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Ok folks ur thoughts needed: should relationships/marriage be about give and take? In otherwords input= output Or does one person has to sacrifice more in order for the relationship to be stable? The sacrifice can be intentional or not.

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I think my fingers work better than these rabbits and vibrutors - battery is not needed.

Phenix, u should beg me make I borrow you.

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Abi o. Through Different means and Techniques. But the LORD is on our side.No Old Cargo placed fashioned against us shall enter. GOD chose to  created us first so we have the Head Start

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And when they turn 30, they run to church to seek refuge and scheme their devious ways to trap young brothers like us.

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when u see 28 years old naija girl, she has spent at least 7 of the last ten years fronting and about only three years in a relationship

Shakara Ologe

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Nigerian girls and fronting!

they should change it from Nigerian girls to

fronting girls

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We have got options.

I don't have a biological clock doing tick-tock-tick-tock.

I can wait for the next 10 years to find the woman who would do these things, can u??

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And vice versa. You want it all but you never want to do anything to earn it.

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I cannot imagine life without men. Who else are we going to manipulate and drain of their "riches"?

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On paper the boy and girl should give the same but in reality, it is the guy that does most of the giving.Ladies just keep on recieving

And the problem with most ladies is that they think they are irreplaceable like Beyonce, such ladies at the end of the day will be 30 years old and single. Then desperation sets in . Simply because they have  used their better years to flaunt,feel funky and they always forget that it all falls down.

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True most men don't know it cus some of these women have tucked the guys head under the pillow.  Shame on manipulation.

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More often than not, one person has to sacrifice for it to work and most times that person appears to be the woman.

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Forgive me manners. I underestimated y'all.

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Well a woman can take the lead when appropriate and released it when the big dawg is ready cus only men are enthroned with the long stick.

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Most of you are right, but most relationship are not yet in the give and take mode. For women, be wise and keep your house (this requires sacrifices that women alone can offer).

For men, do everything possible to provide for the family (love, protection, provisions, procreation, partnership, and whatever there is that only men can offer).

Application:

If your man is weaker than you, then be the true help mate.

If the woman is weaker, then the man should live with her with an understanding heart.

If both are strong, let the man know his place and the woman her place.

If both are weak, may God help them.

Se Fini!

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what is it called?

a relationship

not a dictatorship

hence its a mutual thing between two people

therefore both parties must be willing to make sacrifices

irrespective of whether such a relationship is altar bound or not

however, in a marriage, the sacrifice should be everything possible without the loss of the individual

hence a woman should be willing to sacrifice everything except the things that make her who she is like her relationship with her God,

her family, her sense of pride in being a woman, e.t.c

same also goes for the man

relationships are a thing of sacrifice

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Give and take but at the same time know your place.

Appreciate and acknowledge the sacrifices given.

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This is a dicey one.

I would say it should be give and take. Both of u should be willing to sacrifice 100% ( talking within d confines of marriage now ). But if I want to be realistic, women tend to sacrifice more.

I believe a woman should be willing to do all within her power to keep her home together even if it's just because of her kids.

That's my humble submission.

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@ Topic.

When it comes to relationship, I think the women should invest more than the guys emotionally. . . .

while the guy should invest more financially and security wise. . .decision making too.

My opinion. . .please.

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