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What Should I Do To This Girl?nlander,please Give Your Opinion

What am about to share here had been done by me before September last year and people of NL blamed me and of which I accepted.But there is a new development which I will like to also share with you. Please note that its not that am sympathizing with her after what she did to me but I just want to know what she could be thinking as it will guide me in the future.Beside,I have no plan for because I am just going to use and dump her. It all started November 2008 .She started dating a guy in P.H and while I be in benin sending her money to help her. Its not that I am from a rich home,but youk know those things that you would do for someone you love and care about and trying to be understanding. So when I found out about her infidelity,a quarrel ensued. she said she did it because of money since her parent werent supportive.Then on that same day she said she is still dating X that I should know now. then some days later she told me that she has stopped seeing the guy. she apologised for her action and we continued

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Am still waiting for more response

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Most girls (@least d ones i've bin wit) alwys claimd 2b virgins(so u wud treat dem special/not as sex tools)

d prob wit guys like u is u dnt play ur game rite & u end up bein a mugu cos u r afraid to test her & she ends up doin other peeps bhnd u.

@her 1st bfrnd issue only comes up if u aint doin her rite."nature abhorrs a vacuum"

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All those criticizing me,If you have never fallen mugu before,let me see your hands up.I know that she wants me back probably because most guys she has met over the last 8months since we broke up has not been caring like me. they probably want to use her and dump her. I also know that she loved the guy that deflowered her and that is why she gave him,but later discovered that the guy has no plan for her. All I want you to help me do,which nobody has been able to do,is answer some budging questions I have in mind. Why did she tell me that she had been disflowered? was it really a mistake,as she claimed? Is it easy or possible to forget the guy who deflowered her like she is presently acting? My only plan is to fk her,cos I never did,I then let her be. Do you think that my decision is right? If not,what do you suggest? Thank you. p.s I really need answers to this questions. Thanks All!

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[quote author=2sexy link=topic=434303.msg5942645#msg5942645 date=1272043497 I said I have learnt my lessons and am now a changed guy. What I have in mind is fk her sometime and get a nice,tall,light skin girl.

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Guy ur case is even mor pathetic, so u neva chop am within a yr, wow! Wat were u doin, let me guess u were readin her poetry!

@ur oda request- is it a yam, if it were, u wud b don juan, kai u don old, grow up! Mayb u get genie

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To all those who have criticized me,cant you read? Can you read that all this happened last year? If it were an exam,many NLander could have failed to summarise and extract the meaning of my post. I said I have learnt my lessons and am now a changed guy. What I have in mind is fk her sometime and get a nice,tall,light skin girl. aM in my mid 20s. I dont have any plans for her. i know she doesnt love me and nothing would ever make her love me. I know all this.

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Well My guy dis 's sadn enough but not withstanding my advise is 4 U 2 make sure U eat in the cake else it will foeever be a sour in ur heart den find a better girl take care

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@ Poster - Revenge is mine says the Lord. I understand the need for revenge, believe you me I have been there, but the satisfaction is short lived at best. You think that sleeping with this chic now and tossing her out cos she didnt do you in the past would make u happier? Dude it would not so man up and let go of the past. As for the chic forgive her and move on aiight?

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@ poster,

just sumfin 2 learn from so u knw how 2 deal wif odaz.

gud luck

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Wow, went tru dis for a long time agao.men urs was worse.well d fact was dat she was using u nd neva loved u.I hav adated a girl dat hav a bf that giv ha everytin she needs.everytin d guy giv to her she will want me to take part.she even gave me d laptop d guy gav her wen mine was faulty.even jewry,money,ipod.wen I discover I askd her to stop givin me d items bt for d money why nt bt I hav dis inna guilt dat she was doing it to a guy like me.d guy givs her anytim on per asking.men plz leave her to go unharm.just take it as a lesson to u.dnt repay her.

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chai chai chai i sorry for you ooo because your tory make you look like mugu number one. which kind love make you dey spend money on woman wey you know say no love you one bit? which kin love be that.

seriously are you that hard up for a relationship that you would trick off all your money on a hoe who doesnt give two shi ts about you. hurry up and get smart before you waste your life on a useless girl

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So some dudes like this still exist upon all the loads of knowledge in this place.

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Seconded!!!

You are a perfectly example of a [b]MAGA [/b]wey dey pay,

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Guy ur are weak. U've been blabin abt wat u did 2 oda girls. And u need advice on wat 2 do dis one. D fact is if u dont sleep wit her it wil hunt u 4 a very looooooong time!

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@poster, There no need 4 PAYBACK o, because at d end u might eventually fall for her charms again without knowing when and how it happens.So try and forget about her COMPLETELY in order for u to MEET ur true luv./ Gud luck.

