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What Will I Do When She Calls?

i love her so much i give her money because she always says i am the only guy in her life .so i assist her (not once nor twice) but y did she have to reward me like this?she was holding somebody by the neck and quickly disentangled when i came into her shop.i have been a fool.i have never had sex with her,kissed her or held her.but i am the fool fool fool fool .i am broken hearted.she didnt see me off when i wanted to go.i know her family very well(greeting levels only).she said she has no boyfriend.what will i do when she calls me.i am never going to see her again.i close from work eveyday at 8-9pm.and i still see her.

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You still need to understand that you shouldn't trust anybody, She just paly game on you. Anyway she has just taken you for fool in which you are not, but pls when every she come around you again be blunt with her and tell without losing you temper that she has workover the respect and love you have for her, and made up your mind to forget about her, if she truly love you with time she will find you, but if not find your level ooo.

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My brother, if you don't tackle this from the root, then your problem will remain half-solved.This will happen again and you'll come out licking your wounds again. From your post, you sound like you expect her to be with you because you have spent some money on her. I believe this is the mentality of the average naija guy. When you 'spend money' on a girl, are you thinking you have paid so much, therefore you should get so much in return? Sometimes, you can't buy feelings. If a girl is not interested in you from the beginning (not your car or your house, - YOU) then I don't see the point in trying to 'win' her over with gifts. If you open-mindedly request for friendship and take a genuine interest in her affairs, then maybe she'll gradually open up to you and give you some trust and credibility.If you both then think you mutually want to be together, and you decide to go into a relationship, with the understanding you must have built up, the chances of any hanky-panky reduce. Simply because you have both actively decided to date, knowing the reasons you have made the decision.

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ok baby boy .I will hands off but she had beta not giv me the crap of i am her boyfriend cos when she does i will give her a good talking to.So you mean some1 can say i love you and dont mean it.i dont use that word anyhow except i mean it.GIRLS NA UNA SABI O.thANX NAIJACUTEE ,KATHERINE BABY BOY,D VAMPIRE. AND OTHERS I go put my money to better use .I have wasted money on her THANKS Y'LL

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let go. she wants to.

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oga senator,get a girlfriend,that one was never yours.

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guy get your life back on its groove. you saw her holding guy on the neck and you dey lament like this? what if you had seen him banging her brains out? you would have jumped in front of a moving trailer? guy move on joo. she is not the only girl in the world.

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heyo my guy,if you really love her you will forgive her

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hmmmm u said u saw her holding him by the neck well u might hav assumed they was doing somthing but guess wat my brodah u didn't catch them doing it so dat ain't nothing well now all u got to do is watch her closly it might not even be wat u think it is and have u talked to her try talking to her and axing her about the other day try and accept wat she says as the truth but watch her closely if its d truth u will know

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well, it doesn't even sound like u guys are dating in the first place.

confirm ur suspicions first.

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Have you spoken to her about your intentions and gotten her view on this? It seems to me that you made/are making quite a lot of assumptions.

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senator, the best advice to give u is to learn to love urself more than u do anyone else.

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