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What Would You Do Seeing Your Ex-Boyfriend/Girlfriend?

Hey NLrs what would you do if suddenly bust into your ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend way? Would your mind skip, is that day going to be a bad day for you, is it going to be the worst night mare ever, infact how are you going to feel. NLrs lets say something. Every one is welcome to say anything.

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hug and have a chat den go your own way even ask for her number

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this looks like clear plaigarism bro

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If you ever break up with a woman and then run into her

later (especially when she is already dating another man, ), it

can be a very difficult and embarrassing situation for both of

you,

In fact, you will probably find it very difficult to

be nice and polite to her,

But you've got to try.

Yes, I know how tempting it is to make "smart-Bottom" or

sarcastic comments and remarks.

I know how tempting it is to glare at the "other guy"

defensively.

I know how tempting it is to have feelings of revenge,

especially if you're been dumped.

Or, if you're still in love with your ex, I know how

tempting it is to beg her to get back together with you.

Or to keep staring at her without knowing what to say.

But none of this childish behaviour will bring you

ANY good. It won't impress your ex or make her have more

respect for you, and it certainly won't help you win her back.

Here's my advice on how to deal with run-in encounters

with an ex-girlfriend:

1) If you have no intention of getting back together,

then just remain calm and polite during your BRIEF conversation

with her, and excuse yourself at the earliest moment. (So neither

of you will suddenly feel jealous or attraction again.)

2) Or, if you DO want to get her back, then act calm

and CONFIDENT, and talk to her as if you guys never went out

in the first place.

Do NOT mention the past relationship.

Do NOT try to "impress" her.

Do NOT beg her to come back.

Instead, just have a CASUAL conversation with her -

the same kind of conversation you would have with ANY woman

you meet. Smile and RELAX - even if you're burning inside.

Tease her a little and see if her responses are

positive. If they are, then flirt just a tiny bit, all

without asking to get back. Then tell her you'll talk to

her at another time and excuse yourself. Leave and walk

tall on the way out.

If you're with another girl, then feel free to

introduce her to your ex - WITHOUT telling your ex you're

dating her. Let your ex GUESS if you've moved on with your

life. Let her miss you. (In this scenario, do not flirt with

your ex, as it would be insulting to the other girl, )

Remember, guys, self-control is ESSENTIAL to

ANY area of life - including dating.

So have self-control and play it cool when you run

into your ex - it may help you win her back!

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Say hi, do a little chit-chat and disappear.

Break-up isn't murder.

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It depends on how the break up was. I may say hi or simply ignore him.

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Now what's the big deal about seeing an ex?

Say hi and go my way!

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@posakosa what do you mean by that

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@190 why would you start laughing

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what a question anyway i will say hi for old time seek.

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