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When Is Cheating, Cheating?

I always wonder, at what point does someone actually cheat in a relationship. When you receive phone calls from another girl, go have lunch with a friend or when u are caught on top of someone else. Different people react at different levels. So at what point is cheating actually cheating.

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Ol boy to hold body no easy sha, Chicks will always be there to oppress and torment

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cheating is when you are doing something you cant/wont do with your partner present. it might be having se/x or it might be reading a text message. if you feel the need to keep it from your partner it is cheating

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I guess I got thrown off when you said "get off my big nuts" seeing that that kinda only applies to guys.

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LOL@DIVA,

I am a girl, I was just fuggin with David! Lmao!

Check it Boo!

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Not tryna instigate or anything but I thought you were a girl queeneve.

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David,

Get off my big nuts, JEALOUS BISH.

Go handle that, Boo!

P.S. Why do a motherfugga that found one big word in the dictionary assumed they know everything? If you going to critize someone's grammar or writing patterns, PLEASE JACKARSE MAKE SURE YOUR POSTS ARE GRAMMATICALLY CORRECTED AND ALIGNED BEFOREHAND!

What the fugggg!

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I think I should be able to trust the person I plan to spend the rest of my life with to be alone in the same room with my best friend without feeling like something went down while I was away. I mean, is that too trusting?

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I hear you girl,

Check it out,

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It all boils down to the intention one has when you do what you do

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Queeneve, you have a fantastic sense of humour

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It's subjective really. What cheating means to me may be different from it means to someone else. Cheating to me is when you're in a relationship with someone and develop feelings for another. It doesn't necessarily have to lead to sex but sex with the other pretty much ties it up.

I don't think it's true for all cases though, Dave. Imagine if he's cheating with her best friend. She kinda expected them to be friends (the friend of my friend is my friend) but not sex buddies like that lol.

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Oh, I am in class? Damn, I forgot my pad and pen! BRB!

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wow queeneve, you seem to have serious problems with grammar.

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My fiance said that cheating is when I do something that alienated his affections away from him and that when trust is depleted. He said that sometimes when you dont have trust for your mate, that cheating because you denying them the emotions they deserve by not telling them or implying thoughts of others,

He also said that exes should not be visiting exes for which why relationships are destroyed based on old feelings and lingering feelings. He said that if you have feelings for your exes while you are married or dating that cheating because you are cheating your current mate total affections or emotions,

Well said baby!

He on the site, he just wont type anything,

Check it Boo!

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cheating is not mere, sometimes it could be more intense than a real relationship

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cheating - A mere platonic relationship with the opposite sex that you hide from your partner.

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Flirting while dating is cheating.

Do not start the fire, if you do not want to get burnt.

People have been hurt, maimed and murdered for cheating.

Cheating is dangerous.

I advise those who cannot be faithful not to make commitments in relationships.

If you know you cannot be faithful, please do not promise anything.

Girls and women often tolerate cheating, but boys and men have done horrible and terrible things to their lovers and life partners over cheating.

BEWARE BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE.

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true talk, cheating is cheating when you are actually cheating. You have to be conscious of it

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Cheating is cheating,which ever way you want to put it.

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yep this would be my own defintion,

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cheatin is when u are caught on top of the HILL

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When cheating happens

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Cheating is cheating when u're cheating!

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@ tink_sh

you have a point there, although i don't agree with you totally.

there are certain things you don't/ can't tell your partner.

it doesn't mean you are cheating

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Life,

If I winked my eye at you, that cheating on my fiance?

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If you winked at me that will be a lovely way to flirt, but when you cant tell your fiance about it then you must have cheated. Its not me that said oh its the writers on the post. LOL.

Just kidding, nice one anyway.

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cheating is cheating and should be avoided at all cost

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To me, "cheating" is cheating when one's partner is having physical /emotional entaglements outside the relationship

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It depends on each persons partner. mine views me to have cheated on her when i entertain calls from females whom she feels might be showing interest in me or when i text them. Its something both parties should discuss. Besides calls and text are the basic primary steps taken to cheat so i kinda see reason with her.

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Life,

I think you need to step back and look at the word LIKE YOU TYPED, I dont like my man, I LOOOOOOOVE MY MAN, and your friend was right, and smart

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[quote he said cheating is when u cant tell your partner about the other person, no matter if its a phone call, text, date, or sleep over. the reason why u ar partners is to open up on all levels. I kind of agree with him.

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I love this explaination!! Brilliant!!

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It depends on each persons idea of cheating. One of my friends believes that if her guy even thought of being with someone else then he has cheated already with just a thought. For me its being physical with someone other than your partner.

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queen eve, that was really funny. you must like your man. I like the way a friend of mine summed up cheating. he said cheating is when u cant tell ur partner about the other person, no matter if its a phone call, text, date, or sleep over. the reason why u ar partners is to open up on all levels. I kind of agree with him.

u know this relationship matter, one has to be really careful

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I believe cheating starts when you have alienated your affections, thoughts, emotions, desires, and feelings from the original party to the secondary party. It important to consult with the person whom you are committed to what they feel is cheating because everybody have different definition of cheating, mine is what I said above, and I wish my NIGERIAN FIANCE WOULD CHEAT ON ME!

I am a good woman and everything he needs is right here with me, now if he want a hooker than I can't help him, if I wasn't in a knee cast, I would do something hookerish for him after I say I do,

Winks!

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@Mekzie so do you mean every other thing is allowed but one should never be found on someone else?

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Cheating is cheating when u start falling in love with the other party. You can be on top, under, or were ever u desire but dont ever fall in love,

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