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What Should She Do?pls This Is Serious:

I have keep this to myself for a long while but i can seem to get past it. I would not want to make this personal for one thing cos some of u mite know the lady in question.

The predicament started when she met this guy, She saw him as her all in all, She even saw both of them having a blast etc. they hung out, went to the movies, wined and dined she tried to please him in all aspects thinking is she was submissive like all Nija men want she would win his love. He too was attracted to her.

The lady in question is pretty, educated ,homely, outgoing, friendly, to the extent she has be compared to stars like halleberrry,christiana milan, genevie but she is not the voluptous type etc. Every guy wants to date her, she has beautiful legs, sexy body, she is a great cook, she gets compliments whereever she goes, Eg she goes in to a fast food joint she is likely to get half price for wateva she orders or even free sometimes, she is respectful and a really hard worker who cant stand men taking advantage of gurls who cant fend for themselve, ok enuf bout her because i can go on on on and on

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The guy she wants or hopes to get only whats to get in between her pants the dey hung out for about sixmonths after knowing each other for more than that but the guy insists on Test driving before he makes a decision, for the gurl pride is at stake,love is on the line.Etc,

She refuses so He calls it quits. Everyone parted ways. She is dating someone so she could forget him but she does not. she still hopes to see him

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let me tell u sm'in girlfriend'i bin in dis journey nd i seen young ppl make silly mistakes.He aint d 1 4 u if he aint gonna wai afta marriage like u said 2 get in2 ur pants!listen baby;u deserv beta,rid ma lips,BETA dan wot he's offering ya so pack ya bags nd baggages nd leave!mhm yeah,leave nd neva com bak!Cos dat boy, he's a no gud,i luv u bt i dont,only wanna get in2 ur panties,irresponsible,2 timin,snievel-nievel DOG!!! D-ANGEL SAY SOOOO!!!

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Thank youuuu and duly noted,

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havin a lover does not mean, that person is a best friend or someone you can share things with

get yourself a male best friend, someone you can talk to and relate with

when a woman has smone dat she can talk to and or pour out her heart to,she gets to feel a lot better afterwards

a man disappointed her, another man(friend) can make her feel and know dat he isnt worth it

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Wow we have a Smarty pants in the house, anyways remember she is dating someone rite now , also these generation of guys getting close to a guy would be sending mixed signals dont you think, I suppose that could work. do you think she should avoid like outings that she might think he wold be there even though she does not mind seeing him, things like that, tks

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this is a tale and i will not surprised if you are still a virgin wanting some encouragement from people

its all about you and not any girl

NOW BACK TO THE TOPIC

Tell " your supposed friend" to get close to a male friend ,take him as a best friend,and hang out with him a lot

it might help

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~ I look forward to that day when sex won't be everything in a relationship ~

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Thanks everyone for the responses as i explain further to clarify,

@ pink lady you are soo right but even after two or so years that they parted she cant seem to forget him, She still breathes his name as if it was the air she breathes, i cant say his own side of the story so he probaly have forgotten about her and moved on.she tried to move on but its not, The thing is this is her first time falling for a guy.little did she know she was falling in love since she had neva bin one and did not even know what to call it. She even confessed it to him but you know nija boys now they start thinking you are psycho.

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WELL,

I WANT TO COMMEND THE LADY FOR COURAGE TO CALL IT QUIT BUR SHE NEEDS TO GET OUT OF THE PAST.

I WILL QUOTE ONE OF MY FAVOURITE MENTOR BISHOP JAKES "THE PERSON THAT LEFT YOPU IS NOT JOINED TO YOU.YOUR DESTINY IS NOT TIED TO THE PERSON WHO LEFT".

WOMAN ,DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT, PLS DO.

IF YOU LOOK CAREFULLY YOU WILL FIND THAT THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH CURRENTLY HAS SOMETHING YOU WILL LOVE BUT YOU ARE BECLOUDED.HOWEVER,IF THIS IS NOT SO,IT MEANS YOU GOT IN TO FILL THE EMOTIONAL VACUUM,THEN GET OUT & ALLOW YOURSELF TIME TO GET HEALED OF THE WOUNDS.

IF YOU NEED FURTHER INFO SEND ME A MAIL AT admin@loveandsoulmate.com

BE FREE FROM THE EMOTIONAL SOUL TIE.

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And what if after marrying him,she notices he has an erectile dysfunction and that they can never ever have sex.?

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What if he is the one?

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@ poster,he will never leave ur heart as long as u hold onto it.You need 2 cry ur eyes out over dis guy,realize he wasnt d one,and let urself love ur love somebody else,i hope dis helps.

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@ Poster

She shouldnt give in.  if he truely wants her, he should be willing to wait

for the lady, she should just fashi the guy she's with cus she wasting his time

she has to meet someone else, dont worry if she does MEET the right man she'll quickly for get

Hot dude

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if truely u love d guy,then give it 2 him.

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Tell me, what is the big deal? Is she a virgin? I am sure she is not, if she could give out her virginity to one silly boy on the basis of naiveity, then she should follow her heart this time around.

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to add more to the situation, they meet and her skips abeat even after two years, She knows she wants him .she is at a loss not knowing what to do.

she tinks she should have slept with him and anoda point she thinks otherwise. if she had one wish it would be to be with him, Could he be the one for her, how can she approach this.she is dating someone who is and she knows is wrong for her.

She tried drinking but got her no where no she is concentratin on School and imagine Praying to God to make her forget him, he is a past she cant just wipe out. She is known not to fall in love or not to even recognise love when she sees it.

If ony she would forget him, every one around her saw the effect he had on her and told her he was a no good but nope it did not work, I think he wants to still play around becos that is what his friends are doing. Gosh if only she could forget, The guy she is dating loves her no doubt but her heart is somewhere else. I kept this away cos i dont know how to approach it, NL pls she needs urgent help before she goes crazy, in the shower she calls his name now his name is like the breath she breathes the annoying thing is he might not feel the same way for her, pleasessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss help , on the verge of losing it

HOw can she forget him, what should she do? lives are at stake.

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