i have been in a relationship for over four years and i love my boyfriend very much. we are thinking of getting married. the only problem is that he has cheated on me 3 times, and right now, he's seeing the third girl again!(unfortunately they work in the same place). he claims nothing is going on and he simply drops her home or picks her up in the mornings. i think this is too close for comfort, and honestly i dont think i can take anymore.
ive told him he doesnt have to pay such "kind gestures" as old feelings do errupt. we've quarrelled about it a couple of times (especially as he had been lying for over a month that the girl had traveled for good, even if theyve been working in the same office for weeks now). he insists he cant just stop talking to her cuz he thinks its childish to do so. he says theyre still friends, even if i am uncomfortable with the relationship.
i really do not think dat i can go thru this, but it hurts to think that i have wasted so much time. a part of me always wants to forgive him and help if possible. he says he loves me but i dont think he loves me enuf to understand that am not happy with their friendship, no matter how "innocent" it may seem.