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I've been asking this girl out since the past two years but she keeps insisting that she would not tell me the reason why she's still saying NO to my date request. Although,I still see many things that show to me that this girl likes me. In the past,we used to be friends because we lived in the same area but we weren't all that close. She's 20 already and I dont know why she's obstinate. I'm never giving up anyway but tell me what to do to get this girl. I love her so much.

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two years did i hear u say two years mr man please leave the girl alone am sure u far older than her and the reason u still hanging on is because u ve not gotten between her legs, do u want her 2 carry a placard first please move on,

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Ol boy na wa o. U come do like say u no knw woman, really u're doing it too much I mean the toasting/wooing of a thing. I will like to give u d gist alone ok its a secret, mail me on henryfamo@yahoo.com. I've study there (woman) physiology u jst mail me and c d wonders. I knw u are gonna praise the lord.

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@KELISCIA

VERY GOOD,U'VE SAID IT ALL

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@ abudee

yes is true that girls prefer guys in those categories ,

is also true that you don't choose who to LOVE

it just happen ,

you can fall in love with the most silly man in world.

but what can you do ,

nothing you are already in love so please don't talk about categories

                                  love is blind , you know?

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Everyone seems to b telling u d smartest decision u hav b4 u.But heres a tip!

Most girlz hardly fall in luv jst because dey want 2, wat they try 2 luk at is

1. if u r as reliabl as they expect

2. If ur ambitions in life suites their minimum expectations

3. If u r either boxed up or Hav Something resourceful to do with ur life.

If u r sure u r in any of this categories,then dnt bother cos d best is out there waiting 4u.And if u Still Insist, try n let go.

Cos if truly she is meant 4u,she will always come back 2u.

Open ur eyez,stop denying ur self d goodthings of life n try 2 move foward.

CHEERS.

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guys do you understand what he said ,

he has  been asking her out from 2 years

come on if a girl like's you she will never let you wait for that long ,

and when u like someone you want to be with the person, you want to see him, and your only desire is to go out with him,

BOY THIS GIRL FEELS NOTHING 4 YOU

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its been a while and mayb she doesnt kno how to tell him no or she might b gay lol

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mayb she's bein too nice

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maybe she is not that into you

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I agree with naija diva theres something behind her saying no

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n wot do u think can be the reason?

maybe she loves someone else or something

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maybe there is a reason behind here answer and she's afraid to tell you here reason.

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i have told him, i hope he listens.

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help me tell em oooooooooooooooo diddy4, for me i think she is too small for all those things sha.

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Um. You'll get over her eventually.

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for 2 years? damn, and i tot i had it bad. yours is worst man. you gott@ move on. at least she aint playing hard to get so basically, just look for another ofeke cuzz this one no want you or you can do what edygirl said.

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DEAR,DONT GIVE N U WILL SUCCEED.

THAT'Z HOW GIRLS R,SHE'S JUST JUST PLAYING HARD ON U.

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bros y dont u leave d poor girl and find som1 else no b by force wit aids and hiv all around u are still killing ursef because of a small girl dat has not seen anytin in life please wake up

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I pity that girl.

just let go am sure you are her biggest nightmare

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@basic, youre what other Guys call a wussy (Mumu).

how can you ask a girl out for two years, You deserve to be on Guiness book of records

What world are you stuck in, if a girl says no more than once these days, she means no and you gatta move on.

Are you afraid of meting other preety girls? if youre not careful, shell report you to the police as a stalker.

i do not apologize for being rude, youre disgracing us guyz. i have sent you an email, you must visit the website i reccomended and do as it says. i need you to announce a new girlfriend in 3 weeks. YOU HEAR!

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My candid advice is that you shl try to get her talk to you, let her feel the gravity of the feelings you have for her, and see if she'll budge, but if she remains adamant, i 'll rather you give her some more time- maybe 2 months break, perhaps there is something scare about her that she knows will bump you off the moment you hear it.

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i guess you should move on, at least if she gave a reason it makes more sense.

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BOY DONT YOU SEE THAT

THIS  GIRL DONT LIKE YOU 4 NOTING? 

BECAUSE IF SHE REALLY LIKE YOU US U ARE SAYING THEN SHE WOULD HAVE GONE OUT WITH YOU  FROM A LONG TIME.

AND BELIVE ME SHE IS NOT PLAYING THE PART OF A DIFFICULT GIRL

BECAUSE IF SHE WERE, SHE WOULD HAVE PLAYED 4 1 WEEK NOT 2 YEARS,

MYBE SHE IS SAYING NO JUST BECAUSE SHE KNOW  U FROM A LONG TIME AND SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HURT U

IF A GIRL REFUSE TO GO OUT WITH A BOY  IS A CLEAR MESSAGE THAT MEENS  SHE DOESN'T LIKE THE GUY

                                      SO  BOY MOVE ON,

THIS ONE 4GET

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Basic boy see eh, i have same thing in my net, just try be urself and don't pest her oooo give her sometime don't be susprise that this so called gurl loves you.

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Ignore her for a week or a month and at this time when you see her just smile at her or say hi and nothing else. Very soon she would start looking for your face. But that's if she likes you. If she does then you talk to her like an old friend and forget about showing off your likeness for her. Then if she continues showing you that she is interested then you can ask her out again. If you show girls you like them alot they start wiggling their but for you.

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All i knw is that, she is not ready for all this una love of a thing, lol

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@coco abeg seun will pay for all of us,hehehe indeed

abeg coco go here and tell me ya view http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-19160.0.html

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well i dont really know what's stoping her for

going out wit u

if u say she really loves u

cos as for me i dont think she loves u that much as u say

or is she just playing abit shakara to say yes?lol

anyway keep ur finger cross who knows maybe she will agree

but as for me i dont think she feels anything for u,or she loves u.!!

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