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What do you guys think? My cousin hardly listens to advice no matter what. When talking to him about a wrong step,he would nod and be calm like its getting to him.Now the issue: he has a gf in london (both families connected them).He is in Nigeria. He has one back in Nigeria. The time 'london' went back2naija for visit my cousin was like he loved her body n that it smelled like vanilla(silly boy) very unlike naija chics.By the time she returned, he continued wif his naija runs. Truth is, he claims2 lyk the naija girl so much n that she understands him better n all.I have witnessed him treat her like rag n she tells me its cos she loves him n if it were some other person she would have walked away.He sees her almost everyday except on days he wants to bring in another chic. He communicates with the one in london like once a week or less.He says he quarrels often with 'london' because she isnt respectful. There is nothing I have not told him.

It's time to pick a wife. Mum has family ties with 'london's ' family (His dad is late though).The naija chic was his selection. What should he do, go with the naija chic or the 'london'.It's more complicated than this but this is the summary.Every sensible response will be appreciated.

Thank you.

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@Tashanja

I think so too but I really get scared of naija chics and their pretence sometyms.A girl told me a story of how she put all her boyfriends suits and socks in water on a sunday night(supposed 2go 2work on monday morning), because of a simple issue they had.now,can be a bit casual on fridays depending on your companies code.can you imagine such wickedness?Many naija chics have black hearts.But they are still ours.What can we do?

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Naija chic cos she respects and tolerates him and likely to endure his obvious shortcomings.

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I sometimes tell him he's got a spiritual problem(dats nt2say Im perfct but then, haba).

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na wa oh ,may Almighty God HElp him out,and give him the listening earsbunna

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I think so hun, if his eyes are still wondering about then he hasnt found the right woman yet.

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You just made a point.But lets reconsider-Can it be said that any man who hasnt found a woman that he can be faithful to isnt ready for marriage yet?

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ebony whats your take on the mata?

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I wish it wasnt so easy to make a thread

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Venue for what?The wedding?Hasnt startd wedding plans yet-at least to the best of my knowledge

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Mr 190 is that your opinion?

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^^^

typical only with persons who are high with marijuana mixed wit some contents of VIAGRA

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