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Fellow nls,

Something happened that i want you all to review and tell me if i was really @ fault.

On thursday nite, i met three girls outside an eatery and we introduced ourselves. I was really interested in d one called Esther so finally, i exchanged numbers with her.I told her i wld call her on friday so we cld hang out together. Friday (Yesterday), i called her and she told me a joint to go wait for her (It was in her area and she said she wld only take 10 minutes). 1 hour 20 minutes later, i saw a group of 5 girls walking in.

I wasnt bothered bc i wasnt expecting more than one person. My phone rang and she told me that "THEY" were outside. They? . I went to meet them and we sat down. I thought she wanted to cancel our outing but, no, so i had to ask her if her friends were going somewhere and she said no that they just came to hang out with her.

I called her to one side (i was very embarrassed) and told her i was not prepared to host a crowd and she reassured me that they just wanted to take sth light, so i relaxed a little and went to sit down again.

These girls started ordering. My God, where in the world am i supposed to get money to pay for all these? Well , i looked left and right, called Esther again and told her that i couldnt pay for their order and that i was leaving. She said i shld give her the amount i had so that they wld add up and pay but i refused and left.

Since that yesterday, she and her friends(i think she gave them my number) have been calling me and pouring all sorts of insults on me and sending me awful text messages.

Tell me where on earth did i go wrong in all this? I never told her to invite any of her friends along!

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Such girls are referred to as Economic Parasites at work.

I'm glad you didn't foot their bills; I'm really proud of you bro; unlike some silly guys who would in the name of defending their ego, shoulder an unnecessary responsibility; then treek all the way home to drink soaked garri and groundnuts.

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silly girls,

you did notting wrong jare

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Hungry I-never-chop girls

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Ahahahaha sorry but funny story.

And no, you did nothing wrong.

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Gbam, Ive done exactly same thing to 3girls like dat, they simply ate N 8,500 worth of food

and asked for take-away packs, Omo it wasnt a small issue that day ooh

the babes decleared me WANTED when i dissappeared, i had more than enuf of the money to pay

but for 3 girls to eat N8,500 Worth of food sent a clear message, most even ate shawarma for the 1st time in their lives, the washed,cleaned, and swept the entire eatery before 1 of them's BF came 2 bail dem out but it wasnt a small issue then, I laffed till now im still laffin wen i remember~

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what a low life group of girls!!! you did nothing wrong,

but next time, try knowing the girl better b/4 proposing a date

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u did nuthing wrong and this showed that the girl aint for u, shez just interested in what she can benefit plus people need to learn when they are invited to sumthing and they wanna bring friends along, they should call the person hosting her to confirm whether that is alright or not

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Hungry girls. .if i were u, i'll allow them to eat  and drink all they want and then cunnningly dissapear.

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You did absolutely the right thing.

You taught those girls that they should learn to respect themself.

I am sure next time they would have a rethink before gathering as cheap crowd in a joint.

Also, you stood for what is right without giving damn about the parasite.

Don't be surprise that the Esther girl will comeback like you so much,

ladies love guys who can stand for what they believe and not the other way round.

So when Esther come back calling, let us know.

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correct guy

tell them the next time they call to go to hell

and they should also learn to pay their bills themselves

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Don't feel bad about the text messages and insults.

And please dont' start to think, girls are this and that. u only met the wrong type.

pele!

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Meeting girls in front of eatry doing nothing u shuld know d type of girl u are putting urself into.they are hawks nd d girl aint matured nd it all depends d way u approached them.u don't just meet a girl and tell her of hanging out.u sending ha a mgs dat u hav it in ur pockets.u wud hav hav starting communication,on daily bases and before one week then u can ask ha for a date on ur joint very far from ur area and her's.u did al wrong man.thank God u left.

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