What do you guys think? My cousin hardly listens to advice no matter what. When talking to him about a wrong step,he would nod and be calm like its getting to him.Now the issue: he has a gf in london (both families connected them).He is in Nigeria. He has one back in Nigeria. The time 'london' went back2naija for visit my cousin was like he loved her body n that it smelled like vanilla(silly boy) very unlike naija chics.By the time she returned, he continued wif his naija runs. Truth is, he claims2 lyk the naija girl so much n that she understands him better n all.I have witnessed him treat her like rag n she tells me its cos she loves him n if it were some other person she would have walked away.He sees her almost everyday except on days he wants to bring in another chic. He communicates with the one in london like once a week or less.He says he quarrels often with 'london' because she isnt respectful. There is nothing I have not told him.
It's time to pick a wife. Mum has family ties with 'london's ' family (His dad is late though).The naija chic was his selection. What should he do, go with the naija chic or the 'london'.It's more complicated than this but this is the summary.Every sensible response will be appreciated.