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Ladies what would you make of a man that says he can marry you in a week if given the oppurtunity?

Guys, what do you have in mind for a lady you say this too, that is if you have been in the situation before?

Honest responses please!!!

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@ poster

it only occurs in soaps and sitcoms and the guy is usually stinkingly rich while the babe is cheap and/or thrashy

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Hey dude,

Sorry abt d other day. Couldn't walk my way through the bad network.

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Well it depends on how long i have known him.

If its a week, i will tell him to hold his horses.

I know of guys that know what they want that when they met their bone, they proposed straight away so that she doesnt get away from them.

If a guy i have known for a week proposes, i will be be tempted to know why he is in such a hurry.

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Ahh Tgirly

How you take know sef.

i wonder what some guys think, the desperadoness dosnt surprise me these days o

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Na today? I find it hilarious

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A guy once said that to me. He said he would give me the world or die trying. It was so corny. We had not even known each other for 2 weeks though I went to high school with his twin sister. I actually laughed it off but he did not give up. He got married though and whenever we would run into each other I would tease him about it and he would be so embarassed. Funny as hell.

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If the guy is on the same level as the girl, then he does not have to promise her heaven and earth, if the guy starts flashing, how would he know whether the girl truly loves him or only loves him for his money? It is only insecure guys with inferiority complex that use material things to woo girls who they think are out of their league.

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Wedding in a week?

Sorry, I don't do Vegas style

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Tgirl4real titi na u? How i wish u had imparted dat knowledge 2 me b4 my 2nd boyfriend! God! I was so naive!

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One more thing

what is wrong with our female undergraduates?

What are they looking for? they have boyfriends but they still want to hang out with aristos.

e gba mi, this are mothers of tomorrow and they want to give birth to future governors, ministers, diplomats.

I saw something today while hanging out in a bar of a popular hotel. Mind you i have to take my cars to the mechanic for maintenance so i decided to catch small fun. There was this girl receiving a phone call from her innocent boyfriend and she was with this pot belly aristo. I was shocked at her convo, believe me it was all lies upon lies and she managed to convince her boyfriend that she was in school. Everything ended with the three strange words 'i love you' and the case was over.

Wetin woman dey find from aristos?

money? fun plus excitement?? sex??

Strange world indeed

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@tgirl4real

If you politely turn a guy down and he doesn't want to let you be, then do what you like. Guy will always keep trying that luck and that is not their fault. Some guys do feel that if they keep the pressure on, maybe and i repeat maybe the girl may give them a chance.

A mature guy will always respect you if you politely tell him you are not interested.

Lies will always be uncovered

Men are liars so also are women;

Men are desperate so also are women (i know alot of women that are more desperate than men)

Situation is 50/50

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@busy_body

why do 'some' women especially those working always have to 'access' a guy's appearance before anything else. What are they looking for? I get levels so i don't just ask/talk to any girl, she has to be classy and when you want that you step up your game. No woman will want to understand your situation, they want something in a man they can hold on to. Good job that pays well, choice cars (some will even tell you they want to manage with what you've got)

If it is just any girl then that will be easy and women will understand but if you want the best the you have to flaunt your best. Men overdo with their promises but some can afford to do it while some can't. This is part of the "wooing" process. All lies will always be uncover later, serves who right? Me i don't know.

Na so i see am

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Busy_body, it's not in all cases that the guy is not on the same level with the girl. Some guys just don't think before they talk, while some are born liars. At the same time we have those that are truly desperate and can actually do anything to get the girl they want.

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It's not like that. Men often find it difficulty to approach a girl they consider above their league and resort to using material things to woo her. If you like a girl, go for her, if you don't have a lot in your pocket, tell her when the opportunity comes up, and she does not mind, hold on tight to her, you have got yourself a good woman.

Have you not realised that when men are asked to reminisce about their previous relationships, it's the girls that stood by them when they had nothing that they tend to like the most?

As for the question, I guess women have feelings and can't react in a brash manner as you men do, so we have to find a way to break things down to you gently. Or do you mean ladies are not polite and are rude?

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Na wah for woman, just because say man like better thing and he dey promise heaven on earth that one no mean say make una dey use us pose and denge.

One thing i noticed is women always find it difficult to tell the truth to a man's face in a polite manner. why is this so?

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Of course, it wont change things. I'm just marvelled at the level guys can go to get a lady.

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Don't listen to it, if someone told you that. It means NOTHING, his behaviour is what matters most. If you respond to it by being more intimate with him, it could have just been a ploy to get you to see him in a more romantic light. If you're not currently going out, or the best of friends, or have known each other for years, then the guy is just testing the waters to see how gullable you are, or he is really desperate for marriage, who knows he could have said the same thing to another girl last week, but she rejected him.

Don't let him make up your mind for you or rush you, if you weren't interested in him before, this shouldn't change things.

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@tgirl4real

it seems you have a small likeness for this guy that want to marry you. Don't tell me it's the first time a guy will use marriage or other material things to trap you into getting intimate with him.

Be honest, if you like him then accept his proposal and wait for the consequences of your foolish act.

Marriage is a good thing.

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Not done that before.

That will be being desperate on my part.

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Guys,

i think u are getting the question wrong. I mean what you had in mind if you have ever told a lady such before not the other way round.

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It reaally depends on your relationship status with this guy. . .if you guyz have been seing each oda for a while now,then its most prolly his finantial state dats slowing him down.

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So how are things with your bf?

I think the guy was just gisting with you. (please dont shoot me if i just used gist in the wrong context).

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If a lady proposed to me to get married in one week if given the opportunity, it's a capital NO!

I don't like ladies that are too desperate for marriage even if time is not on your side. If we have been friends for a long time that i can understanding and there is always a but reason to say a capital NO

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If a lady proposed to me to get married in one week if given the opportunity, it's a capital NO!

I don't like ladies that are too desperate for marriage even if time is not on your side. If we have been friends for a long time that i can understanding and there is always a but reason to say a capital NO

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tell him to calm down and now rush things. If you rush into marriage you will rush out, make sure he's not into the love is blind thing. It's all about time and for real time will tell if you want such commitments or not.

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Tell him your pastor prophesied about this and you also dreamt about this happening. Then book a next-day appointment for him to come and meet mummy and daddy and see if he still has the balls to stay.

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Well it depends,if u'v bin datin then it's genuine.But if u guys just met then u nid to pray hard.Taq it from a brother who shld now,u're caught btw a rock & a hard place.

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