I'm a 28 yr old grad, yet to be employed and searching for a girlfriend. not as if I'm bad looking or ugly, the problem is every girl I try to date always believe I'm a playboy, when in fact I haven't had a date since 2005 when I graduated. They tell me a guy like me should not be saying I don't have a babe, cos they believe am to cute to say that. but i have been searching for a real serious babe I could settle down with as soon as I take up employment. Pls help, my life is passing me by.