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What We Wish/pray For In A Man/woman Dont Come To Us! Why?

I for one, while growing up (in uni) wished/prayed for a tall, dark, handsome engineer like my dad and of the same tribe as me, but now am actualy in a rship with a guy that is not as tall as i wanted, or even as built as i want (he is chubby and has tummy), dark &cute anyway but not an engineer (a banker), i hated bankers in da past, but i find myself liking him,

In the past, I had secretly broken up wid him over his 'looks' (he may have guessed) as i happen to be a very preety and flashy chic and widely admired, I alwaiz tried to convince miself that i cud meet d person of my 'teenage fantasies', but its him i fall for everyday.

Has it happened to any one else?? Please share?? Ladies? Guys?

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What you get is God's perfect for you. What you want doesn't matter and If you get it by force, you're on your own. Every bully wants a docile wife, he won't get one.

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same tin accour to me. but i came to realize that life is far from wat we think.so jst pray for God to give u the perpect man.

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If everyone got whateva he/she wanted, then there'll be no balance, can you imagine how many girls want to date faithful guys? If they get what they want, what happens to the unfaithful guys? So, it's a trick nature plays to maintain balance. Get used to it!

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Aww this is so sweet. I admit I go through these shallow times too, never forget the friends who are there to tell you. "Girl, you can do so much better." "Think about your kids."

Well you know what, sometimes the most beautiful people have ugly children, and sometimes the most strange looking people have the most beautiful children. We can't predict those things, so we should just fall in love freely.

As for your beau, that's sweet again, it's true he may not look like what you imagined but neither may you, some people don't like pretty girls and avoid them, as they believe they can bring trouble or think too highly of themselves. It's just a shame, I see my goodlooking friends collecting numbers with ease, and then I see my not-so-goodlooking guy friends having to go the friends first route and having to prove to the girl. But you know what, that makes them less dispensible, if you've proven your worth first guys, she'll have a hard time convincing herself that you're not worth it. Those other guys may find it easy to get girls but a bigger net brings all kinds of fish and trouble in.

The only negative is that when dating a guy purely for their personality, they are harder to get over because when your friends tell you. "At least you're kids won't be ugly." or "I'm so glad you've stopped dating that guy, you can do so much better." it doesn't matter because you didn't go for him because of those things in the first place.

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no, I dont date hunks.

I only watch them on tv. I dont want unnecessary hypertension and neither do I want to be struggling with him for the mirror each morning.

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And yes, it has happeed to me. Never dated a hunk like I'd hav preferred,but who's complaining. If the guy has the other qualities I admire in a guy, then, Im gamed.

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