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What Should I Do To Find Out Whether She Had Ever Cheat On Me?

Hello house,i have been dating a girl for so long now,but its a Long distance relationship(differents states in Nigeria),we can only meet like once in six months because of far distance and the nature of our work.However,I made up my mind that i cannot mess up myself with any other girl.I decided to be faithful to her.But my mind always keep on disturbing me that she may be having affair with another man.I cant believe in her that another man is not making use of her.Please,what should i do to find out whether she had had an affair with another man since distance separate us?because very soon i will travel to go and see her,the first since August last year we met last,as i will not like to sleep with her if i am not hundred percent sure that she did not sleep with another man in my absence,unless she tell me,confess and apologise.Pls house,how will i find out?

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~ As a man thinketh, so is he. . . ~

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@ poster, take a measureing tape and record the measurment the next time u do it, then when next you meet use the measuring tape and check it again. JUST KIDDING

Your mind is just playing funny games on you and if you cant TRUST her let her go. stop killing yourself. TRUST AND BELIVE IN HER.

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take heart ooooooooo

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With the scenarios you have given, there are only two ways you can know:

1) Get someone or you yourself to stalk her movement.

2) When you get AIDS positive, then you will know she has given you something you should not have.

I don't advice you to use either tactics if you are in so much doubt. My advice, if you are that bothered:

a) Quit the relationship.

b) Covert her status to banging partner and look for another babe.

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tell her to give you a bloe job, if she does, then she's a Indecency star. secondly follow her everywhere she goes. i hope you don't get hyper-tension though.

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well you probably cannot tell if or weather she is cheating on you, but wait do you really trust her, do you really love her, do you really know wat she is capable of doing. Then STOP worrying about her her and love her more by always being in contact with her, and that will make her always fell your presence weather you are there or not. But there is only one sure way to find out if she really loves you or not and that is thru her body language, you can learn more about body language on my websit and i do hope you follow take fast action if you want to keep her.

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there is nothing u can do but 2 trust her. always tell her d truth. if she is cheating on u time will tell. remember nothing is hidden under d sun. wen she'll be exposed there will be no turning round d truth. don't suspect her nor tell her u hav doubts about her. she'll make u feel u are too insecure and jealous and dat will be bad 4 u. all d best man

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well let me tell you this first of all negative mind can ruin a relationship. always think positive until you see by your self

even if you hear 4rom hundreds of people i suggest you comfirm 4rom her first.i believe f she loves yu the way you do i dont think she will have the mind to do that.

also communication matters alot ask her questions about other guys definitely i believe she must have people disturbing her ask her how she feel when you are not around and 4rom her answr you will find the truth,,

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