this question has been bothering me for a while now,pls what do you think?
Man or Woman, Everyone's GREATEST assest is their self CONFIDENCE.
It is what makes you get loved or get others intimidated.
It gives you what other people dare/ fear to go get.
It takes you to places even beyond your imagination.
You could be pretty/handsome, nicely shaped, brainny, well connected e.t.c, but without CONFIDENCE you actually attain/ achieve less.
to ur post i"ll have to include a small variation. the independence of a woman illuminates her persona. moreover the question the poster asked was not what attracts us to a woman but her greatest asset. in other words, the part of a woman which we value more. My answer and i reiterate, is Inndependence. Nothing is more impressive than a woman who does her own things and is responsible for herself. she then becomes an asset and not a liability like all the "blond like" trophy girls.
First and foremost; Her A$$, hips and her boo'bs.
When most guys set their eyes on any woman, the first reason that will make them take a second look is if they like what they see. More often than none, its either their boo'bs caught our eyes, or the gyration of their hips got our attention. We rarely look at anyone and say "Darn!! Check out that babes character", NEVER.
Second most valued asset: Their face.
More explanation: How many of us guys have ever been driving thru a hood or riding shotgun in your boys ride and saw (From behind) a girl with fantastic a$$ and hips and actually jog up to her with the intention of scoping her and just when you say hello and she turns around to face you, the next thing you hear yourself saying is;
"excuse me, I'm looking for Mackintosh street around here, please could you point me in the right direction?"
Thats why women spend so much time & money on their face. Facial scrub, Mascara, Lip gloss, foundation, blush, facial cleanser, eye pencil, lipsticks, hair spray, facial moisturisers, contact lenses, hair bands, hair clips, hair spray, e.t.c.
Yep their face is a close second.
Thirdly, their couchie!! Yep! couchie!! a.k.a Jerusalem a.k.a Kondo
Thats actually suppose to be their pricest assets, but all of the above leads there. A wise man once told me and I quote;
Since coochie comes factory fitted on every girl, ladies tend to spend more time pimping out the rest of their above named assets so that we could desire their own coochie.
Seriously, how many guys look at a girl and say:
"she probably has a good character, mind, etc. Therefore I'll date her"?
Probably 1%. Their main assets to most of us are what we can see and what we can hope for in the bedroom.
An added asset would be the ability to make rational decisions (most women lack this)
and that's why they're few in politics, leadership, etc.
If we have more Okonjo Iwealas, and less Sarah Palins, maybe we'll see beyond the t1ts and a$$