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@2sexy,

The issue here is not your experience. It is what you become from that experience.

You should have left her a long time a go to find someone more caring.

You tie yourself to her apron string and you pretend you have a better plan now?

Not all experiences are good for us and only a fool waits to learn from his/her experience alone.

I believe that you should concentrate on building a new future for yourself guided by God !

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So she did all this and u still allow her to come back! take charge and send the damn slut away, she doesn't deserve a place in ur heart. She is a LovePeddler!!!

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This is the greatest mumu story I have ever read

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how many times wud i say this hear, get her over, drug n raape her but since her case is bad, get friends to join in the Molesting n tape it,

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I could hav called u mumu/maga.

O boy u dey fuc.k-up o.just leave d damn LovePeddler alone,

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another maga on NL,

kai advice to all u maga's and potential maga's, Man up, build ur self worth men, if a girl doesnt want want to be wit u -walk away, u never , i repeat never eva eva beg/bribe for love, it should be spontaneous btw d two parties, u shud feel it and ofcourse wen in doubt walk away.

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190. I am not angry by your words. Infact I liked it because it gives me a mirror view of my old self.I can confidently tell you that I am a changed person now. I have to make this girl pay for what she did! I know what I did to one of them 2months ago. I just used her and kickd the Dam out. there is another one in my home town who I know to love me. am just going to fk and tose her off. I dont give damn anymore. but I have to deal with the one who caused it first and thats y am playing the gentle role. Infact ,my plan is to just be fking her to make her feel like, she thinks she can hold me with sexxx. She would be surprised 2find out that after everything, I still got married to a tall light skin sweet 16.

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2sexy please dont be offended

I have something to tell you

You are the most ignorant Hippopotamus that Gawd has ever created since the time of adam and eve!

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abeg leave dat babe jo.how many times do u want to be used

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her said that the girl was sorry& she regreted everything.me,she is just pretending because she finally realised dat most guys out there wouldnt give her free money like I did,without sleeping with her.I called her at night& told her that I had forgiven her,even when she did not ask 4it. I did that because of her friend and because I realised that I wasnt thinking clearly due to anger.after.I told her I 4gave her,the wanted us to continue. I did everything to let her know that she has no place in my life,even telling her that i dont have money to spend,she kept disturbing me. so I thought to myself that am just going to Zap and dump her afterall she ate my money.Now she is acting like a good girl.Is it easy for her to just forget the guy that deflowered her like she is acting now.i knw girls dont easily forget the guy that deflowered her,even in years to come. what does she want from me? i knw she lovd d guy becos she kept saying i like x while she narated how d guy deflowerd her.why did she tell me?

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@ 2sexy,

Please finish the story at once and stop this suspense, so that we canhave enough fact to comment.

Am standing by!!

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I went to buy her snack but on return,I met her with another guy. with the look in the guys eyes,I knew something was a connection between. I went upstairs to drop the snacks but remembered I had not bought the mineral so i went down to get it but to my suprise this girl had left with the guy. I came out looking for her but she was nowhere to be found and this was about 8p.m i kept calling her on phone but all she said was I will be right back until when I called one more time she then said she then said she was not coming back that night then i kept calling her. After much talk she showed up at abov to 10 at night. She did not let me touch that her night so I that if she could allow the guy in P.H deflower her and refused to let me then there is no point waisting my time with her. I thought over everything and realised she never loved me. So I quit the relationship in August last year. In March this year she started disturbing me to call her which i refused. but after her friend pleaded on heq behalf,I ,

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During the former postings you did, I was not amember of nl then.

the best thing you have to do is lie low on the relationship.

but as much as possible keep communication going on.

you can tell her your present stand on what she did.

it all depends on you , if you still love her.

don't rush to send her away, and don't rush to embrace her.

if she can do this, she has the mind to do worse when she lacks money again.

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Epa vbo ye he?. i dont know why u are still seeing this girl.see , i hate girls who are not fildel just because they need money.well, she may still do the same. domon.

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As we continued,I kept helping her with money. April 2009,I checked her email but only to find out that she sent an email to the guy in March.She never sent me any before. Then I sent an email to the guy that she is my G.F. the reply that came back shocked me. he said he wasnt competing with me and I and my G.F should sort ourself out. this was coming from a guy who once promised to marry her.I knew this because once calld him with givin my identity. the guy told me. So after I got thE email reply,i knew he had slept with her and dumpd her. Then in August she told me she made a mistake and that the guy slept with her and that she was sorry because she had lost her vaginity.for weeks I was not myself. Guys,you can imagine how I felt on hearing that and considering what I go through to raise money I send to her. In the midst of that emotional trauma i was going through, she said she would like to come to benin to see me. I managed to raise N10,000 and sent for her and she came. On the eve of that same day ,

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