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What Would You Do If a girl you dont like Hits On You ??

guys if a girl you dont like at all should make a move on you what would you do ? give her an outright no or would you just say yes so

you wont hurt her feelings?? what exactly would you do ??

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let her know that u don't have any feeling for her and you have somebody u love and u can't cheat on her. pls don't tell her yes when u surely mean No

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Character over looks. . .

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@ Topic

Bleep and bail!

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u dnt need 2 b hrd on her,jst b friends wth her n bfore u knw it u might even gt 2 lke her.smetin u mst knw-beauty is of d inside;wen i say beauty,i mean it comprehensively.i.joey

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i will keep her,just incase konji hold me,she will be girlfriend no2,Bleep her black n blue she will get the hint , uhm ok make i confess GF no6

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Let me tell you what i'd do @topic, 'RUN!!!'

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well,in the first instant fear go enter me cos HIV is real,cos it is against our culture as an Africa man for a woman to toast man.

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just tell her that u are in a serious relationship, both of u can still be friend than accept her,[color=#006600][/color] later on u would hurt her feeling.

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I'll apply the 'Man code' 2 section 5

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i would so so do her. free meal from heaven

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simple, i will walk away. There is no sense trying to create any scene.

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duh it doesnt mean punching her

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@topic, after i straf her, i'll ignore her. dat shld wake her up

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sorry, i beg to defer strongly

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Just as my Dad do say, " the time is always now". just tell her now that its not possible, u are into a serious relationship; and please do it in a matured way.

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Turn her down politely.

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Honestly, i will say NO because she might have hidden agenda. My fear is that she may be looking for somebody to infect with HIV (i am assuming she has one) or other STDs. It is not normal for an African lady to stalk or hits on an African Man, this is not our culture hence any man who accepts such requests from a lady will never value her or treat her well.

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@electra i like your profile pic

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Hmmm,reminds me of those days------

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Everyone knows telling the truth immediately is always the wrong way to human emotions.

Come on . . .

Do you know how many suicides could have been avoided if people didn't just go with the 'I'm not just that into you' style??

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Happens all the time- be friends with her duh! she might stop liking you and have some other hot friends for you. lmfao

I should write a book

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Hi, though nobody is perfect, just be nice to her and tell her your mind that you wouldn't want any relationship with her; that you have someone, say the words in an understandable way. i believe you can make her go and can also make her go away with pains in her hearts. use the word COMPARTABLE for her. thanks, am Dave Smith

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I'd give her a peck on the lip or cheek n explain to her that i currently don't see her that way.

Yea, might take her for an outing like a meal but just that 1time.

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Try to be nice, take her out once or twice but make it clear by your words and actions that you're not interested in a relationship. Belittling her ego will only come back to bite you in the bum.

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well you can decide to concede then "chop and run" and then hope 4 the best

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Probably she want to transmit HIV and she is looking for a prey, the choice is yours,

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Simple,i will say a big 'NO'

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tell her n move on u dont need it!!

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@OP, chop de yam and change ya number :-)

Because, "oju la wo, *b* were o yato"

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Don't take stupidity for smartness by deceiving her. Let her know your position, but be nice about it.

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Try to get to know her and devolop the likeness for her. QED

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Hmmm, that is hard one, knwin dat i ll hurt her deeply if i turn her down, well i'll just say i am sorry!!!

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This depends on the guy involved.

I will personally mis-interpret her hitting on me because i wasn't prepared for it.

Unless she comes out in open and says she loves me and she wants to be my girlfriend.

In that case, If i already have a girlfriend, it wont take a blink of an eye to remind of her how much i love my girlfriend even if i dont.

If i dont have a girlfriend, she could be considered because likeness is something we can always develop with time.

The problem most of us black guys have is this :

We live a premeditated lives. Fantasy lives.

We set our eyes in the sky and forgot to check out on the roof tops for what we are looking for in the sky.

We look out on meeting Angelina Jolie and forgot that we could make one of our sisters look like Angelina Jolie by just loving her.

We are very very far from reality.

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@Topic: It will really depend on why i dont like the girl. . .  Mgbada dara ibi wu uru yenre dinta! The game that suffers an abdominal setback is a gain for the hunter! And for that reason, a hunter may argue that although he was targetting a deer, the squirrel presented itself and made it absolutely easy to catch, and although he doesn't like the taste of squirrel meat, he can still make some gain by selling it to those who want it.

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if you let her know you are in relationship, she would leave you alone

am experiencing the same in my office

this gal is just crazy about me

ve done my best not to hurt her feeling but she wouldnt let go(its been about 4month now)

I don tire, i dey bone the gal big time now

if you dont like her and she is not giving up

just carry face for her

she would pull herself together with time

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Obviously she will want to keep in touch on phone,give excuses and she will be let down gently.

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I tolerate n manage till i get somtin frm her,if i wanna play esp if she's featurefull,but tell her off straight if i'm on a gud mood. Ife a kam ga eme

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@THE.AMAKA, u complaining of poo, I laugh in Chinese, when it was first censored it was excreta.

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looool NL couldn't come up with a better word for shiit besides droppings? LOLOL!!!

i just fell over right now. that word is so bush.

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@Fl Gators, no it's u I wanna toast, i'm gonna toast u so much that u'll get burnt. Ready. @Pweety, dunno why I ain't feeling sleepy, i'm on ma bed though.

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simple

tell her u don't see her that way how hard is that?

isnt that what girls tell doods?

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Hehe! Been watched by moderators? Pweety, wetin u do?

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lmao, i'll gently let her off. if she doesn't get it i'll bcome a brute.

that usually dos the trick

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