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What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?

I am sick of men boasting about what makes a real man.

Do you think that being good in bed makes a real man? OR having a big organ makes a real man?

Whatever is your opinion, please let's hear it.

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2.A man who loves you celebrate you in the public and he is not ashamed to tell the world how much he loves you!

3.He always calls you to find out how your day is going

4.He Will feel terrible when he forgets your birthday or anniversary and will always make it up to you.

5.Surprises you with gifts, even when the occasion is not special. He's not stingy.

6. He Tells you regularly that he loves you

7.He understands you even if nobody does and always makes you feel you are the best

8. He never Threatens to leave you or divorce you no matter what happens. A Real Man Is A Forgiver

9. He Feels your pain when you go through hard times

10. He loves to see you happy and rejoices with you

11.He Always makes quality time to spend with you

12. He will never physically or emotionally abuse you because Love is Kind

13.He Will marry u without waiting too long

14. He forgives and forgets when you apologize for hurting his feelings.

15. He Will not use your weaknesses or secrets against you

16. He Will not air your dirty laundry.

17. He Is patient & willing to work on your relationship problems.

18. He Knows that it is important for u to spend sometime with your friends and family members.

19. He Will not cheat on u. He has no alternative so he focuses on you alone! Love doesn't double date!

20.He Will not flirt with your girlfriends! A man who loves you is faithful to you no matter the pressure from other ladies.

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A real man is in-charge of EVERYTHING. He is always in control.

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A man that can make a woman relax in his presence at all times is what i call a real man.

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A real man stands up for what is right

even when its not popular.

God,Family,doing your job right the first time

Treating other people with respect, taking res-

ponsibility for your mistakes and fix them.

A REAL man will do the right thing because its the

right thing to do-even if no one is watching.

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WHAT QUALITIES MAKE A "REAL WOMAN"

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Real Men do real things.

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Just be yourself and the right person would come in that person's eye you're a dream come true so just BE YOURSELF.

Is there anything like a fake man? even if there is there'll be someone somewhere who prefers him to every other person.

SO BE YOURSELF nuffyn do you

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a real man is one who respects women, and has character.

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~~A real man puts his wife and family first

~~A real man make sure they are taken care off

~~A real man never put or talk down to any lady

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Responsibility makes a real man!

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A real man is a man who dare to live and die for his family.

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Queenafric,

With the expereince I had here, I wouldnt know if it is thesame in your area. I discovered that White people have turned the ability of a Man to something else I mean SEX.

Meanwhile, The power of Man or the ability to control problems being Marital or any form.

That is why I can not never marry white.

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In my opinion, a real man is a man who is confident yet humble. he is wiling to be corrected when wrong. And also a real man never hits a woman no matter how much emotional she is. And well i can go on, but i think this quote pretty much sums it up:

" A man sees a nice pair of shoes and works hard to buy it themselves.

A boy sees a nice pair of shoes and goes steal it off the guy

A man goes and builds a house.

A boy goes and destroys a house."

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a real man is real in everything u know what i mean

real job, degree, cash, dick and every other real factors of a man

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real men does not matter how big ur bikini is or u being a womaniser.i think real man is a man with his word.

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Honesty, this is one of the qualities most 9ja guys dont posses, it's a pity!

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it doe't matter if girl,will sleep in her boy friends place or not,

because every man are not the same even woman also.

it does't mean that if a girl sleep in boy friend place she became a disrespect no.

remember,that love is blind.

u see there is many fishes in the sea,but love is blind.

it depend the type of woman oe man.

the best always make theirself.

to love is not to hate.

if one love it comes out of heart.

ok?

responsible man,always make theirself right.

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Haba, LadyT, must u turn ur sarcastic politeness my way, do u find it extremely difficult to present ur polite self devoid of sarcasm? I was just making an innocent comment, that's all, besides, I think having a re-check of ur dic could help shed more light on definition of words.

By the by, I don't believe in violence either, whether towards males, females or hermaphrodites. I am a man of peace. Finito

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Sorry I have no respect for wife beaters. You dont hit your wife by mistake. And if you can't tell the difference between sarcasm and being polite I pity you.

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I want

Sorry 2 disappoint u dude. Am so far away from fantansy. I was listing the characteristics of my Boyfriend when I made that post…am sorry you are not man enough to match that

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Gosh, LadyT, reading ur comment posted February 06, 2007 tells me you've got a very bad mouth, you are just trying to be polite which makes it worse since it is deliberate.

Anyway, a real man for me is what u make of it. Different strokes for different folks they say.

The person whose "salt" reacts with your "acid" (excuse my knowledge of chemistry) is ur real man.

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first and foremost, Real men love Jesus and put himas the personality of their deepest affection before anyone else.Not undermining the importance of cherishing and appreciating someone else.

