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When Ur 4years Boyfriend Gvs New Harsh Rules? What Do U Do?

After 4yrs of a serious relationship n ur boyfriend gvs new harsh rules, wt does ds indicate?

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some "rules" are appropriate others ludicrous.

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If after 4 years of dating he decided to introduces harsh new rules instead of opening discussions on how to marry you,then i think there is a problem somewhere.

I would be inclined to beleive he is gently trying to ease you out.He seems to be getting (or already) fed up of you,but is not man enough to come out and tell you point blank.

I don't think he is testing you.

I would advice you to consider cutting your loses with him,and moving on with life.

You deserve a man who would want you to be around him 24/7, not one who will want to keep you at arms length.

Besides, the fact he said his friends see him as a fool shows he values his friends opinions.He can't seem to think for himself.

he's not man enough.

I dont even think he's a man at all.

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Did you say boyfriend and not husband? Well, its a question for the gals, [color=Black][/color]

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^^

and u want to get married someday!

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He may just want to test you and be VERY SURE you can be a humble and loving wife in future, it has come to a point in which he doesnt want to tolerate most of the things he took for granted from you because he may no longer be thinking of you as just a girlfriend but his WIFE to be, so the decision is left for you to either abide by and prove him wrong or falter and make him have a reason to look elsewhere.

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I pray ds s nt a smbol of heartbr8k on d way

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Well, harsh rules at this time may be a decline in trust , interest , or love.

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Serious, let there be no disapointment after 4 years of a serious relationship.

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Poster I am sorry to say this, but girls keeping male friends can sometimes be a BIG problem.

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Itz yourz to decide! itz either yu abide by hiz rules or yu take to yur heels! uhmn!

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Dat i must nt kp oda male frends, u wl c him 1ce in a month, d care n respect s reduced because he said his friends sees him as a fool. Etc

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Exactly, throw more lite on d rules

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Yep! what sort of 'harsh rules' r yu referring to?

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they are always giving harsh rules,but the best way is to obey if u truly lov him

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Please give a bit more infomation on the "harsh rules".

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Harsh is relative.

Give us an example of these rules

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