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When Is The Best Age To Get Married?

i'm 26,and still confused to the bone on what age is best, to get married.i know it should be different for both boys and girls.

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I think b/w 30 - 35 when you are matured emotinally, physically, phychologically and spiritually and finacially

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when u know u r matured

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WHEN I TURNED 21 I THOUGHT I WAS GETTIN TOO OLD BUT MARRIAGE COMES WITH MATURITY, SOME PEOPLE NEVER MATURE ON TIME SO THERES NO SPECIFIC AGE.

AS 4 ME MARRIAGE ISNT EVEN CUMPULSORY.

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these days starting a family is no joke, finance and some level of maturity is needed. age no really matter, cos i've seen several girls under 22 acting real cool and matured and some oldies @ 25-26 still feeling kool and acting like fools. Just think of the constant nagging and wahala, once you've decided that that's for you, then you are ready to get married. cos marriag is a different ball game all together.

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well i think if you see the right person and you know that you hav the means to support her and yourself

you can go ahead because anytime is right and i believe u don't want a situation whereby you can't take care

of her not to even talk of the kids you are going to have.

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marriage has to do with patience, and as the saying goes a patient dog eats the fattest bone. Don't rush because others are doing it. Make sure you have all the resources first before marriage. I see age as nothing but a number, for a girl max of 27 is okay, but for a guy say 30yrs. Don't be in a hurry! We all will get married.

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For me 23-25 is okay for the ladies while 30 is right for the guy and it also depends on the level of maturity.

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Lol, i can see dat u want to get it done at the right tym. All the best guy. i think 26 is ok.

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yeah, thanks i know its been a while now. what up with you? how have you been?

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Welcome back Thoniaslim!

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when your ready take full concern and responsibility of yourself and another person. also when your think you have found someone, you can be able to tolerate for the rest of your life.

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get married now you are too old not to get married aren't you 26? you better make your boyfriend start planning for ur wedding because you won't know when you'll turn 27, then 28 then 30. 26 is old enough for crying out loud

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Mariage has nutin 2do wit age.its jus d level of maturity of d two.sum people are old bt cant handle marital issues.i thnk its maturity dat determines time of mariage

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pls, whatever age you get married, just remember that its going to be a whole new show. you better be ready to take care of your family, meaning be financially stable. because that's one of the top reasons why marriages break up nowadays. so pls don't give in to the pressure from your families all in the name of just getting married. some families push you to do it for their own selfish reasons. you better be matured enough emotionally to handle wahala when it arises.

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My response would have to be when you and your partner are ready to FULLY commit to that level of relationship. Finance is a factor but it doesn't mean you have to start a family straight away - some even start it before. Being married is a public agreement n celebration of two people's lifetime commitment to eachother in Gods, family n friend's presence (a factor that is commonly ignored nowadays) nothing else.

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For girls, i believe the earlier, the better. You know, due to 'wear and tear' caused by time. As for guys, as soon as you are comfortable enough to cope with both the task and financial implication.

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As a guy,youneed to be sure that you can take care of a whole family,anything between 25 and 35 is ok in as much as you find the right chic because there's no point rushing into it if you dont have a gurl you can tolerate.

I think a lady should get married between the age of 21 and 26.

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Marriage for me, is when you are financially stable, matured enough to take decisions on your own and ready to become a father or mother. I don’t think it (marriage) has any thing to do with age.

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Yeah you are definitely right your age doesnt really depicts you are ripe for marriage.so u ve got to be ready b4 thinking of marriage so as not to rush in to marriage and rush out cos of financial problems.

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It doesn't matter what age you get married, what matters most is: are you ready to get married; meaning have you fulfilled some of your dreams may it be education, employment, vacation such as places to visit. Don't let anyone pressure you in getting married, those people who are encouraging you will not be there for you during the raining days, yes there is going to be a raining day because that is part of maturity and overcoming adversity makes you a mature lady.

So you are 26, look at the most successful lady on TV - Oprah Winfield who is older than you, does she cares how people feel about her not married, perhaps or perhaps not, but it seems to me that she is happy in the way that she is at the present moment even when everyone question her independence. Please take your time if you have to, but planning is the most important aspect of marriage, Good luck.

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75,by den u must av LEARNT and AQUIRED everythn.

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WELL I GUESS THERE'S NO RIGHT AGE OR RIGHT TIME WHEN SOMETHING FEELS RIGHT,

YOU HAVE TO FIND THE RIGHT PERSON FIRST,

WHEN YOU HAVE FOUND HER,

THINK,

AM I WILLING TO SACRIFICE EVERYTHING FOR HER,

AND IF THE ANSWER IS YES, THEN,

YOU GOT THE ANSWER TO YOUR PROBLEM!!!

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Don't put a timeline on marraige. If you believe in a age limit (Age Guide) you could end up making a mistake by rushing into it just because your perceived time is almost up. When the time comes you will know. I was 30 yrs and my wife 29 yrs.

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The best age to get married for me sha is 27-28 yrs old for ladies and 29-35 for men , at least by then you are stable a bit, have a career and thing de kampe.

Marriage today no be just honey honey, you have to have a stable income to look after a family if you no want suffer.

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Girl 24/25, guy 28/29.

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well I'd say a lady sshould be married latest 25

If she's not married at that age, she should have a spouse and shud be getting ready to tie the knot,

A gu y should marry latest 30- 35

It's okay for him to marry b4 thn though

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My dear,based on this days potency problem i think 3oyears 4de boys,25 for de girls.

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I guess when you meet the right person for you and all other things are in place--there should be a specific age when people shouldn't get married as long as you are over 18.

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