think of it who are u saving all ur billions for if u just wannaa ve ur freedom wtout getting married,have kidse.t.c, to share it with you.u wud be laughed at,called names if u dont get married by family,friendsetc.so u prefer to come home and play video games instead of coming home to the loving arms of ur wife and playing wt ur kids?my brother no matter wt settling down sure earns u the respect u deserve.

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So you dont wanna get married? For how long are you gonna keep sleeping around?

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Baby boy.where and when?

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