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Whatz Wrong Wit All Dis Girls Naa?

I'm a 28 yr old grad, yet to be employed and searching for a girlfriend. not as if I'm bad looking or ugly, the problem is every girl I try to date always believe I'm a playboy, when in fact I haven't had a date since 2005 when I graduated. They tell me a guy like me should not be saying I don't have a babe, cos they believe am to cute to say that. but i have been searching for a real serious babe I could settle down with as soon as I take up employment. Pls help, my life is passing me by.

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We can all sing that tune. . .

Not unless you set your mind right and choose your course. . .

You'll keep wavering,

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trust me if u were loaded, they won't a hoot if u were a playa. get a job first and then clean up and see if they dont fall over themselves to have u.

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no worry!

chase money first,

woman go chase u later.

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Life is not passing you by, you are the one passing life by!

If the girls you are meeting see you as play boy, that is their problem. If you are worth your look, then the right one will come when you are ready.

It is obvious they are not rejecting you due to your look or player like posture. They have made another observation that you probably don't consider as important. Even from the little you wrote, I could pick out 3 reasons why they are reluctant to date you.

In a land where thousands of ladies are quietly dying of loneliness, isn't it strange that a supposed mr perfect is singing rejection? Any rational mind know something is wrong. Check yourself.

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hmmmmmmmmmmmmm i will say keep searching n prove u not actually a playa

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Life is not passing you by, you are the one passing life by!

If the girls you are meeting see you as play boy, that is their problem. If you are worth your look, then the right one will come when you are ready.

It is obvious they are not rejecting you due to your look or player like posture. They have made another observation that you probably don't consider as important. Even from the little you wrote, I could pick out 3 reasons why they are reluctant to date you.

In a land where thousands of ladies are quietly dying of loneliness, isn't it strange that a supposed mr perfect is singing rejection? Any rational mind know something is wrong. Check yourself.

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Heh. Why do you need to settle down once you get good employment?

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I will advice you to get a job first and see if you wont get a girlfriend. Presently, your prospects might not be too appealing to the honeyz, so dont put the cart before the horse.

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