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What Makes Your Relationship A Success?

I've being looking forward to this day as a member.I believe being here on the romances section will broadens my heart on issues that concerns the heart,which are very sensitive in relationships for effective commucation and understanding of the opposite sex in order to know the basic things which are love,trust,patient,tolerant,sacrifice etc needed for a happy relationship.What makes your relationship a success?i'll be glad to learn.

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@Ekpoma1,rememba d topic of dis discourse-'what makes ur rtnshp a success.' Dt is wat makes mine a success. Nw,many a guys tend 2 underrate their women thinkin they cnt find out abt their agenda bt it surprises dem wen they see odawise.Fine,she mite find it diff 2 4gv bt she wil cos she luvs u. Optn 2 is wat we all wish bt it hs its onions,u knw wat i mean.

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Thats a fact bro. I'll opt for option 2.

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Well they said in such instance you might lose her or she might never have to trust you again.

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@Eyonnigger,whc will u prefer-2 tell her u cheated on her nd ask 4 4gvness or nt 2 tel her den she finds out somehow? I knw its hard,bt i tel u d 1st option is beta.

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I was thinking part of being open is to tell ur gf you cheated on her after you did. Is that a part of it?

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@Eyonigger,bein open implies u tel ur woman everytin no matter wat it is.Evn wen ur boning som1else.It goes 2 shw u hv her in mind nd respect her.

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understanding,loyalty and honesty

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up ekposki

confirmed broda rite on the sites~

we are few yet we nor dey carry last~

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When you talk about openness, what exactly are u opened about?

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I believ in dis norm-TTU(Trust,tolerance nd understanding).My rtnshp is 3yrs plus nd its bin rough cos somhw my gal failed 2 apply d above wit me.Jst discovad i'v bin d cause,cos i'v nt bin open enuf 2 her. Openness is very imp 2 mak a rtnshp work.Jst tel her no matta hw hard,it shws ur woman u respect her.

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Our ability to trust, respect, communicate and understand each other.

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what do u mean by (so true)i think u dont understand those words because u re writing out of understanding.

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see,just do ur thing on ur own way.

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Me too, i believe there are more failure than success considering the thread of heartbreak which are just too much, people wouldn't open up even if they are the causes of the failure in there relationship.

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Yeah, we've heard it from the only man with the star, WALE STAR saying you should keep posting until the arrival of our lord jesus christ, and i strongly believe that will only keep happening if there are successes in relationships and people with it will continue to share it here.i definitely believe i'll be part of the success.

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Quote from Ujujoan:

Thank God it's just u thinking so but in actuality this not the case.

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The popular proverb says insurance is like marriage – you pay and pay and pay, and never get anything back. But marriage is also a relationship and but what makes everything sweet is sex, Bleep each other daily, secondly.pickkin intervention, before you knows it, collapse due to lack of money then man must work hard.

If your wife is rich and you are poor then forget respect, you will be called the living dead. 10 years marriage without a child will never have peace from both side of the family, need more posting but at all all , Na God hand the tine dey O

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Thanks everybody so far for your response, Can i now jump into conclusion that the reasons for break ups here and there is as a result lacking one or two of those elements mention so far, or there is just more to it?

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Trust

Communication

Tolerance

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Wow. Good question. I've been in a r/ship for about 2 years,and i recently got married. What's made my r/ship a success? First of all,having the good luck to find a truly amazing woman. Then trust comes into play,mutual respect is important,and a great deal of self-control is necessary. I'm not a particularly religious person,but following the bible's principle-'Let not the sun set with you in a provoked state',has helped,especially since we both have tempers. Then you have to be willing tn be flexible,to yield. Tolerance. And most important,love. All-encompassing,self-sacrificing love. That kind of love covers all things,and it's that kind of love that makes my relationship a success.

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I go with your points, couldn't have say it more than that.

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There are many things that work together to make relationship a successful one.

But as for me this three (3) is very important.

First, in all things I always put God first likewise in my relationship He is the foundation

• Trust is one of key that hold my relationship till today. because I can’ continue in relationship if there is no trust.

• Openness is another one and lastly

• Communication.

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It baffles me when it comes to issues that are foundation which are needed to be taken with every sense of seriousness,because it affect us,even if not us but people who are very close to us inform of family members,friends and neigbhours, Here is no place for jokes.if you dont have something to say,hold your peace and learn from others.If you close your eyes to facts,you will learn through accident.A word they says is more than enough for the wise.

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wow good to see you got a ring afterwards

a lot of men won't commit to a women they've been with

for that long

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Pusssy make my relationship success, because I worked for money and Bleep my girl always

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Thank you the seeker, that's was a long one, your points are well noted.

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It doesn't really take a lot to make a relationship work but I think the main thing is commitment. You need to have that before your relationship can move any close to working. Commitment will make you go the extra mile to put in your best in a relationship.

When you have commitment, you go for communication. You obviously can't communicate if you're not committed because you could care less.  After this comes honesty. I want to believe that when you communicate, you do so in all honesty or it won't be a hearty discussion.

Another is patience. Dealing with a partner -- young or old, mature or immature -- is like having to do with someone you have never met just as it was back in your elementary school days. It takes a lot of them for some people to adjust to who they are dating and it could be pretty short for some. You have to know also that the comfort-level of each person varies, and the rate at which others integrate perfectly into their new dates depends on a lot of factors. Don't get mad when you have to repeatedly spell out your do's and don'ts to your partner, and don't lose your patience when your girlfriend wants you to pet her all the time, both when necessary and unnecessary.

Commitment, communication, honesty, patience, then comes another, sacrifice.

Sacrifice can mean different things to different people in different and diverse situations. The most important thing is, in every relationship make good use of your head and do what's right. Your heart at some point may not convey a correspondingly valid message with your heart. Right at this juncture, you'll need to use your brain to fathom what's right. You can't possibly ask your girlfriend or fiancee to drop her dreams of wanting to be a nurse because you think she may not have time in the future for the family (you and your kids), and it'll be foolish for her to walk out on her path to a rosy career because of what 'harm' you think it might do to the future you both are planning.

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Nothing wrong with break ups, but there is something wrong with bad break ups- and thats as a result of initial evil intentions, if your goal is to only strafe a woman but then dont you lie to her that you shall marry her only because you want to phuck. Often times, thats what most men do.

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well we've given u enuf tips, although not exhaustive

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ekpoma

What exactly is your current predicament sir?

What is your main concern?.

Regards

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Thank so far for your comments.besides all those things mention,are we not leaving out something here, i mean puting our relationship in God's hands.just a suggestion though.

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love, committment, honesty, communication and most of all must have common interests or things they enjoy doing together,

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Yes Very true indeed.

Communication is a very important factor.

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Cliche but communication and honesty is the key to a good relationship.

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