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What's Wrong With Him? Is He Shy Or What?

So, me and this guy started chatting because we're foreign students in my schoool, we're both from Nigeria so we clicked immediately. Thing is, we used to chat when we meet up before class, then we started sms'n each other back and forth like 15 times.

Then, the next day, he sees me in class and gives me a cold hi, in the night we chat again. What's going on with him? Is he shy or what?

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I know nothing else is going on in his life. I'm buying the idea of him not knowing what to say when he meets me though

I know he isn't angry or anything, because he's always ready to talk when we're not F2F. He talks to me F2F sometimes, but since we started chatting by sms, he's been very offish to me in person but nice when we sms.

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Thanks guys for your advice. It's all been duly noted

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He's not shy. His brain works faster than his mouth can cope. So he prefers to IM than to blabber out of tandem

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@ bgal, he is not shy. he is prolly biding his time and will strike when you are vulnerable. i know men like that. be careful.

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think is shy so help him out if u dig him

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for god sake if a guy truly loves a girl he will do anytin to make sure he gets her madness cured, even if it means taking her to a psychiatric house, not to talk of a mere dental proble u sugest or even body odur. if you wana know what love is all about then u have to first of all undatstand the true meaning of love plz

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Why is everyone saying the guy is shy? and only one person tries to distinguish himself from others but in a NOT funny way. He talks about bad breath (smelling mouth), does this make him the Julius Agu of naiaralnd or what?

Why don't we look at the whole situation this way, how about if what the guy is thinking about Bgal is contrary to what everyone including Bgal is thinking?

@Bgal

It seems you already jumped into conclusion about the guy, and if you do, why don't you help him out by 'toasting' him? How long will a mad man live that you want to take care of him for 50 years?

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this guy is scared to talk to women in the open (you may call it shy). i believe he must have been overpampered by his mother which he doesnt like. i am sure he is a very intelligent man but his only problem is that he's scared of showing his emotions out for everyone to see.

it may also be that his taste is high up and he doesnt know how to handle it.

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That's why I'm buying the "He's quite shy idea". What's with you, anyway? Can't you just believe me - I DON'T HAVE BAD BREATH.

And, no, he doesn't have bad breath, either

Don't you have other things to do?

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OR MAYBE HIM MOUTH NA IM DEY SMELL, looking at the duo of the coin

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@ Hotstepper

Thanks, but no thanks

@ tonye-t

Why in the world would I need the services of a lawyer?

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how do you know a cold HI from a hot HI ehn?, they say some people no de know say them get smelling mouth, you just cant tell babie, u cant tell,

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@ tonye-t

OMG! You again. Do you honestly believe that I have bad breath? I said we talked F2F during the day, started chatting by sms at night. The next day, he gives me a cold hi, then is all friendly at night.

Do you get that?

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ugghhh, mr.kaysy,

so you are the love doctor ehn, seeing things from one angle only, okay lets see it from this angle, example:, I AM BEGINNING TO KNOW THIS GIRL, AND WE ARE BEGINNING TO LIKE EACH OTHER, WE EXCHANGED NOs, THEN WE SMS AND CHAT, AND I NOTICED THAT HER MOUTH REALLY STINKS I SWEAR I WILL CONTINUALLY LIVE ON THE SMS WORLD RATHER THAN TALK WITH HER FACE TO FACE, for crying out loud dont you think that the guy is avoiding her because he probably doen't want to embarrasse her, see it this way, , she (poster) said when they see eachother he is always the 1st t say "HI" and probably from afar, i bet you no shy guy will even bring up the first word when he meets the girl, sh tis simply tells me that IT MIGHT BE THAT THE GIRL HAS A DENTAL PROBLEM!, period

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@ kaysy

I'm lovin ur idea. But, what if it avoiding him doesn't make him come up with anything? What exactly is the difference b/w avoiding him and neglecting him? But, I'm really feeling your idea.

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house plz i want you to stop saying he's shy, the truth is dat he's not the kindda guy that goes kindda straight to the point. i tink he just want u to count ur teeths with ur tongue and know what he's up to. but as for me i dont like it that way cos it's not gonna be a relatnshp based on aggreement i.e anytin can happen anyday and what the girl will say is "did u hear me say yes?"

let me tell you what to do girl, pretend as if u're avoiding him for some time, i dont mean neglet all i said is avoid, just a pretend and see what he'l come up with ok? if you need anything to know in relatnshp & co. mail me at kaysyxpress@yahoo.com i can xplain beta to ur satifactns ok?

dont really mind what the house is saying here, he could be the guy for you,

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he is shy, besides, wat uni. r u 2 in?

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He's really shy. It seems like you really like this guy, so don't push him away by being all agressive. In time, his confidence level will probably soar!

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@ tonye-t

Very funny.

@ clemcykul

Nah, that can't be cos I'm sure you know when a guy thinks you're hot and believe me he thinks I'm hot.

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maybe ur potential lover doesnt dig ur sight

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@everyone,

why are you all saying the guy is shy, maybe the chic's mouth dey ohzzzzzzzzz! maybe thats why he is so hot on sms

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No, I don't bite.

Last nite, when we were doing the usual sms rounds, I asked him why he's so shy? He ignored that part and replied the other parts of the sms

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I think he his a silly sausage!!

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Thnx guys, that's what I thought too but one of my gfs thinks he has a crush on me or something and he doesn't know how to express himself. Oh God, I don't know what to think.

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