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When Is A Guy Ready To Marry?

Oh yes here i come again, when is a man ready to marry? I wanna know peoples' line of thoughts.

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When his matured to care for himself and the new home.

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A Guy is ready for marriage when

-he has a well paid job

-furnished apartment

-minimum 1-2 cars,

-he lives alone

-phat wallet is always a plus

and he is ready to take up any responsibilities that comes his way.

all other qualities can be manipulated.

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When he feels is capable and ready to take d responsibities as a husband of the wife u can't just jump into marriage like that or else u wil jumg out of cause let say at d age of 70

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all of you guys/girls are just saying "this and that" in any thing you do, there must be happeness. so, i can say a guy can go into his life of marriage when he is really happy to be with the lady he will call his wife. anything more than dis Na Lieeeeee

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A man is ready to marry when he sees that he is matured in mind ie his way of reasoning,caring,enduring,accormodating etc.and also he is finacially ok.because not all men are men,some marry because there mate ve finished marrying.

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WHEN HE HAS 5 LUXURY CARS, 2 MANSIONS AND 3 PRIVATE JETS (Due to the materialistic standards of modern women)

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If actualy a guy wants to wait fot d woman of his dream, he mite neva get maried, i know how we guys tink,

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Hmmm . . . . .I'm tempted to go for the joke answer.

When he cares about what you think and listens to you.

He asks  your opinion and does things for you.

He is working differences out now.

He acts honest and never lies.

He tries to accomodate you in his place i.e heart,house.

He wants a kid from you.

He brings you to his family.

He follows you around like a puppy.

He is not so fast to get engaged with you . . .he leaves a space to to see what you think of him.

The list is endless!

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If actualy a guy wants to wait fot d woman of his dream, he mite neva get maried, i know how we guys tink,

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@ TOPIC:

When he has right motives in his heart, especially when he needs someone to cooperate with in serving God. God is ready to bless the such.

From, TIMOTHY

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Last point I believe is very important. There may have been many great girls, but only when a man can successfully convince his conscience and mind that this is the RIGHT one, and to be honest, this woman may not be anything in comparison to the others, he may just be tired of searching, or weighed up his other options or maybe lost hope in finding love, but all he has to do is to sign the contract, much like signing for a job, in which he promises to perform and keep up a high standard (because marriage is THAT demanding).

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When dem wash put for am.

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When you have money to take good care of your wife and future kids, Because this life, woman no dey marry man wey no get money oo. Na OWO and OKO woman dey marry oo. So even if you have money make sure sey your dick dey work wela.

Cheers.

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Shuooo! See question o! make I answer am,

1) Mentally prepared

2) Emotionally prepared

3) Moneycally prepared

4) Womanically prepared

5) Spiritually prepared

Once this equation balance, BROS,you are ready to marry! FULL STOP!

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When he's fed up up of having sex everywhere devoid of love.

When he catches gonorrhea, syphilis, e.t.c. five times.

When girls don't want to date him so he has to make up his mind to settle for anyone.

When his friends are all married.

When he attains the height of emotional, physical, spiritual, financial and sexual maturity.

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when his old enough to know what marriage is all about

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A guy is ready to marry when he is confortable financially and he is matured enough.

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C as All Of Una Just Dei Make Noise!

How MAny Of YOu Guys And Ladies MArried?

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M thankful for this topic though m getting a bit confused.

My boyfriend has a great sense of responsibility. He is someone you could call a family man. The way he treats people and even children, is a wonder to me.

He is ready to get married but the thing is that the money is not there yet. He works hard though but finacially, he is not ready yet to carry on responsibilities.

I have dated him for like 3 years now but then, i wasn't ready for marriage. I was giving him time thinking that by the time i am ready atleast he would have been settled financially. Now i am ready and he still isn't.

When i say financially ready, i don't mean he should own the world, but basics and a steady job or business that he does.  He should to an extent take care of the wife and the children that would come.

He would still make it tho but i musnt have to wait. There is a time to everything, that's what i believe.

RIght now, i want to work out of the relationship because honestly m getting tired of the whole thing.

Crucify me all you want but i need some honest advice. Thanx.

I am tempted to crucify you especially as i find my self in the same positin as the guy u mentioned i remember when my girlfriend  walked  (we dated for three and a half years) it was supposedly for something i did or did not do  but i knew the underlying reason same as the one u r giving i was bitter at first then confused because i KNEW she loved me ,however u sound like u still love him and that should count for something.Try to be a little bit more patient with him as u said there's time 4 everything .Take time out to seriously pray for him with faith the prayers of one that loves u works wonders. Reassure him boost his confidience (when a guy cant get through 4 so long it sort of affects his confidience in life and sort of follows him evrywhere). If u know you r dating a guy who  loves you,is reasonable and is commited to you just think when he makes it through where he would place you.MEN  r not silly for me you will be most tresured i wouldnt want to live with out you 4 any reason .

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when he is financially stable

when he is emotionally matures to handle the everyday complexities and challenges that marriage WILL bring,

when he is convinced to his rational self that he has met the RIGHT woman  for him (not just his emotions:they just blind you until the wedding is over)

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marriage is simply an item on a man's "to-do" list.

as a matter of fact, it ranks no. 4, after

nice job,

nice ride and

a nice apartment.

end of discussion

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when he can differentiate between like and love, also he is matured enough to tolerate.

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bros,

u yarn correct!!! notin else, love ko,love ni!!!!

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A man is ready to marry when he got money. Simple!!!

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Abuseay !

Abuseay !!

This is our own Abuseay !!!

