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What Matters Most To you In A Relationship?

Generally, people say that “Love,” matters most in a relationship For me personally, there are many things that matter, but what matters most is honesty, It is the foundation of trust.  Without trust there is no true love.

So, what is most important to you?

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love, trust, honesty,sexually active

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committment, good moral values, and love

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Commitment and morals on both sides.

If you are committed then at times when loves seems distant the commitment keeps on working for a solution. With moral comes the strength to with stand the temptations of this world.

Once betrayed all the love in the world cannot restore trust.

I can trust you but all that does is make me a fool if you are not committed and with a solid morals.

Give me a man who is committed to his marriage and to his God and there you at least have a chance.

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Definately . . . Honesty!

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@otukpo

My sister it's a nigerian factor, you hardly find through love this day, what you get to find is true LUST,

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Honesty!

I hate it when someone says he/she loves but can't be truthful to the lover.

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2 me, wht ever d level of luv,respect,or etc,d most impt tin is frdship jst that.

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I want it all, I've gotto get it all

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What kind of love? There are so many variations going round now

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But biblically, love covereth all things.

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Trust and honesty of course, because it is the base or foundation of every relationship

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LOVE is still the greatest of it all. Without love my dear, you're on your own, , because when the going gets tough, only LOVE gets it going.

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Everything good matters in a relationship but i was told that Good things don't last ( I never believe such word).

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Humor, fairness, honesty, openess, loyalty, generosity and reliablity.

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@SWEETIEPIE

DID I HEAR YOU SAY "MESS UP"

NOT BAD!!!!!!!!!!! BUT I THINK IS FUN MESSING UP HAAAAAAAAAA HAAAAAAAAAAAAA HAAAAAAAAAAA

YOU CAN GO AND DIE IN SHORT IF YOU LIKE JUMP INTO THE LAGOOOOOOOOON I CARES.

, HER REGARDS LOL(MY BABE) SHE IS ASKING TO STOP, BUT NON-STOP AS FAR AS YOU ARE CONCERN

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@olulove, keep on kiping it real, bro

sweetpie, u know i like u

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@chipmunkey

not been aggressive per say but saying the truth and nothing but the truth

@didobaba

tell them what they are supposed to hear cause they are all the same specie with chicken brains

@sweetiepie

i'm posting this with my babe right beside me

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@SWEETIEPIE

YOU ASKED FOR IT AND AM SURE YOU'RE GONNA GET TO THE FULLEST FRIEND

SINCE YOU ARE REFUSING TRUTH SCUMBAG!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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^^^olulove. correct guy.

soulja boy, tell em

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sup olulove, why are you so aggressive?

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@SWEETPIE23

I DON'T BLAME YOU,I NOW KNOW THAT YOU ARE[table][tr] THE[/tr][/table] REALLY THE FUCKER,GOLDIGGER AND PRETENDER I WAS TALKING ABOUT.

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@SWEETPIE23

I DON'T BLAME YOU,I NOW KNOW THAT YOU ARE THE REALLY THE FUCKER,GOLDIGGER AND PRETENDER I WAS TALKING ABOUT.

I THINK A FOOLISH RESPONSE FROM ME IS BETTER THAN JUST BEEN A PRETENDER LIKE THE OTHER FUCKERS.

I HAVE MET MANY BABES. I'M STILL MEETS BABES AND I WILL STILL BE MEETING MORE BABES, I KNOW ALL OF YOU ARE THE SAME.

I WISH I HAVE YOUR NUMBER SO THAT I WILL CALL YOU A FUCKER AND A GOLDIGGER.

IF YOU DOUBT ME YOU CAN REACH ON +2348067897854 AND I'M GONNA SAY THAT TO YOUR HEARING.[color=#990000][/color]

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I'll look out for the following spices

1.FUN

2.EXCITEMENT

3.SINCERITY

N.B Even Love is secondary because . . . . . . . . .

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everybody that has posted a comment before me on this thread ARE ALL FUCKERS AND PRETENDERS, all of una dey form saint and saintess,ESPEcially the SO callED guys and non ending forming babes in the house.let me tell you ALL FUCKERS AND PRETENDERS wHY wE go into A relationship:

1.MOST IMPORTANTLY SeX FOR THEY STERO MEN(GUYS) IN THE HOUSE

2.AND MONEY FOR THEY BABES

YOU SEE THE TRUST,HONESTY, AND EVERY OTHER BULLSHIT LISTED BY YOU ALL ARE ALL CHANNELED TOWARDS WHAT WAS LISTED ABOVE IN RESPECT TO GUYS AND BABES

I REST MY CASE

PEACE OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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For me:

1. Honesty/Trust

2. Love

3. Respect

4. Moral Values

and the greatest is THE FEAR OF GOD.

QED.

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lollll,

I can die for good looks with confidence, I don't see money, it's secondary to me. Very hard to believe I know, but it's just me.

Am not talking about a complete broke Bottom here anyway,

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Love, looks, trust/honesty,respect.

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trust/honesty all the way.

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"Two are better than one, " So what matters most in this relationship?

", and a threefold cord is not quickly broken"

What is that third factor? Search

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the most important like i have always said is understandind but b4 this there must be love, cos love conquers all things.

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Love can be a very complicated things when there is no understanding. I think SexyL was right tho.

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Love is not the most important in a relationship. Understanding, compromise, not taking your partner for granted, respect, sexual compatibility and friendship are very important in a relationship. Based on these, the love will blossom.

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All these are qualities that will manifest, if both parties will understand one another, because in a case where there is no understanding there is no love, mutual respect, commitment nor moral values. u r as beautiful as the qualities u desire.

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Sigh, That'z one Hell of A Q,but I'd Rather say don't get involve it all aint tru or worth it, No matter what u think u want in a relationship,best pray to dear lawd u get it,I think Trust and tru Lovin is it, U can't love when u don't and or can't trust ur partner, Besides, Lovin Don't even worth it, Just fuq the C,get up and act like its all smooth,cas at the end of that day, u aint gettin what u wanted, Everythin from 18 to 30 na shere shere, don't cut a dawh's head off now, Smooth

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Trust, honesty, compatibility, love, mutual respect, understanding, commitment, moral values, these things play an important role for me in a relationship.

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What matters most in a relationship is compromise, that has to do with understanding, the love can be there but without understanding it will not last. with understanding every other thing can follow.

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for me,honesty.because is the foundation of others things

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respect,trust,sense of humour and sexual attraction and compatibility is all i need!!!

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Honesty and trust are the pillars that holds relationship. But our girls nowdays if you never f**k them, you deserve no respect yet, no matter how honest you are.

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Well what could possible sustain my relationship are the following:

1. Sadist Sex

2. Vulgar language

3. Multiple dates

4. Terrible culture

5. Greedy habits

these 5 listed will make your relationship stronger if you try them as well. But don't say i didn't warn u

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If you need one, u go out and get urself one, am getting sick of dudes tht hope to get chics on forums like this

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I am truly in search of a life partner which has some desirable qualities like honesty, understanding and motherly care. Please interested ladies can mail me personally at azexclusive@gmail.com.

I await ur honest reply

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Too much idealism here. How can one possibly underrate sexual compatibility?

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TRUST

Without trust, there can be no faith; without faith, there can be no love; without love, there can be no relationship!

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love, chemistry, respect, trust and honesty. . . .chikennah! With all that ma Mimi and Mi would make it thru. . . .!

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