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What Turns You Off?

What turns you off?

Men: what turns you off most about women?

Women: what turns you off about men?

For me I get turn off when a woman doesn't know how to cook or the amount women take to get dress to a occasion.

Now the floor is open, please no bashing just say what it is that turns you off!!!!

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FAKE HAIR!

if she's fronting with the hair right in front of you you don't know where else she'll be fronting.

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Ok if it's in bed:

Lying there waiting for magic to happen,

Chasing heavenly feelings as if that was all sex is about,

Pretending it's good or bad when it's neither or the other,

wearing diff colors of undies e.g white bra on black panties,

torn undies,

hairnets,

wearing facial scrubs or cleansers to bed,

wrappers across the chest when Ur hair is messed up and Ur sweaty just like that o, not after activity,

cracked nail polish,

diff colors of nail polish,

dirty nails,

e.t.c

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h yes, being bit*hy, gossiping in that very gossipy way, LAZINESS!!! Damn! how did I forget that.

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Uncleanliness; when a girl isn't original or interesting to hang with in any way; vulgarity (Now that's just tacky and shouldnt be confused with being nutty), being flirty with just anybody's, e.t.c

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When girls are trying to fake a different personality for themselves, from dressing style to fake accent. I detest these thing with passion.

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a fake accent, or a thick illiterate sounding one, i swear u cld b chatting to some random guy on yahooo, prob added u frm nl

the chat dey flow, he goes let me call ur computer, ur like what harm can it doo

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr brrrrrrrrr, u pick up

and the accent just hits u like bad breath

Bleep nooooooooooooooooooo, even as an ordinary friend sef, that zeal to want to know u beta go just fly comot like benin wizard

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[b]bad breath, poor grammar[/b] and self centered

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Rude/Disrespectful ladies.

Most times lil things turn me off . . . I just get turned off easily and once I'm turned off I rarely switch back to the 'turn-on' mode.

We can still be cool and all that but thats as far as its going to get. I'm trying to change this tho (I'm working on it)

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Thank you Dr. Radiant, Na wa ooo.

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Ladies: question to you all based on observation: Is it difficult or is it hard for you ladies to advice or info your guy if he needs help in with odor? My question is this: are you afraid of his reaction if you tell him that he needs to work on his problems?

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Bad breath, smelly armpits, bad hygiene generally, someone who's conceited and acts as if he knows it all.

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chics wit lying and bitchy attitudes

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ladies that won't admit that they care for you, Na wa ooo.

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a bossy i too know arrogant proud lying guy

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how kiki, how was school day.

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People who don't use deodorants

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Bad breath, long fingernails, stink feet

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And I dislike male chauvinist

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I hate bad breath and body odour, ill minded men. i hate it when men even after they are married still chase anything under skirts (really hate that). i dislike cowards and men that are not focused.

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A babe that wears size 8 knowing fully well that she needs a size much bigger, geeeeeeeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

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fat and lazy girls

body odour

dirty nails

arm-pit hairs

white tongue

inactive in bed(sex)

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body hair - armpits, in fact anywhere but on the head

sweat

body odour

small privates

too many questions/overcuriosity

kissing as if d point is to swallow ur tongue

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dnt like guys dat pick their nose with their hands, insensitive, smoke,cheat on odas, full of emselves, dirty,cant seem to kip simple hygiene goin and cant at least boil noodles, i also dnt like loud dudes , cos i tot d talking was 4 women. n i support kiki at least a dude s gotta know how 2 cook so he can assist in future

Pay attention 2 assist cos i cant always be in d mood 2 cook , he can help out

segun 111 u ve gota alot of stuff u dnt like considering dat u re a human being 2 and u re prone 2 mistakes.

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hahaha gurl u just spinned it out, nice

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Laughing ma friggin butt off

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i hate guys who are stingy, like ewwww, i hate guys who talk too much, i hate guys who are lazy

gurls, who dont know how to cook, i mean thats crap, wtf, why wont a gurl know how to cook, turns me off seriously, its a womans job, u ave to serve ur husband,

gurls who know nothn than shopping, like wtf, wasting ur time and money, theres time for everythn abeg

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sorry broda, I hope you help those in needs,

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It turns me off when a girl screams at me for no good reasons

then expects me to be a mind reader

suddenly they're nice to me when they find out I'm a rich kid

It's tough for me to be a kid

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Yes, but will you tell your parents that?

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well yeah but i'm d one married 2 him not my parent

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You are not been truthful dear. What your parents will say is this: why is your boyfriend/husband in the kitchen cooking? And do you know why they asked that? Because they expect for you to do the cooking not him,

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@segun

You are absolutely right. Think about it, guys that are childhood friends, went to high school together,

university, bought their first cd player, first car etc. together; then a woman comes in the picture

and destroys everything. Its so sad men.

A lot of times the women think their husband's friends would persuade their husband to go back to

acting single, but that's not always the case. Sometimes the guys are happily married.

Its just insecurity/jealousy or something along those lines. I can't stand it though, I really can't.

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GNature, the problem is that most women feel threatened after they got married thinking that their man would be persuaded to go back acting like single again. Yes, it happens to most of us,

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Thanks, now I can answer your question, as you know coming from naija if you are married to a guy and you bring the guy home to visit your parents, please answer this question truthfully, what do you think your parents will say if the guy is in the kitchen cooking for you?

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well i was born in Nigerian but i'm up here in America

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First question before I can argue with you and that is: are you a nigerian? or are you from the west; meaning European or american? The answer to my question will determine how I can frame my question or talk with you. Answer only if you don't mind please,

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i'm not takin it serious i'm havin fun too ive just got dos questions all this while in my heart cos anytime i try to tell anyone they think don't worry u'll get it later but its kinda kool to get someone to argue with

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kiki, chill out, we are just having fun, please don't be too serious love, I am having fun here oooo.

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i just hate it when men says cooking, cleanin and all that is a womans job then wat is theirs well if it is to go and work and bring the maney women are workin now so wat are theirs

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I didn't say that oooo, of course we can't live without a babe and babes can't live without guys too, Chikena!!!

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oh yeah maybe the Bible kinda proves it but u are not sure of that are u it is just a belief and so wat if we was made out of a man if we women wasn't made yall life would be boring and lame anywayz cos the bible said man was alone yall would av been aloneeee

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Genesis, tells where woman was formed.

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