Well, I can tel you are ready to maryy because you're a good guy

a realy good guy.

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Marriage signifies d beginning of a woman's life n d end of d man's life.

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Re: When Is A Guy Ready To Marry?

« #110 on: August 01, 2008, 09:41 AM »

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M thankful for this topic though m getting a bit confused.

My boyfriend has a great sense of responsibility. He is someone you could call a family man. The way he treats people and even children, is a wonder to me.

He is ready to get married but the thing is that the money is not there yet. He works hard though but finacially, he is not ready yet to carry on responsibilities.

I have dated him for like 3 years now but then, i wasn't ready for marriage. I was giving him time thinking that by the time i am ready atleast he would have been settled financially. Now i am ready and he still isn't.

When i say financially ready, i don't mean he should own the world, but basics and a steady job or business that he does. He should to an extent take care of the wife and the children that would come.

He would still make it tho but i musnt have to wait. There is a time to everything, that's what i believe.

RIght now, i want to work out of the relationship because honestly m getting tired of the whole thing.

Crucify me all you want but i need some honest advice. Thanx.

I understand what ure going through? but i want you to be a little patient with him and at the same time pray for him,am sure God will listen to you and perfect everything that concerns your heart desire.I hope u invite me for your wedding.Cheers Girlfriend

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he gets married when he is just 'READY'

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well, i must say, when he is matured and complete in all ramifications of life and most of all when he appreciates himsself and loves himself first, that is when he is ready to marry because love is about giving and if you cannot sacrifice 100% of yourself to the person you want to marry, then you are not ready. you can get my ebook, YOUR BEST LIFE EVER!!! and 2 free e-books by mailing to me at opeabod@yahoo.com on living your best life and being a balanced person in life

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I'ts better to get married to a promising man rich or not than to an already rich one because he can give you money to go shopping either in naija or in any part of the globe. He will definately know that you married him because of his money, then the after wedding palava will start setting in. Please read the this thread Don't Expect Your Partner To Improve After Marriage!.

Well, men don't want to get married because they are too scared of the kind of ladies we now have as singles. they are far too dangerous. these ladies can keep very dentrimental secrets for years, they want to dominate the Man, they compete with everything naturally given to men by our Creator while going away from the primary asignment given to them by God(Domestic responsiblities i.e making the home)

So its very difficult to predict exactly when a man should get married. But I will tell Guys never to get married when you don't have what it takes to be an husband and a Father. Financial capability is one of them, your mind must be sound, your spirit must be high, you must go before God on your knees to pray for wisdom which you will manage your wife and you children successfully.

Good Luck

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U READY FOR MARRIAGE WHEN U HAVE ENOUGH TO CATA FOR THE FAMILY. EVEN IF U ARE NOT ALL THAT RICH BUT U CAN PROVIDE

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its alll about d money , kudiiiiiiiiiii, no lie

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i love your sense of humour, but i must tell you that they are a mirage. wish they were real. now tell me, do you have a boyfriend. if you do, how much are yoou willing to sacrifice for him. if i pay you £2 million to dump him, tell me you wouldn't. £2million is too much sef. £5000, and i say leave him today today! and i give you the money cash and carry.

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i aint faking. you could have all the money in the world and still not be in a happy marriage. Real women know the importance of being financially stable, but they also know that money sure aint everything. You can't buy love.

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i know girls too well. a lot of men will share my opinion. is all about the money. stop faking. it has been practically proven.

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the best place to get advise is history. David did it, some old men around did it too. the love of my life was taken from me by a man whose money never finishes. she promised to marry me and spend her live with me, but when the guy show, story change. Can't wait to revenge on the younger boys.

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ok sir can u pls explain urself?

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money breeds confidence. i wouldn't ask my luv to marry me when i'm not sure how to provide for her. but with money, men, i can get married to 300 women and have 400 concubines.

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a man is ready to marry when he is mentally,phisically and phsychologically,spiritual mature. to do so,

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A MAN IS ALWAYS WILLING TO BE MARRIED AS SOON AS HE ATTAINED THE AGE OF 18.

THE CHALLENGE THE YOUNG MAN ALWAYS HAVE IN THIS PART OF THE WORLD IS THAT POVERTY INCREASES IN THE ORDER OF PROGRESSION.

THANKS.

YOU CAN REMOVE THE YOUNG MAN AWAY FROM THE STREET BUT YOU CANNOT REMOVE THE STREET AWAY FROM HIM.

ODIBOH SAMUEL ODIBOH

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miss pepeye, lol, no body thats another post, u can post that as a new topic, thanxxxxxxxxxxxxx, lol

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Ehie, dis ur own definition too much eeeeeeeeee, thanxx, i like it, but i dnt wanna be like that man,

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when he sees that small boy he used to send to buy cds has gotten a child,and he sits in the office and realises all his colleagues get photos of their wives and he is the odd one out.

and he can't go drinking with his pallies because they have got to be home by 11.

he gets left out and starts searching and then he knows it time to hang up those rock and roll shoes.

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When he decides to marry.

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when responsible and made up his mind.

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when he's ready to always jingle from 11:00 PM to 11:30 PM. And also give birth to bouncing baby Brats

Beware of Gold Diggers!

Love Don't Cost a Thing

The Story Don Change. LOL.

No Money, No Honey. God Help Us

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when he's ready to always jingle from 11:00 PM to 11:30 PM.

Beware Of Gold Diggers!

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A man is ready to marry when he decide that he needs a help mate (Woman)

When he is of age and ready to take responsibilities

When he is matured in and out.

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