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All these qualities for one man? I hope someone is not using this list to screen for their real man

because most likely they will end up getting a "fraud". Chances are most men you will come across

your lifetime will have SOME [b]not ALL [/b]of those qualities. Chances are they may be everything else

but do not believe in God, Chances are they may be everything else, but you won't see their

wallet, etc.

I apologize if I intruded in anyone's daydream by chance, you can now go back to dreaming. . .

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A real man to me is a man that is strong enough to handle the surprises that life tosses, forgiving, reserved, easy to please, fun to be with, God fearing, not stingy, loving, self controlled and caring.

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Peace and blessings to freestyl.

As for you bima4u2c- are you so idealistic and naive that you think that being a virgin will make your future wife respectable? it takes a lot more than that. Marry a HUMAN not a HYMEN. You'll be very disappointed if you tink she can't have an "impure" character.

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A real man;

knows who he is, won't compromise his integrity, stands up for what he believes in, strives to be the best he can be and is respected by everyone who knows him. He makes women look at him and think "Whatta man!" Not just because he looks good in a suit but because we admire his humanity, character and the way he carries himself.

In short a real man has his poo together. And he knows it.

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nikynike, i think you are close to it. But that is what you want.I hope you don`t take advantage of him like most of you do.

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An ability to think about what's best for everyone, not just him. A genuine wish to make others happy, not just to get his own way. Being firm about things that matter, more relaxed about things that don't matter so much. Being able and willing to listen to other points of view. An ability to keep his temper, even under trying circumstances. Keeping a sense of humour, and not taking the whole thing too seriously

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lol. . .T, you have time to even explain that to him?

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the dfn is not far fetched; a real man is that man dt loves his God and does 'HIS' wills, and loves his neighbour as himself. a man dt is able to leave good inheritance for his children's children, chikena.

however, i wonder why we av broken relationships/marriages from all the submissions i av read. it is like some pple are bus conductors, pharisees who are far to see an saducees who are sad to see.almost every1 in the house has a concise defn of what a real man is; but', do we practise what we preach?[color=#000099][/color]

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everyone has got there own defination,but i think a real man is one who realizes when he has made a mistake,trys to correct it,apologise and forge ahead, he should b caring,understanding,enduring and responsible to his woman and family and also very handy around the house,no macho crap like am the head of the family I can't do the dishes or change nappies.He should stand strong,do his best to satisfy his womans needs.who knows I maybe wrong.

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What makes a real man?

Jamb question.

guess there is no universal set of qualities but i bet it must include being responsible, kind and understanding.

so what makes a real woman?

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for me i think a real MAN is that guy who is very sincere and down to earth in respect of all odds. but i all what goes around comes around. you poin a fingers to someone all other four are pointed tp you. Peaceeeeee

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There is nothing like a real man! All we can say is the type of man we would like but how many of these men truely exist?

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well, does switching chicks everyday makes one a dog-scrot( whatever thgat means)?

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Many men are dog scrots, just like the one on Radiants profile

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Radiant,

Come on, don't pretend like you don't know!!!!

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Girls,

Pls stop dreaming.The subject was who a "Real Man" is and not who an "Ideal Man" is.

A real man switches chicks everyday.A real man is either Rich or Dies trying!!!THe Ideal's the opposite.

So Ladies, if u want a Real Man,just holla ama get back to u,

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Skyboi, you are very right; man

He must also have a strong heart.

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Most of what all of u are saying is the same thing u find in all these love magazines and the rest of them a real nigga is(1) who looks good in publc u can take him anywhere and other women want him(2)treats u really good(3)smells good,has a very good sense of humor and in general just knows how to act lke a really exquisite person thats it .Not all this u guyz are saying

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A real man is to a woman what Christ is to the church, and his also kn by his character

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A real man is a man who has the fear of God, shows love,caring to his woman. Tolerance and flexible. A man who can admit his wrongs and able to say IM SORRY to his woman. And must have a forgiven spirit.

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;Da real man must be able to eat eba in the morning afternoon and night without getting indigestion

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Focus

Result oriented

one whose mind is not far from his heart

Fatt and Phat wallet!

and a big prick

note: he doesnt necessarily have to be fine

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the qualities of a good man lies inside/outside his inner being

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what qualities make a "real boy"?

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A real man is the man that understand his wife in terms of TENDER LOVING CARE (TLC).that will loves his wife like his family

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A real man is, hmmm, well, yu guys dont wanna know, belivev me!

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a real man is my dad. he cried like a baby when he lost his wife.

a handy man is a real man. a man that can fix things (and fix u too) around the house.

that can admit when he makes a mistake

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Yeah being able to connect with other people also includes the woman in a man's life.A man should love the woman in his life like himself.

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